Family - December 2006

I have a very ill sister she's 13, "mentaly ill ", she acts and thinks like a 2 years old child, her medical life is very long, what i want to say is that we are very close together because she is the only sister that I have, all the time she wants to be near me and she gets upset if I talk with somebody else in her presence, upset means peating everybody around, shouting and destroying everything, when she is calm she's very funny she's just like an angle and she's very sensitive she's always laughing , she keeps saying how much she loves us and her kisses never stops many people suggested to put her in institution but when we look at her and how much we love her we just could'nt especialy Mum she'll never agree, the problem is I'm getting married in few months and I know what will be the result if she comes, what can I do?

2006-12-27 09:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by sahar el2amar 2

please give me one of the good answer that i can change my life back and focus to the future.

2006-12-27 09:19:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-27 09:14:58 · 4 answers · asked by fishingcanbfun 2

We are still married. Husband took two youngest kids over 5 years ago. Just found them...have them in my custody now for xmas but he wants them back. What can I do? I don't want to put them through the same thing he did 5 years ago. My one year is now 6 years old and she doesn't really know me. She calls my husbands present girlfriend Mommy. So hurt...can he be charged with something? What can I do?

2006-12-27 09:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by SandraF 4

2006-12-27 09:06:56 · 12 answers · asked by rex 2

I got mad that I spent more money on her than she did on me, due to my husband saying my gift wasn't enough. I wanted to take the gifts back that I gave her.

2006-12-27 09:05:59 · 26 answers · asked by RoseBud 2

im only 20 butt my 3 stepchildren are 13 and 7. help ?

2006-12-27 09:03:04 · 7 answers · asked by the sun should burn out tommorow 1

i posted a dilema earlier , i just wanted to say i tok on boeard all the anwers, ie decided to give him up, as hard as it may be , deep down i cant live with the guilt if he wanted to be with me he would have left her , i think he wants his cake and eat it too .. thanks to eveyone who wrote ..

2006-12-27 09:00:34 · 9 answers · asked by jaycee 1

My eight year old niece doesn't want to live with her dad any longer.
Sis and B.I.L are now divorced.
My sister is not biologically her mom and never adopted her but has raised her for the past 7 1/2 years. B.I.L. won't let my niece anywhere near my sister, even though she still calls her mom. What can my sister do to get at least visitation? She is willing to pay child support and continue raising her as her mom. Any ideas or websites with legal info? My niece is suffering the most here as this whole mess plays out. She misses her mom and can't understand why she can't see her mom. B.I.L. is using baby girl as a pawn and at this point seems to have all the control...
thanks.

2006-12-27 08:55:55 · 4 answers · asked by girl_with_the_most_CAKE2004 2

I have 1 sister and 5 brother's in which one was killed before age 16 by a drunk driver.I was as bad as the rest of my sibblings at one time,talking about the other not wanting to be at family gatherings ect.The youngest of us is 46,I had a true reality check 5-4-02,I found out I had heart problems.I was mortified to find out,june 1st 02 I had a quid bypass,after which I have had 4 heart attacks,12 stents.there is nothing in which can be done for me.I never realised how much I needed my family until then,so I pulled a family meeting letting them know I was so sorry about the way I had treated them,and wanted to let them know I forgave them for any thing that they had done,we are family and I wanted to get to know them and them me and us try to be a family,but to my dismay it was a waist of my time as well as theirs.My Mother is 76 and it breaks her heart that we can't all be in one room.it took a reality check for me,I don't have long.is this what it will take for my siblings?

2006-12-27 08:53:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I spent way more on her because my husband said one gift was not enough. then when we got the gifts from her I was hurt on what I got.

2006-12-27 08:53:09 · 19 answers · asked by RoseBud 2

She had me dress up and go to the photographer with the entire family (brother in-law, nephew, sister-in-law, my husband and children, etc.) at Thanksgiving. Then when it was time for everyone to get in the picture, I was told to sit on the side. My husband had a great time with his family laughing and smiling for every picture while this was happening to me. Everyone acts like I shouldn't be very hurt that I was left out of the picture. I have been married to my husband for twelve years. What do you think?

2006-12-27 08:46:30 · 18 answers · asked by StormyC 5

in my dream i ran into my dad at the mall and i asked hime if he was my dad and he said yes, he got me this hair cut then something happened but i dont remember....my parents are broken up, my mom doesnt let me see my dad and my dad just had a baby with this girl and i had this dream the night of the babys birth which is on xmas

2006-12-27 08:44:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i notcied ever since i was little he would put his hand on me like my lower back or walk by me and reach out and grab my arm shoulder...but he never does it to anyone else. not my sister or aunts. only me and he did it again on xmas and it makes me very uncomfortable my bday is coming up and big family dinner i dont want him there i dont want to invite him. im scared to tell my family or parents cuz what if they think im just being silly or lieing or something...what if they dont believe me ? or just tell me to grow up....how do i tell someone or get over this.....please help me

2006-12-27 08:36:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in 10th grade and in all honors classes and I get mostly B's and occasionally an A or too. My dad keeps telling me that I need to get As and that B's are unacceptable.
However when my brother gets B's, my dad doesn't seem to mind as much.

Why do I get all the academic pressure in my family? Does it have something to do with me being the oldest child or something?

2006-12-27 08:16:24 · 10 answers · asked by xxmelz91xx 1

2006-12-27 08:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by boobird 4

HOW MUCH DO YAL LOVE YAL CHILDREN DON'T GIVE NO STUPID QUESTION THAMK YOU

2006-12-27 07:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by WAZUP 1

2006-12-27 07:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by huey98758 1

I am a single mom that is pregnant with my second. I provide happy and good homes for my children.. My family disagrees, based on their religion. They would actaully say 'congradulations', IF I was married, even if unhappily married, and pregnant.

I would rather see kids raised in a happy home and provided for with one parent, then in a miseralbe home where they are emotinally abused with two parents.

What do you think

2006-12-27 07:45:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

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These kids make me laugh too much

2006-12-27 07:44:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i rele need ur help now. My mothers boyfriend lives with us in our house with his 15 yr old son. His son is an complete asshole to us, and his father doesn't care he just says that we are being mean to him, which we are not! He tells my mother wat to do, and he doesn't do anything. All he does is eat and lay around and complain. Mom's boyfriend won't let her go out unless he knows exactly where she is going, and he goes out every day without letting her know. He says he loves us, but sumtimes he doesn't show it. They fight all the time, and most of the time it's over his son. he doesn't get my mother anything for Christmas or even her birthday. I'm tired of seeing her hurt, and I wish she would break up with him. He uses my mom's money for everything, and never uses his. He never does anything to his son, and he gets on to us all the time. mom says that he won't leave so we just jave to deal with it, but I think that is bullshit. Mom won't ask anybody about, so i'm asking you guys.

2006-12-27 07:42:03 · 7 answers · asked by Angel-gurl23 2

2006-12-27 07:36:30 · 18 answers · asked by ahandsd 2

I am 21 (white) and my husband is 23 (black) and we have 2 of our own children and my litlte sister who live with us....we have been looking for a rent house for 2 months and everytime we turn in an application we get denied??? Do you think it's a racial thing? Because we are young? Are there certain things I should ask the landlord?? I'm so confused!!!!

2006-12-27 07:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by atchisons2006 2

I've been with my boyfriend since I was 15 yrs old. I'm 22 now. We're waiting to get married until after we buy a house and are financially stable. His sister and I have never been the best of friends and she's always been hateful towards me. It always feels like she's trying to be better than me and everything is a competition. She is 21 and her boyfriend of 3 yrs is 20. They just got engaged on Christmas. I am so jealous of her right now I can't stand it. How am I going to get over this and stay mature when she starts planning her wedding and talking non stop about it? My boyfriend and I are so shocked that his little sister is going to get married before us. Why is this happenning this way?

2006-12-27 07:22:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

A person in my life claims that they "love" me but when I need them, they are never around. They never call or visit and will only infrequently respond to emails, always closing with "I love you".

To me, these are empty words. Love is SHOWING someone you care, not just telling them. And this person says it I think to make themselves feel better, as though saying you love someone is the right thing to do and enough.

What do you say to a person like this? Is there any poem or story that better illustrates how meaningless the words are without action?

2006-12-27 07:03:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

all me life she hate me mean to me about me apperance and she very mean to me????!!!!!!!!! what to do??? i try to complement her and says "why did you compliemnt me????" i try to be nice and she very mean to me she says me tattoos are trashy! she hates me

2006-12-27 07:01:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has always been a bit rude and hurtful but for some reason it is escalating. This year when I shipped her Christmas gift, I decided to wait and see how long it would be before she contacted me to say she received it (in past years, I would call her to see if she got it okay). It took her three weeks! I can almost put this aside, except this year she didn't even call mom on Christmas. I kind of felt she wouldn't because she didn't call on mom's birthday either but this really peeves me off. My mother is trying to say it's no big deal but she is very hurt (she waited by the phone all day). Should I finally just lay it on the line and tell sis what I think?

2006-12-27 07:01:03 · 8 answers · asked by 4532 3

I just had a baby a month ago. My SO came home from work (he was away 2 weeks) , The house was clean (except the trash which was setting by the door on its way to being taken out , and a few bottles in the sink). I had Dinner waiting , and had finished a new batch of jewelry for my business finished. My SO gets angry because of the trash not being taken out when he gets home , he is angry when i ask him to get up with the baby , he tells me that the least i could do is keep the house clean ( since i " don't do anything else" ) . He contnues to pick at me for the house not being kept perfect (while i take care of the new baby , i exspect him to clean up at least a lil) I feel horridly angry ? I work from home , i jst had a baby a month ago , I am tending a newborn 24-7 , and keep a clean house with dinner ready when he gets home. I never ask for money and never have borrowed money from him (though he makes a habit of borrowing my money). Am I overreacting , or would anger be justified

2006-12-27 06:57:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother hates me because i said something to hurt her quite a while ago we talked about it but she told my sister she will never forgive me. my sister also hates me because she said i was not there for her. She got pregnant young and felt that i should have helped her more(I did the best i could) She always makes remarks about me telling me i am cursed, i will not succeed in life and she even tries to hurt me at times. I have made peace with myself but i get the feeling certain family members including my grand mother who said (I will fail in life) Has it out for me. They said I am harsh in words but i speak my mind and the truth. Lately I am being affected by all this and they claim apologizing won't solve anything. What on earth do they want from me blood. I have reached a point I dont know what to do anymore.

2006-12-27 06:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by Ans 3

I'm 23, graduated in biochemistry, have a job and study. I live in my own apartment w/ my mom, dad passed away. She's always been a wondeful but overprotective mom. She can't contribute to the expenses, but I don't mind. Se likes to take care of everything, my food, my clothes and me. Though I'm an adult I can't say no to her. This month I worked hard, got little sleep and a night I wanted to watch TV. She said No hun, not tonight, you need a sleep, to bed right now. She did tha tw/ so much love that I obeyed, than she put me to bed and kissed me goo dnight. A saturday I was about to leave without dinner she told me to sit down and eat dinner. I said I was in a hury, but she said no way hun, I sighed and had dinner. She likes to know where I am and at what time I'll get home. A friday I came late and forget to call her. After lunch she told me I was grounded for 2 hours to think about what I had done. I ended up obeying. Sometimes it seems I'm still a teen, but I love my mom.

2006-12-27 06:36:10 · 10 answers · asked by Sonia 1