last night, i turned my wife down for some 2 am fun. i had been sleeping and she had been awake. i slept for about 3 hours. i was just tired and not in the mood. we just had a baby and she feels inadequate. I feel bad now, and i want her to feel as secure about herself as possible. I feel horrible about it, but should i feel this way every time im not in the mood, i mean its not that often that i turn her down, i try to have fun just about every night that we are together alone without kids running around and she is home from work (she works 7-7 fri sat and sun)? I understand her feeling rejected now that she brought it to my attention, and i know that 20-30 minutes of my time could have solved this problem. I feel bad, and all and i want to be the same person i was when we were dating a few years ago. when we were dating we would have sex 1-3 times a day. I want to please all of her sexual needs, but times have changed what should i do?
2006-07-20
08:45:26
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daniel e
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