I love my mother very much. However, we have never had a good relationship. We lived with many people in our home as I was growing up, I often “went to mommy” when I was young and she way always too busy. So my grandmother essentially raised me till I was 15 (when she died). At that time my mom decides to show up in my life. I resisted the “half-done efforts” and it really has never been a good relationship. I do not despise her, but I know she has never really been there emotionally, financially etc. (so I do not go to her). My mom has a way of telling you what to do and it her way or the highway. I am 26 years old now, been living on my own for quite some time I do not ask my mom for much, other than respect.
She wants to “fix” things between us, which I am open to. However I am not ready because I agree that we all need to come to a place in our hearts where we can have several conversations and regarding several topics. I still feel that EVERYONE (including myself) is so
2006-07-10
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