Family - July 2006

Ever since i was little i felt like i never fit in with my sister and brother or my fathers family. i dont look anything like my siblings, they have dark hair and are tall, i have blonde hair and im short. every one says i look like my mom but i have some characteristics that my mother nor father have. My parents got divorced before i was concieved. My sister got mad at my mom one day and said that my 'father' was not my father, that i look just like this guy my mom dated after the divorce, my grandmother agreed. I have confronted my mother about this but she insist we have the same father. I want to know what i should do now, if i should take a DNA test where should i get it cheap and how whould i go about doing it?

2006-07-10 08:04:21 · 9 answers · asked by *♥Chelsea 2

im torn by this decision, dont wanna upset my parents though

2006-07-10 08:01:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 17 yr old daughter will be a senior this year , but now I am feeling worried, scared, sad, but excited for her she's no longer a baby is this normal for me to feel that way, I know that there is someone out there with the same feeelings , please send me you comments all is welcome.......

2006-07-10 08:00:50 · 11 answers · asked by E.M. 4

In dealing with male victims of domestic violence, as well as men falsely accused of it, I've found that having a female officer on the scene greatly improves the chances of a fair conclusion. At least in the Johnson County (KS) area, female officers are more likely to note when a woman is lying about a DV assault, than a male officer. The female officer is also more likely to note when the man is the victim. A good example of this was on the show "COPS" where a San Antonio (TX) male officer did not note that the hand print bruises on the woman's neck was the same size as her own hands, and not the man's. The arriving female officer did see this, and with further questioning of neighbors, found that the complaintant was really the abuser. The result was the man was not arrested, but since the Texas law only applies to men, they couldn't arrest her. They did have to inform him that the prosecutor could still issue an arrest warrant for him.

2006-07-10 07:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me your "monster-in-law" stories.

2006-07-10 07:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by smalltownangel 4

2006-07-10 07:54:03 · 5 answers · asked by Shell 1

2006-07-10 07:53:56 · 11 answers · asked by Shell 1

2006-07-10 07:44:54 · 9 answers · asked by erin s 1

I was adopted and I have started cutting. My parents found out and now I cant go anywhere because they are afraid me and my friend are going to do it again. I told my mom that I would stop once but I never did What do I do to reassure her that I wont do it again and gain her trust at the same time?

2006-07-10 07:42:19 · 13 answers · asked by Punker 1

I'm 16 yrs old and I found out 3 yrs ago that I might have had a half-brother who died of leukemia 4 yrs before I was born. I've found an album containing pictures of him and a birth certificate stating that my mother was his mother except he had a different last name. My family also knew about him because they were in the pictures of his 1st birthday and that is where the album ends so I'm guessing he only lived for about a yr and a half. Would there be a reason for my mother not to have told me about a previous pregnancy or who was it that she was with before my father got into the picture? Like I said before, I'm confused. Should I confront my mom about what I have discovered or wait for her to tell me eventually?

2006-07-10 07:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by ranchogurl09 2

I live in Northern Ireland and my second name is Bissett, i have looked in the phone book for N.I. and all the Bissetts seem to be related

2006-07-10 07:23:40 · 1 answers · asked by NIcky b 4

How do you go about finding a therapist or qualified person to talk to. There are some anger issues that I need to work out. I have two small children myself and really want to get past this for them. I want to be the last one who has to carry all this baggage around. Besides, they are too little to carry heavy things ... : )

2006-07-10 07:19:18 · 5 answers · asked by carley76 2

We recently haven't been getting along very well because she has an empty house and won't let me move into it to get my bills paid off even though my brother lived at home until he was 25 and my sister moved in and out of home until she was about 24 (I'll be 23 next week) I only wanted to stay there for a little while, and I'd pay rent, I just didn't want to have to buy a house and then turn around and sell it when my fiance and I build a house - - - Anyways, I thought we could get over that and go look for wedding dresses together for my upcoming wedding. She won't pick up the phone when I call and she won't return my emails (she checks her email every day). I don't know what to do...what should I do in this situation??? I'm still mad about the house thing, but I figure there's nothing I can do so we could go look for wedding dresses together... She's given my brother and sister $500 each for their weddings (I'm the youngest), so I just thought she could pay for/help pay for my dress.

2006-07-10 07:17:57 · 24 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5

2006-07-10 07:08:28 · 14 answers · asked by Char M 1

Okay so here is the thing. I am turning 21 next week. All the girls in my family decided to go gambling and clubing. My two oldest sisters go into an agrument about how her son cut her daugter's dvd cord and now the oldest decided not to go. It is very inmature of her. I would like her to go but I am not going to beg her. What should I say if I say anything at all?

2006-07-10 07:03:36 · 15 answers · asked by mandy 2

i have alot of problems with my family.my mom hates me alot,& i cant even talk to her.i never have done anything for her to hate me. when i talk to her about the way she treats me she just laughs @ me. my mom has nothing in life that i should respect her 4. she has never worked,lives on child support,never gives me any money,i cook for myself,i clean myself,and i have to find my own way to placeseven to school.my dad is remarried, and does illegal things but i love him,he puts me in danger all the time and ive tried talking2him.my mom has neverloved me for anything i have done,never congradualtes me in school.&she talks so much crap about me,making me look like a bad person. i cry everysingle day of my life for everything that she has done,& i cant stop.i even wanted to commit suicide,i told her &shejust laughed in my face,&said that i am an idiot. i have no respect for her as a mother, a woman,or even a human being.how can i deal with this,&im only 16 this has been going onall my life

2006-07-10 07:01:57 · 19 answers · asked by igotalyfe 1

I wish people would just stop, now, and take the time to evaluate where they are in their own lives and be satisfied with what they have, we all were dealt a bad hand, a rough family life, up-bringing, nothings perfect, stop the madness in thinking your always having it so bad and life owes you!,There will always be different people and different ways around the world and no one is right or wrong. But we all see tough times at differnet levels and times in life. Can't we see beyond ourselves and our own fear of what's different? Focus on what your doing right now for yourself and your family and for the good of it all. For god sakes, END the WARS and fighting!!! it's such a waste of energy and life!!

2006-07-10 06:54:44 · 2 answers · asked by distalbicept 3

3 of my husband nieces and nephew that were takien away from his sister over 10 years ago.. there names are Jessica Badillo , Maricela Badillo , and Jesse Badillo there natural mothers name is Diana Badillo. Does anybody recognize these sisters and brother please contact me at jessicaramos079@hotmail.com or if you know of a Web site that I can look them up free of charge? Thank you I would greatly appreciate it!!!

2006-07-10 06:48:45 · 2 answers · asked by "LA WERA" 1

what web site can I go to find my children that were put up for adoption without using a credit card. I don't have one.

2006-07-10 06:39:50 · 7 answers · asked by grace 1

2006-07-10 06:32:19 · 3 answers · asked by Mobidus Lee 3

2006-07-10 06:18:41 · 42 answers · asked by aunty 3

We have four kids and only live 20 minutes away. I am an odd ball for the fact that I actually want my mother in law around, but I do! Am I allowed to just flat out ask her if there is a reason that she doesnt seem to want to be a part of our lives? We have really great kids. My husband will not say anything to her for fear of upsetting her. I just think that my kids are entitled to their grandmother.

2006-07-10 06:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by flowerandkevin 2

he mom is okay with giving her to me she is not able to take of both of the kids so i am willing to get my niece to provide a better life for her and lawyer sometimes can be ugly and it is not that she is unfit but at this time it is hard on her so i am willing to help but i need to get the paperwork for her to sign but i do not want to go through a lawyer so what can i do

2006-07-10 06:10:50 · 10 answers · asked by angie1hwrd 1

Her daughter was involved in a volatile, abusive relationship. With each break-up, she shared details of his tirades and abuse. Some were obscene & directed at my daughters. We all learned of them , directly affecting our attitude towards him. She decided to marry this guy & announce her engagement on Christmas eve at my home. I was never consulted about this. He ex-husband is a friend of ours & has been invited to our home for 14-15 years. She was told that he would be there so she called him, demanding that he be gone by 8 o'clock. FYI - they had been engaged since Sept. My sister decided we were not warm enough to him that evening. She silently seethed for months, telling my niece not to invite us to the wedding. My husband & I were invited; not my daughters. I wrote a letter explaining why we would not attend & the effects on our relationship. I received 2 vicious letters (niece & sister).They still attempt hurting my family, including my grandson, the age of niece's son

2006-07-10 06:10:14 · 4 answers · asked by Cosmicjourneyer 1

my husband has a uncle thats 10 yr.s older than him his uncle is almoust 40. all my hubbys life he made his life miserable , his uncle the youngest brother that my husbands mother has. practically my mother i law raised him. and when my husband was born he had a grudge against my hubby. well now what pisstes me off is how he acts with everybody and what he does. he acts so inmature like a little kid . he likes nobody in his house with is really his parents house his parents are still alive they are in the 80's. his mother always loved to help needy families and friends. she has opened her home to everybody who needs to stay. he has done hell to all these people for years.he argues alot ,he never has worked in his life he eats the food his mother buys iwith lots of work. he has no money.for ex... he wets our car for no reason, he opens the windows to shut off our fans, he disconnects his mothers phone line when he gets angry. he is watching our every move to see what we do in the hous

2006-07-10 06:09:56 · 23 answers · asked by ❤נαcкiε❤ 5

2006-07-10 06:06:05 · 6 answers · asked by â?¥á?¦à®?á?¬ DAX á?¦à®?á?¬â?¥ 3

Janice's 2 youngest children, AMber & Matt, had their father pass away last July. Since she has been recieving Social Security which comes to around $450 each child totaling $900 a month. Janice gives $75 to each child each month and tells them they are responsible for all their expenses including bathroom items, personal hygine, clothing, family outings, school supplies and everything else. She does provide family groceries becuase of foodstamps.

Janice does make $15 under the table on an average of 25-40 a week cleaning houses.

She states this is more like childsupport that he never paid during their lives (ages 15 & 16) and they are lucky to get any of the money during the month. When they misbehave (son is very agressive and smartmouths and hits sometimes who is 15 yrs) she deducts their money and sometimes they are left with ZERO money for the month and she keeps this money, it does not go into savings.

What is your opinion on this situation?

2006-07-10 05:55:54 · 41 answers · asked by dreamsykel 2

my mother told me out of spite. she will not tell me anything more. she wants nothing to do with this at all. she omly told me because i told her she can never keep a secert. i thought i was the 1st. born. I DO KNOW THE FOLLOWING. BORN IN IL, BOY, SHE WAS ABOUT 14 OR 15, JEWISH FAM. MAY ADOPEDED HIM.

2006-07-10 05:54:55 · 5 answers · asked by tarhead 1

This is a man who doesn't like anything, wants nothing, needs nothing and yet if you don't at least make an effort, he gets hurt easily.

So, anyone have any suggestion? I've tried pretty much everything from clothes that he'll give as gifts later, shoes / slippers that he won't wear, tools but he has more than most people have, and now I've run out of ideas.

I need help!!!!! Please, please, please help me.

2006-07-10 05:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by GirlinNB 6

what would your mom do if she saw a porno video with you in it?

2006-07-10 05:53:51 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous