this is for serious guys. nothing's working.
2006-07-20 08:01:38 · 14 answers · asked by dyboy34 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
shes sayin all this crap on how im so irresponsible n a lowlife n watever. its been like 2 weeks with her so far n im ready to go to jail for murder!!!
2006-07-20 08:04:15 · update #1
she's visiting from puerto rico. y cant she stay in her own country?!?!
2006-07-20 08:33:33 · update #2
She's too old to be changed, basically you have to learn how to deal with it. Honestly you can't expect her to have a huge change of character, so decide how much you can put up with and then keep your distance.
2006-07-20 08:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by K8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is ... why are you with grandma on a daily basis? Are you there at her house or has she come to visit you?
It's not very respectful to call your grandparent such a name. Have you given her any reason to think that way of you? Things have changed a lot since she was your age ... and the older we get the harder change can be to accept.
If the staying with grandma is short term, then maybe to make both your lives easier ... listen to what she is saying and asking of you. Bend a little to make it easier for both of you. Who knows you might even start enjoying each others company. We have a lot we can learn from the older generation!!
Good luck.
2006-07-20 08:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, I had a similar problem with my mother in law, and she would make my 9 year old come home crying because of it. We finally had to sit her down and talk to her about how she was making people feel.
She got mad, yeah. She didnt talk to us for like 3 months. But, she did finally do some changes in her attitude. I'm not saying she's wonderful and perfect, but things are better.
So, I would say just talk to her, find out why she's doing the things she's doing. Maybe its something medical too. Its hard, I know, we dreaded it for a week before we could finally talk to my MIL. But it was a good thing.
Hope things get better for you!
2006-07-20 08:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by D'oh! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1: threaten with nursing home
Step 2: if step 1 doesnt work proceed with threat
Step 3: if step 2 doesnt work consider hiring a hit man.
Step 4: do you know where im going with this lol?
2006-07-20 08:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by deadly_donkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grumpy Granny's they are the worst
they think because their life is finished they must drag a ship down with them
if your grandma is bugging you to much go outside to a park or some place far away
2006-07-20 08:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by x_cybernet_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tip - not an answer - In Genereal - Family is the most important thing to have in your life. Sometimes you have to "play along" to ease over things with family members. One thing not to do, is shut them out of your life.
2006-07-20 08:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by StylerEX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While she's sleeping, wrap her up in a sheet and sew it shut! Use your imagination and just think of the scene where she wakes up and can't go anywhere.
I'm just kidding...but it would work.
2006-07-20 08:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try growing up and showing her some resepct. think of all shes done for you . what have you done for her lately.and if your still in school you have no business calling your grandmother a bi..t..c...h , you have no idea what real life is..
2006-07-20 08:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by omygodedidit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push her out in front of a reindeer!
2006-07-20 08:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sick Puppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Nursing home!!!
2006-07-20 08:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋