I am a single mother of four children 2 boys 2 girls 2 fathers the father of my 2 youngest has always taken the 2 oldest as his on heres the problem the boys are 12 and 8 years old they went to there dads for the summer 2 weeks ago my 12 year old calls me @ 10:00pm whispering trying to tell me that his dad told him he could make some fast money and would not even have to do anything
all he would have to do is just stand there well you know where I'm going with this I have to beleive my son thats my job I of course contacted the police now there are detectives involved my ex is trying to say he made a comment to my 12 year old but that is not what he meant how could a comment from a grown man to a child be taken any other way I have lost my job over having to take time to deal with this.please give me some insight on how this sounds thanks everyone
2006-07-20 08:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by terrigurl30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your doing exactly the right thing! No doubt. I'm sorry you lost your job over it, that's awful. But you do have to believe you son and you need to make sure he is not with them unsupervised if that's the way his mind works. Your doing great, sorry it's so hard.
2006-07-20 08:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by S J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a grown woman who was sexually abused as a child, I fully support and encourage any action that helps put an end to abuse. I was not taken seriously as a child; my own mother made light of the situation. You are doing the right thing to help your son. Losing your job is obviously not a pleasent experience but you are doing your son and many other children a great service.
2006-07-20 08:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did the right thing. Of course I cannot make any judgements as I don't know you, your ex, your son, etc.
But any time a child tells another grownup something like that, you have to take it seriously. A child's safety is the number one priority.
No one makes money for doing "nothing". If it turns out that your son was mistaken by your ex's comments, definitely apologize to your ex, but explain that your son's comments had to be taken seriously, just in case.
I hope your family gets through this ordeal in one piece. Good luck.
2006-07-20 08:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by tweetymay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Protect your children at all costs. That is your job. Nothing else will do.
2006-07-20 08:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by therego2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are puncuation keys on your keyboard...use them!
call the cops no matter the price. is this even a question?
2006-07-20 08:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Nunya B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on now he is a sick pervert
2006-07-20 08:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋