im in love with this boy and his 18 and im 16 but im very happy with screwin him im just scared to tell my mom that im doin it cause my mom might ruin mine and his realationship!!!! but my mom likes him too. and he has told my mom that he wouldnt do this kind of stuff!!! but i love him to death and wanty be with him and we have only screwed 5 times please help me!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!
2007-08-23 07:47:20 · 23 answers · asked by Hot Momma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and i lost my virginty to this boy
2007-08-23 07:48:09 · update #1
and yes we are usin protection i just think i should tell my mom in case i lose my trust and no i broke up with this dude 4 weeks ago and im tryin to get him back but he wont give me a second chance and with me havin sex with him it aint getttin him back like that and im not tryin to have sex with him just to get him back im just doing this cause i really love him and really wanty be with him
2007-08-23 08:05:45 · update #2
and he wont up and disappear if i get preganant dne talked to him
2007-08-23 08:06:37 · update #3
Baby girl, consider yourself VERY fortunate that you have not become a mother. Perhaps then you would change your thinking. ONLY 5 x, you say??? It ONLY takes once to conceive and change your life entirely. Do you think that it CANT happen to you??? You are toying with FIRE, and you WILL get burned.
I suggest that you please speak with your mom. I'm confident she will provide you with some very very valuable information.
2007-08-23 07:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad your happy with him, I wish you would of waited a little longer though before you were intimate with him. As far as telling your mom, you do realize you are under age to begin with and if she gets upset with you b/c of that she could file charges.
I would keep it on the down low for awhile. In time she will just know. I never told my mom that I was being intimate and she didn't know until she saw some pills in my room more then once. I tried to play it off that I was holding them for a friend but eventually she would look at me and say my hips were getting wider lol. And so on...she was disappointed but she wasn't upset. She respected my decision because she knows I'm a smart girl and wasn't going around the town having sex.
My main concern is you being underage. Just becareful and in time if you really feel you want to tell your mom, do so, but not yet...she will find out eventually.
best wishes
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2007-08-23 14:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by artsygal_cc86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was at a restaurant with my parents and friend when my dad went to the mens room I told my (tipsy) mom that I had lost my virginity to my then boyfriend. She cried a Little but eventually got over it because she was happy that I confided in her. Since then My mom and I have talked about sex more openly and I'm happy that I know I can talk to her about everything.
I suggest a place where you are both sitting and talking or eating luch or dinner and just tell her and let her know you are smart about it.
2007-08-23 14:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by <<LIZARD>> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on what state you are in, the two of you "screwing" could be illegal due to your age. If you do not discuss your intimate issues with your mother, and she finds out some other way - she could, depending on the laws of your state, have him arrested, and he can be labeled as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Is your "screwing" worth that?
If you can't even discuss the matter on here with some tact - then you are far too immature to be having sexual relations with someone in the first place.
Hopefully the two of you are using protection, but exactly what have the two of you discussed if something happens. if it comes off or breaks - and you find yourself pregnant?
You are best to talk to your mother now, before it has to be "mom, I'm pregnant - and my boyfriend disappeared when he found out"
2007-08-23 14:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only 5? Well, that changes everything.... Not really. It's up to you whether you want to tell your mom. I can say, Tell Her! Tell Her! but in the end it'll be you telling her, and you alone. None of us will be beside you to help you. But I think you should tell her. Never lose tough with your parents. You never know how much they mean to you till they're gone, and they won't come back.
2007-08-23 14:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by Metal Paw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't tell my mom, and i ended up with a baby at sixteen. things worked out ok for me, but you need to make sure you're ready to make decisions like that. i missed out on a lot of stuff because i chose to "screw" around. o and btw the father of my baby is long gone. i booted him to the curb two yrs later. you probably won't wanna touch this guy with a ten-foot-pole by the time your twenty. make sure you dont accidently make a reason to look at this guys face for the rest of your life unless you know for sure that your ready to.
2007-08-23 14:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by judester 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother will find out. When she does, she will not trust you as much, and that is why you should go ahead and tell her. If nothing else, just tell her that you are thinking of doing it. That way she will know something and you will stay out of trouble when she does find out. She will be glad that you came to her and she will respect you more by doing so.
2007-08-23 14:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you two are using protection b/c it could turn really UGLy if not. Sit down and have a long talk with your mom she probably knows alreay but haven't said anything about it to you yet
2007-08-23 14:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as u are being responsible then I dont think u have to tell your mother......she would proably just get upset anyway but maybe when u get older u can tell her things like this and she will understand.
2007-08-23 14:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by nashvillekat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16, not being funny.. you don't sound very mature.. to use such a term as that, kinda points to that.
I hope your sensible enough to be using protection..
or you will have to tell your mum, shes gonna be a grand mother at some point..
2007-08-23 15:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by junglejungle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋