what do you do when you tell a friend that you like some one andshesays she doesnt then dates him is she really your friend....i have known her since kindergarten
2007-08-21 17:18:19 · 19 answers · asked by kaitlin c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NOT! A true friend would not risk losing you or hurting your feelings over a guy.
2007-08-21 17:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by saucylatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm somewhat confused. You told your friend that you had interest in someone, she says she doesn't like them. Did you just stop the interest because your friend told you to. Or did you continue to have interest and then find out your so-called friend is now dating the person you wanted to date? I'm sorry if you have known this person since kindergarten. How old are you know? Sound like your friend had interest of her own! You may tell your friend how they made you feel. And that in the future if she'd be honest with you. f things continue this way I'd have to say you don't have a real friend just an acquaintance.
2007-08-22 00:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends don't go for guys their friends like...no matter how hot he is,,,no matter how much he likes you, and no matter what he tries to do to get with you. It's a major NO NO! And one of the unspoken rules between friends. There are so many other guys out there. At the very least she could have let you kind of know she thought he was cute so wouldn't look like such a fool. I remember when me and my friend would like a guy we would tell eachother it was up to the guy who HE picked, and the other one he didn't like couldn't get mad. That's one way to deal with situations like this. But she didn't respect you either obviously. Talk to her about it and ask her why she is so wishy washy!
2007-08-22 00:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you believed her when she said that she doesn't like him? One thing that I have noticed a lot between girlfriends are situations where one of them likes a guy and the other friend doesn't really care. In reality, and in most cases, that other friend is going to feel like she is losing in some secret competition for a guy. Girls get competitive...there's no denying it. Friend or not, they do that. All you need to do with tell her what her problem is and if she really likes him or if she is just trying to make herself feel like a "winner."
2007-08-22 00:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had friends do that to me and I dont think of them as true friends because if you cant trust them then what is the point of being friends. However you should tell her how you feel. If she is truely a friend then she will be willing to give him up. Not because you are asking her to but because you are more important to her than he is.
2007-08-22 00:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by osborn_tr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it over with her. maybe things aren't as they appear.
she might be your friend and she might not be your friend any more. Just cause you have known a person for a long time doesn't make them your friend. Next time don't tell her who you like.
2007-08-22 00:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by shoptheflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called bro's before ho's
i guess since you're a girl, it's girlfriends before boyfriends, your friend decided to disrepect you by lying to you and top of that go out with the person you like despite the fact that she knew previously
2007-08-22 00:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by mc_muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously Not!!!! You should let her know how you feel. If she apologizes and you think she is sincere, then forgive her and forget about it. If not, then maybe she is not so good a friend and you need to move on. Good Luck!
2007-08-25 23:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by DD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably didn't date this guy to annoy you but it doesn't sound like you guys are good friends at all. At least you know now that she is not worthy to have you as a friend.
2007-08-22 00:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Krazy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already lnow the ansewer to this,your so called friend is a cheat,and liar.Trust me you can have better people in your life,cut her loose.you'll feel a lot better in the end.
2007-08-22 00:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋