im 14 and my two neighbors and friends are 15 a girl and a guy the guy and girl like each other but aren’t dating and everything’s cool with us but she started hanging out with some new people a 18 year old and a guy who used to fight for money the 18 year ole got her addicted to cigarettes and alcohol and she’s getting growned all the time because she’s getting how at like 1:00 in the morning a week or so ago we complained to her and she swore shed stop drinking and smoking and a few days ago i saw her smoking but later when i asked her if she had smoked she said no and i found out from i friend that she’s smoked every day and lied to us so me her and the my other friend were going out on something we do sometimes(skating prank calling) nothing serious but she invited the18 year old (who also likes her) we told her not to but she did anyway and the i got mad and told her i know she was lying to us so she call up the fighter guy who starts threading and she left what should i do?
2007-08-23 03:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by catcatcat5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try and help her
the smokig is getting to her head
wow thats messed up that she would get that guy on you guys
maybe shes not such a good friend
just be the better person
dont get nobody to threaten her (haha)
but um yeah
just see how things are
2007-08-23 03:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't respond, it's because she thinks she's being just toooo cool being recognized and pursued by older people and it's her way of rebelling against her folks and trying to impress you. She'll probably end up in trouble big time if she doesn't change. If the fighter guy is threatening you, take it to the police, since he's probably a delinquent on probation or parole and needs to be corrected. And the smoking and drinking is illegal for your 15-yr old friend anyway, so she should be told she can get in trouble for that big time.
2007-08-23 10:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that you can't control the person who drinks and smokes. the only person you can control is yourself.
you don't have to associate with people who do things you disapprove of, either.
take care.
2007-08-23 10:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to help her
2007-08-23 10:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by maind master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋