I am 38... have been married for nearly 14 years... and have a daughter aged 9 and a son aged 3..... no money constraints.... am enjoying a healthy and peaceful existence...
2006-10-06 20:28:13 · 9 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if i were u, i wud hve no consideration for the third child atall. u r priviledged with prosperity in your life, god bless. shower ur childern with love and luxuries.
instead of planning a third kid u can ADOPT one instead and giv him all love and care on earth. u wud be lucky parents, trust me it doesnt get better than that.
hope u get my feelings. god bless u
2006-10-06 20:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by mimpi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For us, the third was a suprise. I am 38 as well. My children are 16, 9 and 6 months old! We were told after the 9 year old I couldn't have anymore. We found out different! We are loving every minute of our third and so are the other 2. Your 2 older children are at an age where they would love to help with a baby and it would teach them so much. I thank the Lord every day for our little surprise. Being 38, there is a difference between being 28 in your endurance and patienece. I appreciate him more at this age, but I tire so much easier. He will keep us young! He on't let us slow down!
2006-10-07 03:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With 3 you are outnumbered immediately. Life gets a bit more chaotic in the home. Things the 9 yr old will want to do will be hard with a new baby.
That all being said, my third is a joy. Kind of like, hey, I can enjoy her without the stress because the other 2 wore me down. You know there is never a right or wrong when it comes to having 2-6, boys to girls, all that. You just make it work if you love your kids. The outnumbered thing only got me a few times, during an earthquake but mostly things are fine.
2006-10-07 03:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better stop with 2. A small family is always a happy family. Your time, love and affection will get shared with every child and more the number of children, less will reach each.
2006-10-07 03:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Arunagiri K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be the middle child syndrome. There will be the older one being able to do more things than the middle one, and the younger one inevitably getting babied more than the middle one. If you can balance everyone's needs, wants, desires, and time spent together INDIVIDUALLY, then go for it. Good luck!!
2006-10-07 03:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having three means you have a odd number
there is always one left out usually the middle called the middle
syndrome but going for a fourth to stop that means bigger car and maybe house i have three im a child of three and its not good
2006-10-07 09:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by VICKI K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 4 my third ended up as 3and4...(twins) so dont plan .....as nike says JUST DO IT! Just make sure you can afford it and have the love and patience.
2006-10-07 03:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you have no financial constrain there is no harm in trying third one.
Good luck
2006-10-07 03:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love and money is there go for it.
2006-10-07 03:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋