my mom and me are always yelling at eachother even about the most stupid things in the world, but when she wants me to do her a favor she will be nice for a second! my mom has 7 kids to take care of including me i know it can be stressful but it dont mean we have to argue all the time! i have court in a couple of weeks i might not be able to see her as often as i can now!!
how can i tell my mom i love her and i dont want to argue any more??!!
2006-11-08 01:55:00 · 20 answers · asked by Baby G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You just said it.
2006-11-08 01:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom and daughters do argue - but you said your argue over stupid things. if you know they are stupid things, why do you put fuel on the fire and argue back? just say to your mom, i really don't want to fight with you, and especially over such a silly thing. tell her you both have so little time together, can't we just be happy with each other. give her a hug and tell her you love her and if we both try a little harder not to fight, we'll have a great mother/daughter relationship.
2006-11-08 02:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you let her read this question, you just said a mouth full.!!
With 7 children, she probably doesn't even realize that the arguing is hurting you. You answered your own question here, just follow your heart. And Good Luck in Court!!!!
2006-11-08 01:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her . Moms have it hard sometimes and if you we there to HELP her maybe things would be easier for her .Tell her that you want to help her any way you can and ask her how. Then you may be able to become closer to her by helping . Go in the kitchen and wash some dishes ,fold some clothes , start dinner .Ask her what she wants you to do for her .
2006-11-08 02:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult and just love her and do what she asks. If you don't agree with what she is asking you to do then calmly explain why you don't want to.
Before you say no to her remember that she has taken care of you for X years and that you can help her a little as repayment for all those years of love she gave you.
2006-11-08 01:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, I am sure she is probably tired of arguing too. You guys should make it a point to say at least one nice thing to each other every day.
2006-11-08 01:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. Mothers and daughters argue and fight all the time but as you get older things will change, you'll see.
2006-11-08 02:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like that tell her you love her and you dont want to argue let her know how it makes you feel
2006-11-08 01:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like you did. Take a breath get ready for hugs and say that to your mom- best wishes
2006-11-08 01:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by Just a Q or 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problem number one is YOU YELL AT YOUR MOTHER......then again cant blame you- i think its her fault for letting you yell at her......... she should have knocked your little a$$ into next week the first time you yelled at her.......... until you buy your own food,clothes, and house yourself- you do WHAT SHE SAYS- not the other way around......... thats the problem these days you kids- you all have no respect
2006-11-08 02:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Damian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you just did. then refuse to argue, dont yell back.
2006-11-08 01:56:46 · answer #11 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋