im really scared! i saw my parents hugging and dancing one day and i got freaked out. it was really scary. i got this bad feeling and couldnt sleep for the next 2 nights. then i saw my parents kissing really hard in their bed. they didnt see me and dont know i saw them. im shaking realy hard its so scary! once they went to the movies together without my brother and me. when we were moving they kept on going to the house were moving out of to "clean up" and "move stuff over". they kepton going out to eat together. im so scared! this is killing me! i cant handle it any more! please help! after they finished kissing in bed their cheeks were touching my dad kept making kissing sounds and then my mom said,"put it in here and then she moved my dad's hand probably from her stomach or something to her breasts. it's so freaky! just please answer these questions!this is changing my life! just yesterday i saw them have sex 3am
should i talk to my mom about it?what should i do?!?!?!HELP ME!
2006-07-30 14:32:03 · 25 answers · asked by Tbs Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, since so many of you are curious, im 10 and 1/2. and because a lot of you are bringing it up, i couldnt help it, we sleep in the same room that's divided by a divider that wont go all the way to the wall. the night i saw them have sex together there was this weird noise and i couldnt fall asleep so i went to see what was happening and saw them like that. so then i got really nervous and then had to go pee real bad so i waited until it was over (i was bursting) and then my dadwent to the bathroom and then i went. when i got back in bed my mom asked me when i got up and if i was okay. i said that i got up before i went and that i was okay even though i wasnt, so yeah, she didnt think i saw them having sex. and i dont care about being or not being disturbed but about the fact that its happening.
2006-07-30 15:37:44 · update #1
READ THIS:WE SHARE A ROOM!!!
2006-07-30 15:58:51 · update #2
look, forget about it.... you shouldnt worry about it. im 15 right now, k. when i was your age, i was sort of weary about that stuff too... now i joke with my parents about their sex life (which is non exsistant). every relationship when your that old has a sex life involved... its normal. and, atleast your parents sex life sounds good. think of it this way, sometimes sex is the only thing that can get people through really hard times.... if its good enough, your parents are in good shape. cause, that makes fights a little less hard, acctually..... so, you shouldnt be worrying about it. just make sure you dont do what you see, and youll be fine... well, atleast not for like... 5 or 6 more years.
btw... if you wanted to put your parents in an akward position, say you caught them, and say it confidently. and be like, hey, guess what i saw you guys doing..... and just start messin with them.... lol. but, only once your over seeing them have sex. you will be soon enough, dont worry about it.
2006-07-30 16:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by mdrieber00013 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You don't say how old you are but...grow up. If you are old enough to be on the computer and to realize their touching may lead to sex, you are old enough to understand that married ppl have sex. What, do you think they only ever had sex 2 times (when you and your brother were conceived)? If you are that freaked out tell your mom. Perhaps they should make sure their bedroom door is shut before having sex, even if it is at 3 am. As for the hand holding and touching, me and hubby do that all the time, with in reason since we have 3 kids. And I think it makes them feel secure to know that their parents love each other and provides a good example of what a marriage should be like.
In any case why would this be "scarry" unless 1 of them was being forced or hurt?
2006-07-30 14:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...I am still trying to decide if you are serious or not. Lets say you are...your parents are just trying to maintain a healthy relationship with each other. That is great. A lot of parents dont have that kind of relationship. How to you think you popped up?You must be really young or unstable in some way to freak out like that. You shouldnt be spying on your parents anyways. Sounds like you need to grow up a little.
2006-07-30 14:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by HeavenLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweety, you not gonna die....and daddy's not hurting mummy!Its what God created for grown ups...they were making love and its only right that your parents show their affection towards each other. Maybe you should speak to mummy and tell her that you had them make noises at night and that made you uncomfortable.
By the way....whydo you share a room with your parents?
2006-07-30 16:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just calm down and let them be, they are just very much in love with each other. I think it is so sweet for people to get along that good.
While you are at it, stay away from their bed room. And it is very good manners to "knock" on a door and wait for invite before entering a room with closed door.
2006-07-30 14:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. talk to your mom about it if it makes you that uncomfortable. i'd be definitely feelin like i'm in a nightmare if i saw that w/my mom and dad too. just gross, ya know. but it's a fact of life i guess cause i mean honestly, that's how you and i were conceived. but as far as dealing w/it...i'd say it'd be best to let your mom/parents know how you're feeling so in the future, they'll do it more discreetly and are more aware of their surroundings. your reaction is totally normal btw.
2006-07-30 14:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to back away from mommy and daddy's bedroom, don't ya think ??? It's none of your business, and if you ask me it's pretty damn rude and selfish to just be thinking of yourself as opposed to being happy your mom and dad are still happily in love. Let your mom and dad have their own lives together, don't get into it, at least they probably won't be divorcing anytime soon.
2006-07-30 15:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by loosenupmybuttons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?...You must be young
Let your parents have their fun girl & stay in your room...sounds more to me like you're curious & spying on them..mind your business..!
When you get older & get into your own relationships you'll understand the importance of them being married & still having intimacy in their life after years of marriage
2006-07-30 14:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents would never have behaved like that I don't think you'd exist today, it's a natural thing. It seems to me their marriage really is good, I'd way prefer this situation to parents who hate each other and quarrel all day.
2006-07-30 22:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lucky kid, trying your best to create a problem. Your parents love each other, that is a good thing.
Be happy. Learn from them, so that later you too can have a good marriage.
2006-07-30 14:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋