I love my mom and appreciate all that she did for me as I was growing up. However, since I was about 16, we've started to change roles. She has had a difficult life and suffers from depression and various health problems. Because of this, she is unable to hold down a job and is on medicaid. That covers her rent but she completely depends on me for all of her other expenses. She seems like she has no ability to control her finances. If I leave it up to her to pay bills, they go unpaid and then I have to pay late fees on top of them. I have to give her reminders of how to budget and what she can and can't afford. She's in her mid 50's now. Most people my age can go to their mom for advice and financial help instead of the other way around. She always appologizes for being as she says, a "burden", on me. I don't care about the money. I just want her to be happy and to not have to worry about her. Has anyone else ever had a similar situation and what can I do to make her more independent?
2006-07-20
07:19:08
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Jimbo
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