Family - October 2006

jerk?

2006-10-06 22:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by ANGELa 3

be saying, the reason why he is lazy is he has a 3 year old sister and a 4 year old brother. Is there any way I can help him along.

2006-10-06 22:12:05 · 10 answers · asked by jules 4

weekdays, weeksend and all that good stuff (will be 19 in 2/2007, but she is small for her age)

2006-10-06 21:35:47 · 17 answers · asked by LemonDrop 2

My daughter dresses in extreamely provocative clothing that literally leave nothing to the imagination. She is tall slim and very pretty but always has dressed like a slut. mini skirts, no panties etc. She has a great well paying job (She dresses conservatively for work) she is a happy person. At home she walks around naked or just wearing stiletto heels and stockings. Her mother and I divorced 12 years ago when she was only 8 ? Have any other parents experineces of this type of behaviour and what advice can you give. Is it normal?

2006-10-06 21:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here is the scenario....me and my girl were at McDonalds. She asked me what I was getting and I told her I was going to get a quarter pounder with cheese and some fries. She said "ooh that sounds good, i want to get that too." Then I told her no because it was too fattening for her and she needed to keep her trim figure. Then she was like "but you are getting it, why can't I?". Then I said because I am a guy and it is okay if we gain weight but if a girl gains weight it isn't attractive. Plus guys have higher metabolisms than girls do. I told her she was my little barbie girl and I wanted her to stay that way. Most of the time she understands my logic but she was on PMS and started pouting about it. Kudos to me for still paying for lunch. I ordered her a salad. Then while we were eating I told her that she could have a burger and fries for her birthday but she said she wanted Olive Garden! Women!! Anyways her friend found out and said I was a jerk. Am I wrong here?

2006-10-06 20:59:41 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oooh, he is such a jerk... never had a job, my sister supports him, he is emotionally, mentally and (possibly) physically abusive to both her and their 3-yr old son. His B-day is on Halloween and I am obligate to buy "Fat Bastard" (over 350 lbs) a gift of some sort to maintain family harmony ( my sister is devoted, God knows why). Sarcastic answers welcomed. My first choice would be a copy of "Final Exit," but I need something less obvious.

Make my day, people, I really loathe this guy!

2006-10-06 20:46:44 · 18 answers · asked by Samlet 4

2006-10-06 20:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by ~^*ccnoelle*^~ 1

I am 38... have been married for nearly 14 years... and have a daughter aged 9 and a son aged 3..... no money constraints.... am enjoying a healthy and peaceful existence...

2006-10-06 20:28:13 · 9 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3

I really wonder why some couples have 6 or more children knowing that many countries in the world is having a problem regarding with population?

2006-10-06 20:25:14 · 18 answers · asked by Punk 69 1

i play the guitar and im pretty good i was thinking about putting together a concert to sooth my dad and other people going thru this ordeal i also play the harmonica and sing I think this would be a step in the right direction and i would like to do this in my dads home town BURLINGTON NJ AT THE RIVER FRONT!!

2006-10-06 19:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was recently caught by my mom and sister and need some advise from you girls on how you would feel about this! I am 16 and I am reasking this question again to see if I can get some more help! Tks

2006-10-06 19:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by bobbycaught 1

2006-10-06 19:33:47 · 36 answers · asked by jennilaine777 4

2006-10-06 19:05:18 · 7 answers · asked by MARGARET B 1

i had my son when i was 15 and now im turning 17 this year...i was wondering if anyone could relate to me about this like husbands parents because we are kind of living with his parents and his mom butts in alot how could i handle this?

2006-10-06 18:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by jsbabb1 2

My mother has been diagnosed with last stage lung cancer and my mother-in-law has been dignosed with colon cancer and my nieces-ages 6 and 8-are saying they were molested recently. I cannot understand why all this is happening to my family all at once. I feel like God has abandoned me. I'm in a daze and things seem so surreal. Anyone else going through anything close to this? I know it could be worse and this too shall pass, but why me?

2006-10-06 18:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was all league last year. We fear that she will regret this decision in the future...She has recently met and started dating a nice guy...we just think that she needs to be involved with extra activities after school...and, not have a lot of time on her hands! She says that we always pressured her to play (but, admits that she has fun playing for her club team and enjoys the camraderie with the girls). We don't want to force her to play...but, like most 16 year olds, she can't seem to focus on the future consequences of her actions. Thoughts?

2006-10-06 18:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by grognd 2

I mean my parents alway bug my a$$ about what I do on the god d@mn computer...it's like they suspect I do bad stuff.. I mean they always get the noses in my freakin buisness...and you know what the sad news is? I am VERY VERY LESS LIKELY TO DO ANYTHING BAD! Seriously people I barely even get out of my own fu[kin house! This is a question for dumb-@$$ parents who are over protective..

P.S. I'm 15

2006-10-06 18:13:24 · 12 answers · asked by jazz_individual 2

I fell like mylife is misrable i fell like nothing i fell like my friends arent my friends there using me its like my world has crashed and i feel like im dead i also feel like my parents doent love me and no one cares about me IT HURTS and i really need help and pleas dont say try to talk to ur family or friends caus they say ur rong but i Know deep down im 100/ coerct and if so if u would like email me pearsonaly!

2006-10-06 18:11:16 · 11 answers · asked by model411girl 1

2006-10-06 17:49:17 · 13 answers · asked by Deloused-In-The-Comatorium 3

This is a very hard thing to say, but, my husband let's his daughter act like the woman of the house when she is here. I am 30 years old and she is 12. She tries to tell me how to take care of my 2 year old son and what I should be doing when she's here. When I tell her that I am the mother of my son and I don't appreciate being told how to raise him, my husband yells at me and repremands me in front of her. It's starting to make me resent this little girl. Help, any advice?????

2006-10-06 17:40:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having a problem with my family/parents - I do not like hugging. I don't enjoy the chest squishing (I'm a large C), the feeling of "having to do it every time we see each other" (I see them almost every weekend), or the general uncomfortableness of the whole act. I personally do not believe it expresses how I feel or shows what I am not feeling for someone. I have expressed my dislike of hugs to my mom and step-dad. They acted upset & dismissive of my feelings calling it silly. After the hugs continued I've brought it up multiple times. They get upset but say "fine you win we won't hug you." My problem is they keep doing it. My mom started crying again after I brought it up last weekend. I feel this is a major problem that I don't see getting resolved. This whole thing makes me want to avoid them. What can I do?
Additional info: I have really never had anything traumatic happen to me - no abuse, no deaths of family or friends, etc. & I am affectionate in intimate relationships.

2006-10-06 17:23:16 · 12 answers · asked by apple093080 2

why do men think it is cause they are not attracting?
Is this a game or a line to con the woman to have sex?

I simply am not interested in sex due to trust issues and/or stress and not wanting to really be in a relationship. So what makes this wrong for me not to want sex? I am honest about it. But it turns out to be a guilt trip about how the other person feels....un atractive....but he is atractive....I just am not interested most of the time.

2006-10-06 17:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7

2006-10-06 16:55:00 · 3 answers · asked by The First Dragon 7

My moms hate it when I go out. She thinks I'm going out somewhere to do things that I shouldn't be doing, but I have more sense than that. I love her to death, but I JUST CAN'T STAY IN THE HOUSE. I'm a teenager and I don't mean to disrespect her, but I just can't do it. What should I do to earn her trust?

2006-10-06 16:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is a good kid. Does well in school (average), has friends, and the teachers have nice things to say about him. However, lately, his behavior is outrageous. He talks back, he doesn't listen, he doesn't do what he is supposed to do. For example, my husband (his father) took him to a cub scout meeting this evening. When it was my son's turn to read he just goofed around and clowned around and didn't take this seriously. This is the problem we seem to be having with him lately. Nothing is taken seriously - homework (around 2-3 hours per night), extracurricular activities, nothing. Taking things away as a form of discipline doesn't seem to work. We are at our wits end. What is the best way to deal with this type of behavior. I have considered that he may have a touch of ADHD/ADD but I'm not sure that this is really the issue. Any advise...PLEASE!

2006-10-06 16:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last month, Sept 2, 2006, my dearest grandmother had passed away. She was like a father to me, because my parents divorced when I was 2 months old. My grandmother raised and took care of me. I loved her so much, but I never tell her directly. I feel so guilty when she passed away. At that time, I was still studying in Malaysia, while she passed away in Bali, Indonesia which is my hometown. I used to hate her when I was a kid, because she was very violent to me, like hitting and beating me when I did something wrong. But she was the one I am staying with from 1985-2003, then me and her moved to Bali and stayed in the same house with my mother. Me and my mom loved her very much, we care about her a lot. After she passed away, I kept on dreaming of her, and when I woke up I am very very sad. I regret lots of things that I have not done which actually I can... I am so guilty...

2006-10-06 16:29:06 · 10 answers · asked by Lynda Theresia 1

2006-10-06 15:56:47 · 4 answers · asked by Brock B 1

My son has Conjestive heart failure and cannot work. He qualifies and is entitled to permanent disability. His live in girlfriend says it's disgracefull to collect disability. There is nothing preventing her from working. She just refuses to go to work because he is not working. He has been living off a small inheritance from his Grand mother and is running out of that money. I have been buying my Granddaughters clothes for 16 years. He now has forbidden me from that. He says I am teaching her to live above her means. I say he is teaches her not to work and do without. he says because I have more money than him and can buy her things, she will love me more than she loves him. I say if he is worried about that then collect his disability and make that no count girlfriend get off her lazy butt and go to work like the rest of the world. He is 40 yrs. old. She is 45yrs. old My Granddaughter is 16 and like all teens wants nice clothes for school.

2006-10-06 15:55:32 · 6 answers · asked by richg2524 2

My mom and dad got a divorce last year in may. Since then i have lived in 2 different apartments with my mom and my sister (6yrs. Shes so cool :D) And while we were still living at our old house, not even a week after my dad moved out, mom gets calls from someone i don't know. and then she has a boyfriend. Well they dated forever. And in my opinion he completely tore me and my mom and my sister apart. I NEVER get to see my sis anymore. So in spite i moved in with my grandma. I am more in touch with this house. I've practically lived here since i was 5. And its the only place i feel at home anymore.
oh yeah and at the end of the summer guess what? i was at the mall with my friend adn we were in hot topic and my mom calls and says she has something to tell me. and turns out she and her bf ranoff and eloped without telling anyone.
and i got a txt msg from mother today saying that she misses fighting with me and me in general. she wants me to move back.

Should I? Would you?

2006-10-06 15:54:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jade B 1

There are African Americans, Mexican Americans,
Asian Americans, Arab Americans, Native Americans,
etc.
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And then there are just Americans.
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You pass me on the street and sneer in my
direction. You call me "Whiteboy," "Cracker,"
"Honkey," "Whitey," "Caveman" and that's OK.
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But when I call you, ******, Kike, Towelhead,
Sand-******, camel Jockey, Beaner, ****, or Chink you
call me a racist.
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You say that whites commit a lot of violence
against you, so why are the ghettos the most dangerous
places to live?
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You have the United ***** College Fund.
You have Martin Luther King Day.
You have Black History Month.
You have Cesar Chavez Day.
You have Yom Hashoah
You have Ma'uled Al-Nabi
You have the NAACP.
You have BET.
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If we had WET(White Entertainment Television)
we'd be Racists.
If we had a White Pride Day you would call us
racists.
If we had White History Month, we'd be racists.
If we had any organization for only whites to
"advance" our lives, we'd be racists.
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We have a Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, a Black
Chamber of Commerce, and then we just have the plain
Chamber of Commerce.
Wonder who pays for that?
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If we had a college fund that only gave white
students scholarships, you know we'd be racists. There
are over 60 openly proclaimed Black Colleges in the
US, yet if there were "White colleges" that would be a
racist college.
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In the Million Man March, you believed that you
were marching for your race and rights.
If we marched for our race and rights, you would call
us racists.
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You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and
orange, and you're not afraid to announce it. But when
we announce our white pride, you call us racists.
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You rob us, carjack us, and shoot at us. But,
when a white police officer shoots a black gang member
or beats up a black drug-dealer running from the law
and posing a threat to society, you call him a racist.
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I am proud. But, you call me a racist.
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Why is it that only whites can be racists?

2006-10-06 15:49:01 · 22 answers · asked by chad 1