Friends - August 2007

I'll get straight to the chase, I've forgiven my friend for many things, but now she's done something I don't want to forgive her for, some of my other friends think I should forgive her, but I seriously don't want to. She's not worth it....

The issue is that she's pretty much asking for forgiveness-- which I would give to her if she outright asked. She's been acting like she never did anything wrong... My mom think's she's gone mental, but I know her to well to think that. She remembered our friend from 3 years ago. Basically she's being 'kind' rather than rude and hotheaded and acting like the world revolves around her.

Don't get me wrong, she's not that bad, but sometimes she's just so horrid!

Do I have to forgive her? Should I forgive her?

2007-08-23 15:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by Crappy Haircut Girl 6

Okay so i have always been Well-liked at school but through-out my summer-break ive put on alot of weight and now on the last week of vacation its just to late wat should i do im afraid of being made fun of i just cant go back to school some-one help me please! (im 14 male)

2007-08-23 14:23:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I get my friend for her seventeenth bday? Im guy, and were just friends, so I dont want it to be something over the top, but for my bday several months ago, she got me dance lessons with her, which was really fun. So what is a good gift that is better than like a gift card, is kinda fun, but not over the top like what a boyfriend would get her?


Would some charms for her charm bracelet be too much?

2007-08-23 14:17:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend, we knew each other for 4 years already. But then she called me names and punching and hitting me! It's like she changed! She call me retarded and she told everybody I like this guy which i don't! I don't even know the dude! Some advice?

2007-08-23 14:06:19 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i feel as that part of me my most important part fo me is missing and its tearing me like a paper thin paper cut ,so deep as a razor can go and fills a area as wide as and ocean thats too deep to contane me . thats how i feel and its like a bug that wont go away id say it like a depression that not even pills can fix even on the highest dosage and that no cure can fix that it gona stay with me . casue ever time i try to thing of something happy like things i like i only encounter ten things that make me suffer that wants to make me exploade form the inside out. my firends , my dad, my animals dead and alive, my school, my house i grew up in , all my friend that have grown up and have changed weither for the better or worse, my counsler from school and , my best friend that i like more then a friend- this song sum's up how i feel about this subject except that im a girl and that hes a guy hes very specil to me :-( :http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2OIUptg-5Iw

2007-08-23 13:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by amber w 2

How do they make your life better?
And how can they keep you focused on what is important to you?

2007-08-23 13:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by Luby 5

we fight about everything. im extremly introverted, and she is not overly extroverted, but by comparison, she sometimes seems to be. she wants me to want to go out and do stuff, which im perfectly willing to do, but i don't want to go out any more thatn i want to stay in, and since it takes less effort, i'd rather just stay put. she expects me to once in a while say "let's go do bla bla bla" the thing is, i could say 'let's go do something', but that would be my exact words, and that's not enough for her. she also doesn't like the fact that i always say im sorry. not because im insincere, but just because i say it so much. i don't even know what to do in this town, i've lived here for a year, and about the only places i know to go to have any fun is the movie theater, which closes before we get off of work, and a restruant, which is nice, except we are both on a limited budget. is there anything i can force myself to do? where can i find something fun for us to do? what is fair?

2007-08-23 10:53:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My first kiss was in Birmingham Alabama. I had forgot about him because I never got to see him. But I remember visiting
my cousin and I met this guy Mark that I fell for then and I cried all the way back to Georgia. I missed him so badly for a long time then I met my second love and he always hurt me what do I do now. I remember him now and he was so special to me. I hurt over him for a while. That night was special because it was my first kiss. We went to the mall, I can remember now. How can I find him anyone have any ideas, you think it may be too late to find him?

2007-08-23 10:19:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so my best friends birthday is coming up and I don't know what to give her. I want to make her somthing personal but not too lovey-dovey (i mean I am not gay). Just something to seal it that we are best friends. So what should I make her??

2007-08-23 10:18:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love pink and i also love sweets. i dont want any suggestions that include ashy or ash. thnx.

2007-08-23 09:27:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend since college is dying from cancer-she has fought it for ten years and now I see the writing on the wall. She doesn't talk about prognosis, and I don't really need to know. I guess what I need to know is how to best be her friend in the time we have left. We live in different states-I just want to be whatever she needs me to be at this point. Does anyone have any experience with this kind of this? I am so devastated and I just want to be strong for her.

2007-08-23 09:22:17 · 5 answers · asked by Dalice Nelson 6

I am in 12 grade! I feel very embrassed when I go home and they look at me from the road.

2007-08-23 09:04:45 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hubby work "friend" getting married. Let me also say that I consider this guy a work aquantice not a frined. Anyway at work my husband was given a nick name by these so called "friends" Even though they all have a nick name I feel that what they call my husband is dirotory, not nice, childish in additon to being a refelction on me. The name is stinky. Hubby was working on the side doing garbage removal. So any way I really do not want to go to this wedding and sit at a table with these people. I do not find belittleing someone funny nor would I be a part of it regarless of who it was. I think it best for me not to attend and him attend alone as I do not want the focal point to be my response to there coments or me leaving and walking out. My husband told the groom we were going but I would like to call and say only he will be attending. What is the proper thing to do. My husband thinks I am being silly and says I take things to heart that it's only a joke and who cares.

2007-08-23 09:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by Kat G 6

We've gone over this AGAIN AND AGAIN and she won't stop lying to me! This is what she lies about.

Whevever I ask her to do something she says she'd love to do that and she really hates doing that activity. So I meet up with her and we go do whatever then I notice she seems really bummed. She says she's just "tired." And she'll tell me later it was just a lie. We have constant fights about this lying stuff. When I try to ask her what she wants to do though she just says "You decide"

Through all these lies and tricks she makes it seem like doesn't really like me. So I tried leaving her a few times and not being her friend anymore. Then she begs me to come back! But how do I know it's not another lie? I want to keep my dignity and not be lied to anymore. Is it really worth it? Should we even be friends?

2007-08-23 08:48:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, there is this girl in my class that I just met and she has a cool personality but her personality seems very fake, and she doesn't seem to like me that much and she looks at me weird (like jealous) but she always wants to hang around me. She has given me compliments followed by a dirty looks, but AGAIN she hangs around me..I am confident but not conceited
and I can tell the difference between a real personality and a real fake one..Anyhow me bieng grown I said to myself just ignore that thought and just be her friend..Well, it turns out that random stuff would come out of her mouth (like about sexual things) and how she plays on her boyfriend and hides things from him. I don't want to be to judgmental about her unfaithful ways but, somethings weird about her and if shes trying to cover something shes not doing it very well..She like insists on hanging out with me WHATS her problem? I'm out of high school and this is very disturbing...Any life experience's similar to this?

2007-08-23 08:13:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in love with this boy and his 18 and im 16 but im very happy with screwin him im just scared to tell my mom that im doin it cause my mom might ruin mine and his realationship!!!! but my mom likes him too. and he has told my mom that he wouldnt do this kind of stuff!!! but i love him to death and wanty be with him and we have only screwed 5 times please help me!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!

2007-08-23 07:47:20 · 23 answers · asked by Hot Momma 2

I mean isn't college education about just more than getting a job? With all these college rankings and books of rankings.

2007-08-23 07:39:57 · 1 answers · asked by tino r 1

2007-08-23 07:26:34 · 8 answers · asked by edward k 1

The majority of my friends happen to be men. I am happily married and my husband approves. I do have female friends just less than men.Recently I was with one of them at a beach house, long story short somehow her keys ended up in my purse... I never drove, unlocked any doors, touched her keys she has 3 roommates that could have. Well shes blamed it on me, I returned the keys the next day at about 3, like I said I had no idea I had them.. She lost my number ??? so couldnt call me to tell me to look for them...so she sent me an email, which i checked at 2:30... basically what i am trying to say is over these Fu@@ing keys, I have received 4 emails about two pages long of her bitching... all the way down to my personal relationships with others, to how I raise my kids... I have said I am sorry I dont need this kind of drama in my life, its nothing personal we just dont see eye to eye on things. we need not continue this friendship. am i wrong? my men friends wouldn't do this

2007-08-23 07:06:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not saying that all girls want to be but I have 8 or 9 friends who always complain on and on about not being skinny enough like the abrocrombie models or runway models and all of them have attempted to be anorexic (Sorry about SP) and it makes me sick because average is good dont be underweight nor overweight keep a balance diet take care of your body FOR HEAVEN SAKE WERE ONLY IN 9 TH GRADE AND ALREADY YOUR TRYING TO HAVE A EATING DISORDER TO LOOK LIKE THOSE HALF DEAD MODELS, thats what I tell them and most of them are under 120 lb, I'm 116 and proud to be healthy, but why do teenage girls want to be bone skinny so bad, my friend says guys like skinny girls better and I know for a fact thats not true thats like saying only Blondes are hott, sheesh people these days sometimes you want to slap them and tell them to get a life?

2007-08-23 06:46:29 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends son is autistic and deaf he wants a job but its very hard to find somewere for him to work. They have a old house that he really wants to finish fixing up so he can have his own place. my friend and her husband dont have enough money to finish it though, so if you could come up with some ideas we would be very greatful !! oh yeah we came up with the idea to make and sale cookies and brownies, thanks for your help to find some donations.

2007-08-23 05:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by sunshine 3

I am not a cold person. I'm very warm and caring. I think with my heart first and my head second. I'm passionate and loving. But I can't let myself grieve for my losses. I just took a college course on Death and Dying. I've read books by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. I know grief is natural, and I recognize the stages of it. I can lecture someone else on the importance of grieving, but I can not seem to do it. I have suffered so much loss in my life. More than an average 36 year old should have experienced. BUT I CAN'T GRIEVE. I'm so afraid of it ruining me, my outlook on life. Counseling hasn't helped. I can't seem to even talk about it. With a total stranger, it's impossible. With closest friends, I can talk a little, but not too much. I just feel very lost, and very lonely right now.

2007-08-23 04:21:05 · 9 answers · asked by lotus princess 2

2007-08-23 03:38:04 · 7 answers · asked by aftabahmed99 1

im 14 and my two neighbors and friends are 15 a girl and a guy the guy and girl like each other but aren’t dating and everything’s cool with us but she started hanging out with some new people a 18 year old and a guy who used to fight for money the 18 year ole got her addicted to cigarettes and alcohol and she’s getting growned all the time because she’s getting how at like 1:00 in the morning a week or so ago we complained to her and she swore shed stop drinking and smoking and a few days ago i saw her smoking but later when i asked her if she had smoked she said no and i found out from i friend that she’s smoked every day and lied to us so me her and the my other friend were going out on something we do sometimes(skating prank calling) nothing serious but she invited the18 year old (who also likes her) we told her not to but she did anyway and the i got mad and told her i know she was lying to us so she call up the fighter guy who starts threading and she left what should i do?

2007-08-23 03:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by catcatcat5 1

I had this friend who I had stopped talking to because she was always putting my boyfriend down (her husband is an ex-junkie) and bragging about what she has,the neighborhood she lives in etc.She called me out of the blue and she's just as annoying as ever.

2007-08-23 03:25:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am mail and am gating fater, I don't want that, what should I do

2007-08-23 02:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by BABANA 1

Help! my birthday is coming up, but i dont know what to do ? i have no money and my mates are depending on me to have a party of some sort. Crisis, what shall i do?

2007-08-23 00:45:18 · 16 answers · asked by baby phat 2

so my friend is bi and recently told me her biggest crush has always been on her hot older sister, which i think is sick. should i warn her sister or keep my mouth shut?

2007-08-23 00:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by stephanie_the_fish 1

Most guys have someone they can consider as a good buddy/pal/mate. I've never had a best friend before, and I find it easier to relate to girls than guys. I'm not athletic or into sports like most guys and I'm quite intellectual and like reading, music and movies. I'm also quite sensitive and emotional. Most guys are so unemotional and uncommunicative.
Is there anyway I can make it easier to relate to guys and find one/two close friends? I'm only 20 y.o.

2007-08-22 23:08:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

she says she is going to school for 8 days and wants me to look after them after they come from school. so it will be 3 hours everyday for 8 days. I am between job right now. so i will be home all the time. she says can i do it as favor and she doesnt have money to pay me. I said I will do it at that time but now I am thinking I feel like she is using me. Am I wrong? ( It's 5 kids)

2007-08-22 22:49:28 · 60 answers · asked by Jiny 1