Whenever me adn my boyfriend are hooking up and im on top of him and my shirt goes up he pulls it back down, like someone is going to be seeing my back when we are by ourselves. Also, he complain of how short my shorts are. i would think he would like when i wear more revealing clothes. It is not becuse of my body. I am an intense runner and i go to the gym 5 times a week and im like 109lbs. I am also a model. Why does he not like when my clothes are revealing? he compliments me more when i wear a sweatshirt. he says i look sexy in a sweatshirt....whhhhaaat? i dont get it. Boys, please explain this to me if there is sometihng about guys that i dont know. Thanks !!!
2007-08-21 07:58:05 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't want other men looking at your goodies. Seems fair to me, I happen to have a very attractive wife, and I'd rather she didn't wear overly revealing stuff in public. The part that got to me tho was him wanting to keep you covered up during sex...hmmm that seems a bit weird to me. You ought to ask him about that one.
2007-08-21 08:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tim F 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
To me it says he's interested in more than your body and he probably feels you are to focused on what your body looks like.
A woman in a business suit can be as sexy if not more sexy then someone wearing revealing clothing.
My question would be, why would you rather wear revealing clothing, especially if your bf isn't fond of it? Perhaps you enjoy the gazes and jaw drops of other guys (and girls, "omg look what she's wearing").
2007-08-21 08:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by labken1817 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your best bet is to ask him. If you are saying that he does not want you to wear revealing clothes when you are alone, that makes no sense to me. If he doesn't want you to wear them when you go out that is a completely different and understandable situation. Anyone who would try to explain his reasoning is just guessing. He is the only one who can give you his reason. You need to be able to communicate with each other and talk about things that bother either or both if you, find out why and come to a resolution that is acceptable to both of you.
2007-08-21 08:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HAHA there's nothing to explain about it,,it quite simple...that guy loves you...he doesnt want other guyz/people to see your body that is why he likes sweatshirts.....he's possessive and doesn't want to lose you...you know how you can feel insecure well other are trying to hit on your loved one and you feel insecure that someone from there might take your loved one away from you and when you wear revealing clothes the chances of guys liking/hitting on you get more and more....so he feels insecure thats it......
2007-08-21 08:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by pSyChO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not every guy thinks naked is the ultimate in sexy. That's why they have lingerie. It's all in the mind. For your bf, your clothing is like the wrapping on a present. It is just part of what turns him on. Some guys like girls all "tarted up" with make up, others like no make up.
Can you call it a kink? Sure, if you like. But they sell a lot of clothing that isn't intended to be worn on the streets.
There is no such thing as "abnormal" sexual behavior between consenting adults.
2007-08-21 08:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its a jealousy issue..
I have the same thing (unfortunately?).. My girlfriend wears a D cup bra, and she loves to wear shirts that are farrrr too revealing, and I cant stand it..
I hate the attention it brings, and Im not comfortable having other guys look down my girlfriends shirt.
2007-08-21 08:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by DH 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he might just be a little jelous. He wants you to himself and does not want other guys looking at you. This is not a bad thing, unless he gets controlling and angry over what you are wearing. Complimenting you when you wear a sweatshirt means that he really loves you, all of you, not just your sex appeal.
2007-08-21 08:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by niffer_69_2000 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
People usually want something covered up when they don't want to see it.
That said... he may not like what he sees.... it could be that he is fantasizing about you being a different build and when he sees you it ruins that fantasy.
I'd just outright ask him whats up with that. If he is a straight up guy he will tell you.. if not.. then you need to ask yourself if you want to be in a relationship where the guy isn't being honest with you.
Keep in mind.. honesty is a 2 edge sword.. you may not like what you hear.
2007-08-21 08:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Miss i love you,Dear I am an older boy,47. Baby most guys of any age are horny dogs. They look for any cheap shot they can get of a girls body ! It is a natural human thing. He just is in love and doesn"t want people to see what is his !
2007-08-21 08:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all he has a lot of respect for you and don't want others looking at your body. You should have some respect for your self whether you go to the gym or model think about his feelings on this matter also.
best of luck
2007-08-21 08:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋