who's just a friend. I'm 15 and a pretty good student, don't drink and don't do drugs. Why doesn't she trust me?
2006-11-08 01:59:22 · 32 answers · asked by ilovethechub 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
teenagers often confuse concern with not trusting ... its not that your mom doesnt trust you with anything ... had it been the case she would be following you everywhere (i assume she doesnt do that) ... but she doesnt trust you with somethings ... if you make a bad judgement one time you have to life with it the rest of your life ... believe me 5 years down the line you will be thankful to her for not trusting you ...
2006-11-08 02:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect your mothers wishes and obey. I am sure your mother has her reasons. Have you even given thought to the idea that maybe mom just doesnt trust the boy? She may just have a gut instinct that its not good for you to do so. Moms also can be overprotective. Sometimes that can really stink for the child, but usually in the long run, it all works out. Does your mom let you visit the boy? Maybe just visiting each other is for the better, at first. Have you given your mom any reason not to trust you? If not then maybe you and mom should sit down and try to come up with some kind of idea to make this situation work for both of you. A mothers love is eternal and protective. She wont always be around to protect you...... I suggest talking to her, to find out what her concerns are and if they are concerns that are minor try to reassure her that she can trust you. If mom is really still worried about it maybe he could stay at your house were mom can supervise at her leisure. If your not up to nothing and have nothing to hide then this idea could just work! Good luck From the mom of three daughters,whom herself was once in your shoes.
2006-11-08 02:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by cjpburgess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a 15 year old daughter, I wouldn't either. You have no business spending the night at any guys house!! Your mom knows what can happen in this situation, she is protecting you---and don't say you don't need protecting cuz you do. You aren't making good choices here. Also there are legal consequences for your mom if she allows this. It's not that she doesn't trust you...she doesn't trust the situation.
2006-11-08 02:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in case you're 18 years previous (a criminal person), and away at school, then there's no longer possibly a would desire to acquire your parents permission to spend the nighttime at a buddy's residing house. yet another factor to evaluate: until eventually you have an ulterior purpose in spending the nighttime, why do no longer the two considered one of you only hold close out, make a prior due nighttime of it, after which you flow residing house. in spite of each little thing, what's the form of high quality time will you be spending mutually mutually as your the two asleep...until eventually of direction your plan is to now stay wide awake... the two way, be grateful that your mom cares sufficient approximately your protection to exhibit screen your returned...and don't overlook to tell her how lots you enjoy her looking out for you. mom's would desire to hearken to that.
2016-10-21 11:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; why sleep out when there is a good home and loving parents waiting for you there, who have looked after you all your life and have only your best interests at heart?
Why would you want to sleep out??
Also, in case you're ever caught being tempted, remember that true sex is only a product of genuine love and marriage.
It is not an experiment, and comes with full responsibility and commitment that requires it to the degree of proper public marriage.
2006-11-08 09:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not about trust. At least not in the sense you understand. Teenagers have raging hormones. She doesn't want to risk putting you in a situation that you might not be able to handle and regret the rest of your life. Her philosophy is better safe than sorry. I agree with your mother. You will too, if you ever have a daughter asking to do the same thing you are.
2006-11-08 02:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I would have to agree with your mom. I have a 13
year old and I wouldn't even consider something like that. When you are 18 then you can make your own decisions. Right now it is your parents resbonsibility to watch out for you and protect you. She just wants what is best for you! Try to respect her wishes and understand that she loves you and just wants to make sure you are okay!
2006-11-08 02:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a dad myself maybe she doesn't trust him.
As awful as it sounds, you should never put yourself in a place of vulnerability. One thing always leads to another and before you know it, you've lost something very precious.
It might only be a friendship now, but what might happen if you sleep over isn't worth the risk.
2006-11-08 02:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Schlump 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are 15!
You have plenty of time to "spend the night" at a later time.
Don't push the issue just respect your mom's decision.
It sounds like you have a smart mom.
2006-11-08 02:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by raecliff95 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She may trust you, but doesn't trust the guy. I'd NEVER let my 15 y/o daughter stay over at a guys house. NEVER!
2006-11-08 02:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋