I live with my 2 parents and sister who is 3 years older than me, I'm in my late teens she is in her early twenties. since I was like 15 I've been attracted to her sexually. I know this is wrong and I understand that my actions could seriously damage my great relationship with her but I cannot stop fantasizing about her. She is very hot and we've flirted a few times and talked about sex but I've always been able to control myself until recently, I joked about doing it with her and she smiled and flirted about it. Am I crazy or what? I know my thoughts are wrong but I still have them. what should I do, besides see a shrink which btw this is a very embaressing subject to talk about.
2006-07-10 10:00:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Leviticus 18
1 The LORD told Moses
2 to tell the people of Israel: I am the LORD your God!
3 So don't follow the customs of Egypt where you used to live or those of Canaan where I am bringing you.
4 I am the LORD your God, and you must obey my teachings.
5 Obey them and you will live. I am the LORD.
6 Don't have sex with any of your close relatives,
7 especially your own mother. This would disgrace your father.
8 And don't disgrace him by having sex with any of his other wives.
9 Don't have sex with your sister or stepsister, whether you grew up together or not.
10 Don't disgrace yourself by having sex with your granddaughter
11 or half sister
12 or a sister of your father or mother.
13 (SEE 18:12)
14 Don't disgrace your uncle by having sex with his wife.
15 Don't have sex with your daughter-in-law
16 or sister-in-law.
17 And don't have sex with the daughter or granddaughter of any woman that you have earlier had sex with. You may be having sex with a relative, and that would make you unclean.
18 As long as your wife is alive, don't cause trouble for her by taking one of her sisters as a second wife.
19 When a woman is having her monthly period, she is unclean, so don't have sex with her.
20 Don't have sex with another man's wife--that would make you unclean.
21 Don't sacrifice your children on the altar fires to the god Molech. I am the LORD your God, and that would disgrace me.
22 It is disgusting for a man to have sex with another man.
23 Anyone who has sex with an animal is unclean.
24 Don't make yourselves unclean by any of these disgusting practices of those nations that I am forcing out of the land for you. They made themselves
25 and the land so unclean, that I punished the land because of their sins, and I made it vomit them up.
26 Now don't do these sickening things that make the land filthy. Instead, obey my laws and teachings.
27 (SEE 18:26)
28 Then the land won't become sick of you and vomit you up, just as it did them.
29 If any of you do these vulgar, disgusting things, you will be unclean and no longer belong to my people. I am the LORD your God, and I forbid you to follow their sickening way of life.
30 (SEE 18:29)
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2006-07-10 10:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
At least you know that your attraction isn't completely normal. Make up some harmless thing to tell your parents you want to see a shrink about. Tell them your depressed or something. There's no sense in freaking them out.
Then you'll have to be honest with the shrink, who will not tell your family your secret. You should get some help soon though. And don't just accept some scripture telling you that it's a sin. If you just supress these urges, they'll come back in a far more dangerous form. You need to find the source of these urges and deal with it. A preacher will not be able to help you. You need a shrink.
2006-07-10 10:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rational explanation for why you should feel disgusted, it is all self inflicted. While many people will tell you that your feelings are immoral, wrong or disgusting (and even you think that), I would say that there is nothing wrong with it. It is your life, live it the way you want, not the way others tell you to live it. There is literally no logical and consistent reasoning for why being in consenting relationships with siblings is wrong. I don't know how your sister would react to you possibly telling her, so you probably know best if you should tell her or not. But whatever you decide, just don't stress our or be hard on yourself.
2016-03-27 00:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow um...yeah the only thing I could think of was see a psychiatrist..i mean, they dont know you foreal so would it really matter what you tell them? Or maybe try an shrink hot-line, you can talk to them all you want and they really dont know you so that makes it much easier...but I dunno. Maybe just come out and talk to her about it. But it is very wrong. Some things should seriously just be left a fantasy.
2006-07-10 10:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by RockStar Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you live in Arkansas. People there do this kinda of thing all the time. Only you can really answer the question. You must think it wrong or you just want attention if you will put it on the internet.
2006-07-10 10:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ben M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try to divert your attention from your sister to a girl who is unrelated and closer to your age. don't flirt with your sister..do you know how sick and twisted that is.... you will ruin your life and hers by even going there. have respect for your sister if not for yourself. can you imagine if your sister became pregnant....you want a little inbred child having to suffer for what you've done so thoughtlessly. i hope you're only kidding about the whole thing..if you're serious seek advice from a trusted member of your family or a guidance counselor and stay away from your sister, freak -boy!
2006-07-10 10:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by janey girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep teasing with her if you know that it is wrong? You know that that is ancest don't you? Maybe you and her should talk about this very sick attraction that you have with each other instead of talking about doing it with each other. This is making matters worse.
2006-07-10 10:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off if you related to her you should stop and just forget about it but other than that if your not totaly well thats a lil different but i think you should try looking for someone who is more your age you never know you be attracted like that to someone else all you gotta do is try lookin for that somone special !!!
2006-07-10 10:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by lilteley18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to avoid her. Go talk to a counselor and avoid her. You definitely shouldn't act on this attraction.
2006-07-10 10:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by fabergirl3677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely go see a counselor. Soon.
2006-07-10 10:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋