Okay so here is the thing. I am turning 21 next week. All the girls in my family decided to go gambling and clubing. My two oldest sisters go into an agrument about how her son cut her daugter's dvd cord and now the oldest decided not to go. It is very inmature of her. I would like her to go but I am not going to beg her. What should I say if I say anything at all?
2006-07-10 07:03:36 · 15 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Let her know that you'd like for her to put her differences aside regarding the argument. Replace the DVD cord or whatever it takes. This is your 21st birthday and you'd like to spend it with your sisters. I would say no more than that. I wouldn't put myself in the middle (anymore than you may already be) of their argument! ENJOY YOUR BIRTHDAY!!! IT IS YOURS AND YOU WILL ONLY CELEBRATE YOUR 21st BIRTHDAY ONCE!
2006-07-10 07:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by pottersclay70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to her you understand her frustration with the other sister but it is important to you that both your sisters be there to celebrate your birthday. There is no need to beg but you have to be clear as to how you feel. Tell her your feelings are a bit hurt she would consider not going to your birthday because of an argument with the other sister. She should be able to set aside her differences with the other sister for 1 night to make your birthday a special memorable day for you. As we all know families fight and argue and more times than not always make up and years later forget about whatever incident caused them to be so angry with one another. This case sounds alot like it will blow over in time. Happy Birthday.
2006-07-10 14:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...wow...
I too am turning 21 next week! yay!
Just tell them that the best thing they could give you is to go on the trip with you. But if it's next week, that's quite a bit of time. You might be able to get by without saying anything and it'll take care of itself.
Oh wait... my b-day's in 3 days. Wow.
2006-07-10 14:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you would love her to go and she should not be like this as its your 21st birthday and you will never have one again so she should really think hard about what she is doing. Im sure they can sort it out. Good luck and happy birthday for next week have a great night
2006-07-10 14:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont beg her. Tell her that your sorry she's not coming, but that the reason she isnt coming is immature. This is YOUR birthday and YOUR day to have fun. If your sister(s) dont respect that, then you might have a better time if you leave them at home.
2006-07-10 14:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by mand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try to explain to the sister how important to you it is that she come and a once in a lifetime thing to have all the grls together to celebrate your special day. ask her if she could please set aside her difference for your sake and let her know your not choosing sides because you want them both there...if she decides not to go then there isnt anything you can do but try to have a great time without her....
2006-07-10 14:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by becca9892003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should say i would like you to come with us and i apologize about the cutting of the dvd cord
2006-07-10 14:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your sister that you would like for her to attend the "girls night out" and that the argument between them two shouldn't spoil your plans.
2006-07-10 14:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is an important event in your life and you would appreciate if she would put aside her anger and help you to celebrate a milestone in your life. Also tell her that she will regret her actions later in her life.
2006-07-10 14:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say this, I wish that you could join us (the date) I really hate to see that you aren't able to make it with us. Or you could say are you sure that you want to pass up an oppertunity like this?
2006-07-10 14:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋