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Question

So tell me....?

I am a very confidant girl, I don't care about what people think and I don't listen to their bad thoughts of me, and lately I have been super nice to people and super positive about everything I do, its actually been really good, but I have my opinions and I like what I like when people talk to me they try to push their stuff onto me and make me think like them, I have never changed what I thought for anyone and I am not about to start now, but since I have started being nice to everyone (not back into school yet but people I have hung out with) are saying I am being super nice to people because I want attention from their boyfriends, Idc that they are saying these things but how stupid is that? haha...I read a book that showed me that be the normal "pretty thin girl" isn't everything I mean no affense to the pretty thin girls lol, but that book may have saved my life..how anyone read anything that has helped them this much lately?

Answer 1

A million Little Pieces - James Frey (read this book!) lol I loved it. which book where you talking about in your question?

Some people say all politeness is B.S.
I disagree, it feels good to be a decent person sometimes. u kno?

Don't listen to your friends cuz you know how you feel more than they do.

Answer 2

people can't "make you think like them"... it's impossible.

many times people have different thoughts and opinions about a variety of subjects, and we are all FREE TO think for ourselves. so you continue to think for youself...

sometimes people give us ideas and our thoughts can change, but it's not something they have forced on us. our opinions and ideas change because we use our brains.

there is no use worrying about what other people say or think of you. if you do your best and treat others as you wish to be treated, that is the right way to live. people have been talking behind each other's backs for thousands of years -- it's not bound to change now!

being super nice all of the time has to be quite stressful... just be YOU.. we all have great days and some bad... most of us dno't go out of our way to be hateful or mean, anyway.

being pretty and thin isn't "normal", it's how SOME people are though. i'm sure you're just as pretty...

and who wants to go around looking like their bones are always clacking together?

having confidence and good self esteem is great.. doing productive things with that confidence is even better.

worry about youself and your own accomplishments...

take care too.