these two girls, (they are 1 year older than me) are saying that me and my friend were talking about them and that is SOO not true because i barely even know them!! but they wont beleive us!! and they didn't actually say they were gunna beat our azzes but we THINK they are cause they are the gangsta fighting type!! and me and my friends arent! school is starting september5 and im really scared!! they keep calling me and i never pic up cause im scared they will yell! ( i have no idea how they got my number ok.) this is exaclty why i hate school. because of all the drama and shyt!! im really nervous about going to 7th grade!! i just know they will come up to me and my friend on the first day of school and yell or pick a fight or whatver...what should i do?!! im freaking out here!
2007-08-21 21:30:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Forget fighting them up & up if you don't think your gonna win. Get some mace, keep it concealed n' when da bully bytch come towards you spray her right in her face (eyes). Use da self-defense excuse when you get in trouble.
2007-08-21 21:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Picking on someone younger is pathetic. Maybe they got your number from the same person that told that stupid rumor about you and your friend talking about them. Don't go anywhere alone just in case and tell an adult if things get worse. They will probably end up at some crappy high school and spend time picking on people rather than learning. Don't scare yourself to death and remember it's only a few months till winter break, then spring break, then summer and they'll be gone forever. And don't go jumping them because it will make things worse, but do fight back if they try anything. Learn some self-defense but don't use it unless necessary.
2007-08-21 21:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by h1u4sxda 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is get a restraining order against them have your mom take you to the police station for further information. This girls sound like they are jealous and like trouble to intimidate innocent nice girls. I bet they wont level with girls there own size they would be scared. If they bother you or lay hands on you they will get in trouble because of the police report you'll be making. Since they do go to the same school you might not be able to get a restraining order but they will tell you what to do. They cannot touch you or get near you you can press charges against them they are harassing you and your friend and it would look even better if you have her parents do the same. Let the police know what they are doing because if their calling your house without you giving your number to them and their yelling at and screaming along with accusations that are false is enough to put them in their place. Don't be scared don't give in to them the more they see you fearful the more they'll bother because people like them get a kick off of it. Do what you got to do and enjoy your time in school with friends. Talk to your principal about the situation don't ignore it and let the counselors know too. I'm sure the cops will tell what to do. Keep your guard up and don't trust any one some times not even friends you never know who can be back stabbing you. Their much older and can get in trouble so don't worry, do anything to protect your self and don't care what other people think of it it's your life that's in danger and all your doing is the best to protect against violence. Next time they call answer the phone and talk to them see what they have to say then ask them questions like ,"who gave you my number" and "why do you think I'm going to waste my time talking about others","Don't be calling my house talking crap to me I'm the one that should be calling you up to get things straight" " I don't like it when I get accuse for something I didn't say or do" ,I'm the one that should be mad not you" " I'm the one that needs an apology".
So don't be scared their calling you so you tell them to stop calling and that you don't want trouble cause your not like that go with your gut feeling and take it from there you'll know what to do and what ever you decide don't be scared your doing the right thing. If you get prank calls and lots of hang up's I hope you'll have prove it's them by caller id then report it to the phone company then over to the cops there is law on that and people do get in trouble you just have to have everything documented and persistent have your parents help. You need to tell them.
Good luck!
2007-08-21 22:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by amores 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bullies, I would certainly tell someone, girls can be mean, especially the bullies, and you do no need no drama in school. If they start a fight with you in school, you could get suspended too and for no reason, because the school will automatically think you have contributed to starting this fight.
2007-08-21 21:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes don't be afraid, tell someone you need to tell your parents and school principle and also who ever is security in your school as well. You cant go on with out doing this or they will try to ruin your school year. They are bullies and no one deserves to be bullied. Usually if they are gang types like you say then they are not going to do well in school they are F*** offs! So they are trying to bring you down to thier level, and believe me you do not want to get that low.Take care and do the right thing.PS it is very immature to fight and low class.
2007-08-21 21:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good to be scared especially if your gonna be in a fight. Use that adrenaline to your benefit.
People use to pick on me...when I was your age. I would come home crying..not wanting to go to school.
What you and your friend need to do is STAND UP for yourself. Who cares if you take a few punches???? Honestly. You guys will be know as being cool. These girls are starting with you because they know your scared.
If you really wanna some good advice...walk up to them (you and your friend) and confront them. They won't see it coming. Try doing it around a teacher in sight. (It will be broke up b 4 anything will happen!)
If they threaten you, upper cut the *****. I promise it will work.
You and your friend need to learn some fighting techniques. There's a punching move you do...at like your gonna hit her w/ your left and come full force (stepping into her) w/ your right.
Look on the internet. Instead of going to school acting all preppy and a non fighter...go to school w/ the attitude that you are the shyt....that you don't take **** from anyone.
If you need any pointers e-mail me tonim1250@yahoo.com
P.S. I weigh 110 lbs...but I sure in the hell know how to defend myself and stand up for myself. Don't let these "trying to be gansta bytches scare you!" They will shyt if you and your friend confronted them. Thats why there picking on you...cuz they think you won't do anything about it.
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF...IF ALL ELSE FAILS...YOU AND YOUR FRIEND JUMP THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-21 21:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well ill help you out. email me at talentedgodess@yahoo.com if you live around where i live ill be down there, but if not, i mean we all go through stuff like this just simply tell theese girls that they are getting beside themselves. NEVER SHOW FEAR. your worth way more then what your categorizing yourself to be. You dont havte to tell the principle, because if the girls find out you told, they will come after you again, theese girls are just looking for a fight. Dont go down to their level, but dont be scared either. It will be ok. its all going to be fine.
2007-08-22 01:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a matter of dignity right now ... so saying sorry and that crap will be nonsense ... try to stand up to her .. even if you got beaten again ... even if you give her a punch then had your *** kicked ... every one will say " Did you see the punch she took ! " no body will care if you were kicked .. because she is the bully .... so stand up to her with your friend ... and by the way, don't you have a noble guy-friend that can help :D ?
2007-08-21 21:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Luay14 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
the smart thing to do: use the power of persuasion and make peace because thats how you win. you will be able to avoid a fight (which i think you dont really want to fight) and not even break a sweat
or
you can work out and train for a week then challenge her to a fight in the back alley and win!
2007-08-21 21:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by trustmeiknoweverythingever! 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tell your parents first, then tell you school counselor on the first day. If you can prove that they are threatening you by recording their call, you can call the police on them now.
2007-08-21 21:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋