please give me one of the good answer that i can change my life back and focus to the future.
2006-12-27 09:19:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Set yourself some goals, and stick with them. Meeting new people, joining a new club, develop a new hobby, just something new that will hold your interest. When we are idle, it gives us way too much time to focus on sad events. The old saying is so true, "Idleness is the Devils workshop"!
2006-12-27 09:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of bad things happen to people in their past but it up you how you let it affect your present and in furture. You can not change the past all you can do is deal with it and move on. If something happen in your past that really bother you on a daily basis then maybe you need to consider getting some professional help. This would allow you to process all these feeling and take a look at some coping mechanism do deal with these negative feelings.
2006-12-27 10:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think about it. move on to other things that you enjoy. if people around you bring it up, consider hanging out with different people or just say "hey, its in the past-LEAVE IT THERE!" The past has helped you to grow into what you are now. A person that wants to better themselves and feel better. Go to some counseling if you want to or maybe find a religious group that will offer you support and encouragement. I thnk you are on the right path, cause the first step is realizing you want to have a better life. Go for it, enjoy yourself and Good Luck to ya!
2006-12-27 09:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things in the past shape us to be who we are in the future, if you let things from the past get you down then you knida know what kind of future you have, but if you move on and don't let it bug you so much then you future can be the brightest you want it to be. Put it to you this way if i let people get to me or if they hurt me in anyway, i have to just say whatever it wasn't ment to be or i didn't need them anyway. Look at life as a way to prove yourself, as a way to make things better, to change something in a good way for the future. You can't be down if you want to make things better for the ones who are born this year and make them have to pay for what the rest of the world has done. So make a promise to yourself that you can't let things get you down that the whole is counting on you, all the young children (our future), to make a diffference to make things better.
2006-12-27 09:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by bluedemon_child16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple and sweet:
Get a simple goal started and work towards that goal, it will help you think about the future. Oh...and set some new years resolutions.
-Azooga-
2006-12-27 09:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- it depends where the probles lays-- please elaborate on your answer and maybe i can help you and tell you what changes you need to make or adjustments.
2006-12-27 09:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋