We've gone over this AGAIN AND AGAIN and she won't stop lying to me! This is what she lies about.
Whevever I ask her to do something she says she'd love to do that and she really hates doing that activity. So I meet up with her and we go do whatever then I notice she seems really bummed. She says she's just "tired." And she'll tell me later it was just a lie. We have constant fights about this lying stuff. When I try to ask her what she wants to do though she just says "You decide"
Through all these lies and tricks she makes it seem like doesn't really like me. So I tried leaving her a few times and not being her friend anymore. Then she begs me to come back! But how do I know it's not another lie? I want to keep my dignity and not be lied to anymore. Is it really worth it? Should we even be friends?
2007-08-23 08:48:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she's trying to be good friend and no offence ur being a lil bit chy towards her no offence... but she wants to do wot u want and doesnt say no for her benfit so she is a really good friend i wouldnt lose this good friend over sumthing so dumb no offence.
2007-08-23 08:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kallee n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is lying to you about all the stuff she has been saying and not doing what she says that she will do then she is not really a good friend and you know it just are really confused about that it , She needs to be more clear about what is that she is wanting out of the friendship and stop the run around with you, although why do you keep hanging out with her when she keeps doing the same thing over and over again, it is only going to make the friendship between you and her worse, you have to let her know that you want o be friends with her if it were not with the lying and tricks that she is trying to pull on you and you want her to either change what she is doing or end the friendship, you have to decide what it is going to be, Either way you put it you have to do what is best for you and you do not need friends to lie to you and pull tricks on you however you want to give everyone a fair chance at a decent friendship, so make sure it is the right decision.
2007-08-23 16:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, repeated lying...not much in common...constant fights...
You need to see her now and again but not rely on her solely to be your best friend...find more than one friend to do things with - open up your world to new possibilities and new people hon...quit fighting what appears to be, a losing battle!
Grace
2007-08-23 15:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋