I just had a baby a month ago. My SO came home from work (he was away 2 weeks) , The house was clean (except the trash which was setting by the door on its way to being taken out , and a few bottles in the sink). I had Dinner waiting , and had finished a new batch of jewelry for my business finished. My SO gets angry because of the trash not being taken out when he gets home , he is angry when i ask him to get up with the baby , he tells me that the least i could do is keep the house clean ( since i " don't do anything else" ) . He contnues to pick at me for the house not being kept perfect (while i take care of the new baby , i exspect him to clean up at least a lil) I feel horridly angry ? I work from home , i jst had a baby a month ago , I am tending a newborn 24-7 , and keep a clean house with dinner ready when he gets home. I never ask for money and never have borrowed money from him (though he makes a habit of borrowing my money). Am I overreacting , or would anger be justified
2006-12-27 06:57:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I expect him to help pickup after himself when he is home
2006-12-27 07:00:16 · update #1