I have offered to pay her at those times she helped, but she wouldn't take it. I would never be able to pay her all that I would owe her. I do appreciate it, she says I don't, I guess because I argue back with her or I won't do what she wants or I do things she don't want me to. Sometimes it seems as though she helps me so that she can have control over me. She goes on and on and won't listen to what I have to say. She is married and lives down the road from me. I am single, her little brother, age 53. It seems like she is constantly on my case about something. Am I suppose to let her have her way because of all she has done for me, or am I still suppose to have my own life, even though she helps me? She doesn't try to understand things, like how much the groceries cost me, etc. It upsets me so when she bitches that it makes my stomach upset, and gives me a tension headache from the stress. How can I get through to her?
2006-07-30
13:34:03
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