Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

OK, I have never had sex with my current boyfriend. I would, if he would shave down there.

It's just a thing with me, I dont' like a guy to be hairy there. It kind of grosses me out. Like if a guy was dating a woman and found out she had hairy pits. It's not something I am confortable with at all. And I don't think it should just be trimmed either.

Ok, so I tell him if he wants me to get anywhere near it, it's going to have to be clean shaved. I even offered to do it.

He says the guys at the gym might make fun of him. I said if it's more important to have a bush to show off in the gym shower than we just won't have sex.

Is this to harsh?

2007-08-21 08:06:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 22 young and pretty very smart. I became a pen pal to a Soldier when I was 17. We grew fond of eachother. We've never met But planned for him to come down and visit. He has everything I wanted and look for in a man. Qualities that my step dad has that i look for since he and my mom are happily married. Just recently he cheated and i left him. Of course talked it out then I had a fling while seperated. Got together and things were back to normal. Now I've found out he cheated again wit the same girl. And Left and this time was for good. Now he regrets it of course and I told him we could be friends the love i have for him is there and I knw deep down he loves me to but how can i take back someone who cheated twice. If i knew he was like any other guy I woulda left it alone but for some reason he has a hold of me and I dont show it but he lets me knw how much he still loves me and regrets what he did and how he hurt me and him. I NEED GOOD advice from a WOMAN.

2007-08-21 08:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by Ness 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so how about i came out of a Tumultuous marriage that really should have never happened, ok we were together for 10 yrs before we even got married ( i know, i know, if he was like that before you married him what makes you think he will change) but guess what? now we are the best of friends . I never stopped believing in love, when i was going through it, i use to pray for god to bless me with someone that believes in love the way ido. and guess what? got my life back on track, i was going about my own business, not even concerned with meeting ANYONE, and then he fell in my lap, my answer, my dream, and sometimes i still think im dreaming, my question is that, is it somewhere that in the back of my mind that i don't think he could love me like the way he tells me, shows me, and then there are the bad thoughts and the what ifs. anyone out there who is starting over, please tell me how did you over come that feeling of hesitation and just take that big leap?

2007-08-21 08:04:13 · 21 answers · asked by luvmylilmen76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They don't seem to have emotional intelligence or as much intuition as they need. What do you think is the issue with them?

2007-08-21 08:03:46 · 3 answers · asked by hb12 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do girls always go for the guys with like a hot body and everything its just weird cant they grow up yet

2007-08-21 08:03:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been single for my entire life(16 years). i cant eat snickers(tear). i cannot eat wheat or gluten(pretty much same thing and includes snickers). i have a disease where i cant eat the food that has gluten in it. everytime i meet a guy that i like it gets messed up. i have never been kissed. im almost 17 mind you. i wish i was older. i dont get good grades in school. i think im pretty but the guys dont seem to think so. i am just really sad right now.




sorry if i whined to much.





i am usually very optimistic its just right now its not working out that way.

2007-08-21 07:59:51 · 25 answers · asked by lismarie16 2 in Singles & Dating

And emotions. Why not have them study emotional intelligence, there's so much free on the net. That's all men need, you know, to be the perfect mate. Isn't it obvious?

2007-08-21 07:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by hb12 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever me adn my boyfriend are hooking up and im on top of him and my shirt goes up he pulls it back down, like someone is going to be seeing my back when we are by ourselves. Also, he complain of how short my shorts are. i would think he would like when i wear more revealing clothes. It is not becuse of my body. I am an intense runner and i go to the gym 5 times a week and im like 109lbs. I am also a model. Why does he not like when my clothes are revealing? he compliments me more when i wear a sweatshirt. he says i look sexy in a sweatshirt....whhhhaaat? i dont get it. Boys, please explain this to me if there is sometihng about guys that i dont know. Thanks !!!

2007-08-21 07:58:05 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i come from los angeles the land of shallow people. so this is quite common where im from and im sick of it...im pretty sure its everywhere tho..is it where i live or is it that all men are this way. im sorry if i come across as a man hater. but i just need to know there is hope.

are there men who think cheating is wrong?

2007-08-21 07:56:07 · 29 answers · asked by MichelleBenny 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been in a serious and committed relationship for three years. We have bothed smoked pot since we were in highschool and enjoyed getting baked together. However, I quit smoking pot over a month a go because it is expensive and bad for your health. I want him to quit too. I haven't asked him because I don't think it is fair for me to decided one day that I don't want to do something and then force my view on him. And he is so accomadating, he doesn't smoke it around me and hides all the pot supplies and doesn't talk about it to me. But I just wish he would quit because it is bad for his health. I should also note that he quit smoking cigarettes because I asked him too 2 years ago. Really, do I even have the right to ask him to quit just because I want him to?

2007-08-21 07:52:14 · 18 answers · asked by niffer_69_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I just had a baby 2 weeks ago, and I lost my pregnancy weight very fast, yes I'm 7 lbs away from my prepregnancy weight but I still don't look bad.
My neighbors were moving and hired some moving company to help them. Well I went outside to move my car from the spot that I parked in so another older neighbor could park there since it's closer to his apartment and the moving truck was blocking his spot, well I was in a pair of jeans and a white tank top that was tight. Well one of the movers decided to be vulgar and say yeah I'd hit that to one of his buddies and stared the whole time I was walking to my car, never once did I say anything to him. Well on the way back to my apartment, he decided to stare some more, it made me feel really uncomfortable. So when I came in the house I slamemd the door, hubby asked what's wrong so I told him. Well, he didn't get upset, he's just like at least you know you look good and if people didn't stare you would feel unattractive, is he right?

2007-08-21 07:51:31 · 18 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If one of the people in your wedding party continues to say this is costing too much money for me and is basically a burden. The catch one of the bridesmaids is the girlfriend of the best man? Can you tell her that she doesn't have to be a part of it if she doesn't want to? The problem is that the best man might back out as well? Help!

2007-08-21 07:48:17 · 36 answers · asked by CB 3 in Weddings

i bought the shoes a while ago assuming i'd be buying a white dress. after trying on dresses i like an ivory better w/ my skin tone. i didn't even notice it was ivory until told. shoes are $75, non returnable. they're ballerina flats. the dress is A line and big so i'm not sure if one can even see the shoes.

2007-08-21 07:46:54 · 24 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings

when I'm away she puts her makeup on the shelf.

2007-08-21 07:45:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just had an argument with my ex-boyf., who broke up with me a few months ago. He wanted us to stay in contact, he was telling me that he'd be really unhappy if he lost me and could not talk to me. But I am finding this really really hard because I did not us to break up and I am really hurting still now. I cannot be in contact with him just sometimes like he imagines. We are meeting each other in a few days to talk face to face about everything, I have already booked my train ticket. However, we have just had a fight because he told me he is going to the cinema tonight. I wanted to ask him something about a job but he said he cannot talk tonight. I asked him if it is a girl and he said it's not, it's a guy. I said to him that Im sure he would not go to a cimena with a guy and to tell me the truth but he insisted it's a guy. I got upset and told hi that he's lying and he got really upset. He then texted me and told me that I should apologise to him otherwise he won't talk to me.

2007-08-21 07:44:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

thanx 4 ur answers....
here is a @--}- red rose 4 all my frnds.....

2007-08-21 07:38:02 · 11 answers · asked by Sana 3 in Friends

2007-08-21 07:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by Shazam 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know is it ok to keep old pictures of people u dated or had encounters with when your married???

2007-08-21 07:37:49 · 17 answers · asked by Flyyasever 3 in Marriage & Divorce

online or phone

2007-08-21 07:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend asked me to take this week off for her. I promised her I would so I would be able to spend time with her before she leaves for college. She leaves on Saturday. I don't leave for school until September 4th.

All I asked her was if we had to spend the entire 9 days together that I took off and if I could go to a friend's beach house from Saturday night - Monday. She seemed to be very upset that I'm not including her but I can't. It's my one guy friend and his family! He doesn't want anybody else!

I PROMISED HER I would be home by Monday Night!! She asked me if she could stop by early today and I made up a lie that I wanted to sleep. She sadly caught me in that lie. Truth be told I stopped off at another friend's house who lives close by for the night. It was raining and I didn't feel like driving and wanted to hang out with him. I know i PROMISED HER I'd be home last night but does it really make a difference if I'm home by this afternoon or this evening?

2007-08-21 07:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by BadToTheBone 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I woke up and realized that I no longer really care if I have a man in my life. Most of the guys I have dated have made me more miserable than happy and I am just tired of game playing and excuses. I am not saying that I never want a relationship again, part of me would love to have someone special. I just don't want to get burned again and it has never seemed that I really fit with anyone. I am really happy with my life. I just keep attracting flakes. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

2007-08-21 07:32:39 · 30 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 07:31:46 · 23 answers · asked by VINCENT B 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband have seperation papers which states the children will reside with me with generous visitation to him.
Over the last year and a half I have struggled finacialy the city I lived in was very expencive.
I let dad keep the kids for a week so I could figure out what to do. I didn't have enough money for rent which was due, and I was desperately trying to send my truck which was costing me a fortune in gas.
I signed a paper stating I was giving him temporary custody. That could be revoked by either parent in writing.
To make a long stroy short, my sister who lives 3 hours from where we were living, offered to let me and the kids stay with her. She would help me find a place in her home town which was way less expencive then the city we were in. So we moved here.
Well my husband did not like this idea and is now trying to file for cusdody.
My lawyer says since I left without the courts permision, technicley I abducted them.
Do you think he could gain custody?

2007-08-21 07:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by my2canadiankidz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 07:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey guys, i just asked my BF if he is gay or not then he got really mad && pissed off?

What do you think? thanks guys..

2007-08-21 07:27:51 · 1 answers · asked by Megan M 1 in Singles & Dating

I AM A 24 YEAR OLD BI FEMALE, I AM LOOKING FOR ANOTHER GIRL TO HAVE MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WITH, I DONT KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT ASKING A GIRL ABOUT THIS.

2007-08-21 07:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by ♥ lookin 4 ladies ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this girl like me or has feelings for me even if she has a boyfriend ??? PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!?
i've known this girl for almost a year. and now we consider ourselves best friends. but she knows that i have feelings for her and when i first met her she had a bf and i used 2 talk 2 her over AIM and we would give ourselves cute nicknames like bambam and pebbles. when she had a arguement wit bf she wud come 2 me for i can make her feel better.then one day she let me pick her up from school then i found out she had a crush on me too but didnt know what 2 do because she had a bf. she broke up wit her bf and when a while single. she came over 2 ma house and while we were watching a movie she let me lay my head on her shoulder and on her leg. and she would let me pick her up and play with her. then she gott bf before i even made a move and then she left for the summer. i felt bad because i really love her and i thought she didnt like me. now everytime i talk 2 her she calls me bambam again and its wierd because it feels like deja vu. so idk does she like me ??

2007-08-21 07:23:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for my wedding next year !

2007-08-21 07:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by mazza 1 in Weddings

have sex with her. She got this summer job, working as a tee-shirt seller. shes 18. and she is completly oblivious. he throws parties at his house and tries to get her extremely drunk so she cant drive home and stuff. but she never gets to that extent. and now hes asked her to go to Cape Cod MA which is about 4 hours from where we live to go open and close his store out there. hell pay for her gas, and her food ect. and he has a house out there she can stay at. shes just excited to go to cape cod, and doesnt think anything of it. my mom and brother have tried to talk to her, and shes like ill be careful. do you think he wants her?

2007-08-21 07:20:24 · 14 answers · asked by mingosaysss 2 in Singles & Dating

So I used to talk to this boy online and I fell real hard for him. We lost contact and I want to find him but its been a few years and all I know is his name, his birthday, his old email address, and thats about it...what are my options?

2007-08-21 07:19:59 · 5 answers · asked by Cassy B 1 in Singles & Dating