i hate hate my 9year old brother and i have 2 older brothers and after i was born my dad wanted anether kid so they had him.should i be mad at my dad?
2006-07-30 15:25:05 · 17 answers · asked by mica d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no you shouldn't siblings don't get along till there grown up.
2006-07-30 15:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be mad at your dad. He has acted irresponsibly in having yet another child after 2 of your brothers & you. He has not given it a thought that in a world of 6.6 billion people, if every couple plans having 4 children each, then the the immense pressure on our Mother Earth would make its ecological system collapse. There would be too little place for us to live in peace, severe scarcity of jobs, lack of food for all of that expansive population. A crowd in your home today could turn out into a crowd in your world tomorrow, & what a chaotic place that would be! I only hope that your brothers & you understand this & grow up to into responsible persons so that when all of you get married, you do not have a crowd of kids in your homes.
2006-07-30 22:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Zombie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not be mad at your dad.
How old are you? I hope you realize your mom had a part to play in this also?
Earlier answer is correct, it is none of your business how many kids your parents have.
It seems you are a little selfish, jealous and spoiled. You were the baby for so many years and then this little bundle of joy came, and you were no longer the baby.
And now you are looking for someone to release your anger and frustration on.
2006-07-30 22:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Seeking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont hate hime, he is your little brother, what would you do if he turned up missing in the morning, or he broke his arm or something, you would feel horrible, and no you shouldnt be mad at your dad, its not your choice, he wanted another kid. just be lucky you have family, think of the kids out there that dont have a dad, or little/older brothers/sisters. so just be thankfull and try and get along with him, i know how hard it is to get along with your older and younger sibilings, i have a younger sis. and a older brother, we are always argueing, but at the end of the day i still pray for them, i would miss them so much if something were to happen to them, so like i said just try and get along with them...... good luck....
2006-07-30 23:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Leesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hate your brothers? That is a cruel thing and you should learn to let your hatered out through a positive instead of hating your brother who is your family. Friends come and go but family is forever and if you dont think that then you have no heart.
2006-07-30 22:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't hate your brother. You may dislike the things he does, but you love him deep down. When you both gro up, you will probably have a great bond.
Don't be angry with your father, you have no reason to be. Go up to hi and thank him for choosing to give you a younger sibling.
2006-07-30 22:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol no you shouldn`t be mad at him you were the baby untill your brother was born and you feel slighted because you don`t get the same attention you did before he came along but i bet your baby brother thinks the world of you i know my youngest always looked up to his big sister and she clamed she hated him too but you know what when he got sick and whent to the hospital she cried because she thought he might die after that i never heard her say she hated him
2006-07-30 22:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you need to have counseling and let your dad know that he is not being there for you. You don't hate your little brother you are jealous of him and you need to deal with that.
2006-07-30 22:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you should be mad at yourself for hating. it is a very selfish emotion. talk to your parents about getting some quality time one on one with them. make sure that your brothers get the same.
2006-07-30 22:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by justnotright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those times I am glad I am an only child.
Peach
2006-07-30 22:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should talk to your dad and tell him how you feel.
Please don't be mad. Be happy that you're alive and healthy and have a roof over your head.
2006-07-30 22:29:21 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋