i don't ever recall doing anything to her to be mean in any way, i am no backstabber or am mean in anyway towards her, i did however was very close to my dad/mom. my friends i have told to about this ,say she is jealous of me but i have no idea over what? we are 10 years apart, have different friends...as we grew up she did get jealous of me over her b/f's at one time or another but i never did anything like that to her.
she did however fool around with my man while i was carrying my last baby. that hurt. i forgave her, i can't figure her out.
2006-11-08 01:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by ~muffun~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she knows you can see her for who she really is and is ashamed.
2006-11-08 01:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 2.5 yo son merely started talking in 2 observe words, so I comprehend the place you're coming from. some infants merely improve at different costs. My son is effective in another component to progression. He is conscious each and every little thing. If this sounds like your toddler, i would not subject overmuch. As to the thank you to extend his vocabulary... If he likes books i might use image books and attempt getting him to call the gadgets he sees. you are able to create books from photos of relatives and products around the homestead, too. That way the gadgets are widespread ones to him. From previous learn I somewhat have achieved (so i should be remembering incorrect), that's a danger that he's letting his sister talk for him. So, make certain you are trying this only one on one, so he can no longer enable her answer for him. HTH!
2016-12-28 15:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friends are right, it comes right down to jealousy. that's a hard situation, especially with family. What would help here, is to include her in alot more of your activities. she probably feels like she is on a lower podium than you. She's thinks of you as having it all together, and she probably has a few problems, of her own, she is trying to deal with. She probably felt by fooling around with your man, she was getting up to your level. (its a mind thing. I'm sure you both have everyday problems. You just handle them a little better.) I'm curious about your man, was he in on this fooling around? or did he brush her off.????..........ps....family is a stronger backbone, get it worked out with your sister.
2006-11-08 02:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be because you were closer to your parents than she was and she is blaming you for that. She sounds like she has had a jealousy issue concerning you all of her life maybe she felt inferior to you or something...and she fooled around with your man perhaps to take from you something you loved, because in her mind, you took your parents from her because there wasn't as close a relationship with her as there was with you.
2006-11-08 02:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like it could be a combination of things. Residual jealousy from childhood, guilt for having messed around with your guy, anger that she got caught messing with your guy, and maybe even some jealousy that this guy was/is your guy, and not really hers. I would tell her that you're ready to listen whenever she's ready to tell you what's going on. Then leave the ball in her court. This isn't something that you need to be carrying around.
2006-11-08 02:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is jealous but most siblings are jealous of each other the older you get the more the jealousy grows but they just sometime never admit to it.
2006-11-08 01:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and say:
I'd like to be the sort of friend that
you have been to me;
I'd like to be the help that
you've been always glad to be;
I'd like to mean as much to you
each minute of the day
As you have meant, old friend of mine,
to me along the way.
I'd like to do the big things and
the splendid things for you,
To brush the gray from out your skies
and leave them only blue;
I'd like to say the kindly things that
I so oft have heard,
And feel that I could rouse your soul
the way that mine you've stirred.
I'd like to give you back the joy
that you have given me,
Yet that were wishing you a need
I hope will never be;
I'd like to make you feel as rich as I,
who travel on
Undaunted in the darkest hours with you to
lean upon.
I'm wishing at this time that I
could but repay
A portion of the gladness that
you've strewn along my way;
And could I have one wish this year,
this only would it be:
I'd like to be the sort of friend
that you have been to me.
2006-11-08 01:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She won't speak to you because you won't let her keep fooling around with this guy you think is your "man".
2006-11-08 01:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋