Family - November 2006

My stepfather of 6 years is such a royal a**!! I hate his guts! He made me stay up until 11:30 at night - scrubbing the kitchen. I have to get up every morning at 5!!! How can I stop him?? I've already called CPS on him for hitting me int he face and giving me a bloody nose, and he got off becuz we alled lied ( he told us - my bro, sis, and i - that if we told we wouldn't live to see when he was taken away) And my mom doesn't have enough courage to kick him to the curb..........please give dme some advice.

2006-11-08 04:01:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin and I were at a party a while back, and we, well she got pregenant, and now I am wondering what would be so wrong with continuing a close relationship so the baby can atleast have two parents, and since I have a stable job, I can provide for a family. I don't realy remember the party, but blood tests said that the baby was mine... My friends also told me what I had been up to.. Jen really does want to continue the relationship, We don't have any family left, it's just us.. What do ya'll think I should do?

2006-11-08 04:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by fem 1

just curious....i wasn't sure what i would put in mine....

2006-11-08 03:40:51 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Miss X♥ 3

You have a baby with a man.....he cheats..you kick him out......he moves in with the mistress.....and now they (the man AND the mistress) want to spend time with the baby that you carried for 9 months....had by yourself because he was laid up with her......stay up with at night, alone.....and do all the other things that come with being a mother.

He has been given the option to spend time with the mother and the baby, like going to museums, parks, play groups, etc. The parents are not interested in being together and could get along for the sake of raising the baby. But.......HE doesn't want to have anything to do with the baby if the mother is involved. And insists that the mistress should be able to spend time with the baby too. She has even called the mother to express her feelings on the matter, mind you she has no children.

Is it wrong to keep the baby away becuz of her? Is it petty? Or is it outright disrespectful on his part?

All opinions welcome!!!!!!

2006-11-08 03:40:27 · 27 answers · asked by Perfect 78 2

okay....

grandmother....sister
mother daughter
me

what is the relation of the daughter and me?

ps: thats a family tree thing....
me

2006-11-08 03:38:45 · 4 answers · asked by Shawnee 4

help! i hate my mothers bf. it's such a problem... what do i do? i try to be nice to him for my mothers sake... cos she seems to like him and its her first relationship in 15 years... but i really cant stand him. he likes making me mad or irritating me cos he likes getting a responce from me, but it just makes me hate him more. i have spoken to my mother about this and i think she spoke to him. I let them know that i am not terribly fond of him, so he backed off a bit, but that drove a wedge between my mother and i. She and I used to have a good relationship. Now she barely speaks to me. aside from all that... wshe is starting to neglect my younger sister too. She has spent maybe.. one full day at home over the past 9 weekends. she leaves early for work, gets home late and goes straight to her rom to work. i hardly know her and we hardly speaks to me anymore. But her relationship with my sister (who doesnt dislike him too much) seems to be normal. I dont know what to do anymore. help!

2006-11-08 03:28:18 · 24 answers · asked by thelayla_scott 1

2006-11-08 03:24:41 · 4 answers · asked by baseballpro619 1

Well?

2006-11-08 03:17:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello.

I am currently having serious family issues that I would like advice on. My wife and I have been married for almost a year now. I am 27 and she is 21. She grew up in a very enclosed environment at home with her parents, she was basically home schooled most of her life and has not had major social interaction with others. I have always been more of a social person, I have friends that I have known for over 10 years and are still friends to this date. We are still struggling to find that middle ground in our relationship, because it is always an arguement when I want to go and spend a few hours with my friends, a few hours meaning like 3 or 4 hours on a weekend, maybe to watch a football game or whatever. As far as I know I am a responsble father and husband and take care of things like have our finances intact. and all bills paid. I spend most of my free time with her and the baby because I avoid going out for a breather just not to have an argument. My mother recently is over to visit for a few weeks and my wife started an argument over petty stuff such as my mother and brothers holding the baby, claiming that they will make him sick (she is usually extremely worried about germs). I don't know what to do because my mother wants to spend time with her grandchild and I don't think my wife will even entertain that thought right now. I finally had enough and told her that if she is gonna act that way, she might as well move back to her parents house eight hours away and never tell my son about me because I was just fed up with all the obsessivness. I know its a terrible thing to say but I love my child so much and want to be around him, but as long as my family wants to get involved with seeing him and loving him it will always be stress for me convincing my wife to let them do that. Is almost like being asked to disown my my mother and siblings and just live in a world that is revolves aeround my family. What can I do to make things better because I know deep down she is really a nice loving person, its just that she has no social experience whatsoever be it family or friends. I want her to live a fulfilling life but she doe not understand that and prefers us to live like hermits. I don't want my son to turn out like that . What can I do to make things better?

2006-11-08 03:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by answerhog 2

Moved back to DC to be with my High School sweetheart.Keep in mind I have a ten yr old daughter from a 12 yr prior relationship.The day that I moved here I was feeling very uneasy.The 1st week someone stole my truck,I have'nt found a job,and he has changed.They are fixing my truck now at the shop it was found 2 weeks ago.I'm just ready to go I have never been so stressed in my life,I'm not happy here at all.I kept my apt in Va,Beach,thank God.His mouth is very foul,Every other word is a curse word.When he's nice he's very nice.But he's never hit me or nothing like that,it's just when I try and tell him I'm leaving when my truck is finished,he just keep right on talking like he don't here me.My truck is not big enough to take my daughter's bed and dresser back but I have enough room in my jeep to take our clothes.It's just something different about him now that he knows I want to leave.Please help any advice?

2006-11-08 03:11:25 · 18 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6

Donna should be about 48 years old. Her father is now deceased his name was James.

2006-11-08 03:03:24 · 3 answers · asked by Wine 2

old but I am at a loss for words..what do I say?

2006-11-08 02:50:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Write it in a sentence.

2006-11-08 02:45:10 · 5 answers · asked by Shecyle S 1

I'm 24 & 2 kids.. seperated from the dad 1 yr ago. I met a great guy, been official w/ him 4 a month 1/2. My mom will start assuming that everything i'm doing will have 2 do w/ him & not help me with the kids 'cause now i have a b.f. i met his fam. & freinds- he met my kids & freind..what do I do? I feel like a kid again! Please help!!

2006-11-08 02:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by jrzy 1

2006-11-08 02:18:45 · 4 answers · asked by skiqueen 1

who's just a friend. I'm 15 and a pretty good student, don't drink and don't do drugs. Why doesn't she trust me?

2006-11-08 01:59:22 · 32 answers · asked by ilovethechub 2

I went out and bought a bunch of board games to spend time with my child. He is 6yrs old, and I don't think I should let him win on purpose just to make him happy. So when I win he gets really mad, and he starts swearing at me :(... This makes me feel terrible.

2006-11-08 01:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by ~*~Dreamer~*~ 2

my mom and me are always yelling at eachother even about the most stupid things in the world, but when she wants me to do her a favor she will be nice for a second! my mom has 7 kids to take care of including me i know it can be stressful but it dont mean we have to argue all the time! i have court in a couple of weeks i might not be able to see her as often as i can now!!
how can i tell my mom i love her and i dont want to argue any more??!!

2006-11-08 01:55:00 · 20 answers · asked by Baby G 1

i don't ever recall doing anything to her to be mean in any way, i am no backstabber or am mean in anyway towards her, i did however was very close to my dad/mom. my friends i have told to about this ,say she is jealous of me but i have no idea over what? we are 10 years apart, have different friends...as we grew up she did get jealous of me over her b/f's at one time or another but i never did anything like that to her.
she did however fool around with my man while i was carrying my last baby. that hurt. i forgave her, i can't figure her out.

2006-11-08 01:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by ~muffun~ 3

I have 15 pounds left for a week,so do i,
buy food for kids
pay heating bill
or buy 10 euro lottery tickets and go for the £100 million this friday?

2006-11-08 01:53:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands parents just seem to go from family member to family member. I almost left my husband the last time they lived here ,for 6 months. I have tried to tell him that they are not my parents and not my responsibility. I need my space. He cannot seem to get it.It looks like they may return soon and I have told him that 1 month is it. I know he is too chicken to say anything and I dont want to be the bad guy. What would you do?

2006-11-08 01:52:26 · 7 answers · asked by glasgowgone 2

The thing is i do not belive i should have to pay to find my birth mum anyway is there way i can find out with out paying

2006-11-08 01:37:49 · 1 answers · asked by leroy s 1

My 14 year old sister caught me masturbating to a picture of Nicole Scherzinger from the Pussycat Dolls and she thought it was so funny. She keeps playing their songs around me and especially one particular lyric where she says " Im a do my thing while your playing witcha ......... She hasnt threatened to tell my parents. I am 19 years old and I know I didnt do anything wrong except getting caught and leaving my door unlocked but this happened about a month ago and she isnt letting me forget about it. She keeps showing me a baby oil bottle (the lubricant I had next to me while lying nude on my bed) and playing their damn songs. Its just annoying and theres nothing I can do about it. I feel bad and ashamed she caught me masturbating in the first place to the picture of Nichole and with the lube on on the bed. But she isnt letting me live it down. Will she eventually stop? Will she tell my older sister? What can I do? She also keeps waving her pinky at me. Why does she do that?

2006-11-08 01:12:35 · 8 answers · asked by eastwood1870 1

my brother n my dad made up after a fight n he asked for him n his wife to move in but sleep in my room n me sleep downstairs, although i like my brother i cant give up my room? then he told me about it yestaday n i jus put the phone down on him n i know they gona be at home 2 night waa shall i say when i parents tell me?

2006-11-08 00:57:05 · 17 answers · asked by Mr Trend Vampire 2

2006-11-08 00:49:12 · 2 answers · asked by derreck t 1

my son recently married his partner because he was told thet their daughter albeit she has his name and they live as a family, could not take his child on holiday out of the country without permission of the mother. if there is such a law does this apply to married couples also.

2006-11-08 00:47:41 · 15 answers · asked by cr 1

like for example if you live in a place where its freezing cold..would you not feel like working or something as opposed to working in a place with a sunny weather?

2006-11-08 00:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3

My mum suffered a brain hemorage earlier this year, which in turn cost her her job. Her financial status is bad! She started a new job, but has been on the sick now for 2 weeks, and i worry about how long she'll keep this up for. I moved back home earlier this year after leaving my soon to be ex husband and to start a new life. I have a full time job. My mum gets £300/month from me. She now is saying yet again that she cant afford the rent, gas, elec, water, coucil tax, car fuel and insurance, food. I have flatly refused to get us a phone line (she cant due to her credit rating) to which she didnt like. We all have mobiles to make emergency calls. She is constantly depressed and is always nagging me for more money. I need help, before this gets too much for me. I feel the money she gets from me is adequate. She is saying she's not ready for work and feels she rushed into it. Where/Who can help us get financial help? Who should we contact? I have no idea and feel im lossing the plot!

2006-11-07 23:59:56 · 8 answers · asked by Need_to_know 5

I'm a student and my parents no more want me to play basketball and concentrate on my studies ! I love basketball and I wish to take it as a profession infact .What shall I do? - obey my parents or my own soul.

2006-11-07 23:59:10 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 2

I'm going to buy her a bouquet of flowers, I am lucky to have her.
How about you, the mother of your life, surprise bouquet today???

2006-11-07 23:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by lee f 5