i would just talk to her on the phone and sometimes ill ask to see her but shell always had an exquse for me, i also askt here what was rong what did i do for here to leave me she said that i did do anything that she just didnt truest me.i havent seen her in like 7 months.when i seen her on that weeken i felt like if the hole world had just fallen on top of me,i realy love this girl i dont no what to do with my self any more..
2006-07-20 08:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by chirios_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I guess she doesn't want you,
you should start looking in to something else.
I don't think you want her to be your friend and somebody else also.
one lover
2006-07-20 12:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by gw123456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't know the reason doesn't mean she didn't have one, maybe she isn't telling you the reason because either its about her and something she did and is ashamed of it and doesn't want to admit it, or she just doesn't want to hurt you. With the pregnancy thing are you sayingyou think its yours? If she's pregnant and she left, maybe thats why, maybe because she was already seeing someone else maybe she was already pregnant.
But here comes the important part....THE WHY DOESN'T MATTER, everyone always has their own agenda and you never really know what it is, also people don't come with pink slips and are free to leave anytime they want and for any reason (or non-reason) that they want. It just doesn't matter because it doesn't change anything, people tend to get hung up on the why thinking that it would change things somehow, but it doesn't. All that really matters is what is and the reality is she left, she's moved on and now you need to do the same thing. Obsessing about the why is what is keeping your feelings for her alive, let go of your 'need' to know that by realizing it doesn't even matter and start looking ahead and you will find it fades and before you know it there is a really cute girl standing over there that you would like to get to know. Don't stay stuck in the past, nothing you can do or say changes that, its already in the books so to speak, the only thing you can change is right now and whether or not you spend tomorrow looking back or moving forward to something new and better! one more thing, real LOVE is a two way street, she left so it wasn't love, so whatever attachment you have to this girl it isn't love. Good luck!
2006-07-20 08:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not you, maybe she is the reason you two aren't together. It's possible she cheated on you and tried to turn it around by saying she doesn't trust you. Maybe that's not your child she's carrying. Either way I am sorry you are hurting and I hope you find love to mend your broken heart. Perhaps she will come around and you can be a happy family...okay that was corny.
2006-07-20 08:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense man, but if she is preggers with someone elses kid, it should be that much easier to accept that it is the beginning of the end of that relationship. I hope it all works out for you man. if it is your kid you had better step up to the plate. i doubt it is yours though, she wouldngt be trying to avoid you if it were to be your kid. if not then if you want to be in that relationship there is probably going to be drama between her and the babies daddy. i would steer the opposite direction if i were you.
2006-07-20 08:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by daniel e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have left because she cheated and wanted to spare you the knowledge. Ask her if it is your baby. Maybe she felt you would leave her or ask her to abort.
2006-07-20 08:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go as fast as you can and start looking for someone else.
2006-07-20 08:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by big ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't trust you then there is nothing you can do about it. You need to leave her alone.
2006-07-20 08:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak with her, mabye she is caring your child and didn't want you to know..
2006-07-20 08:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it your baby?
2006-07-20 08:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by 9929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋