I have been single for my entire life(16 years). i cant eat snickers(tear). i cannot eat wheat or gluten(pretty much same thing and includes snickers). i have a disease where i cant eat the food that has gluten in it. everytime i meet a guy that i like it gets messed up. i have never been kissed. im almost 17 mind you. i wish i was older. i dont get good grades in school. i think im pretty but the guys dont seem to think so. i am just really sad right now.
sorry if i whined to much.
i am usually very optimistic its just right now its not working out that way.
2007-08-21 07:59:51 · 25 answers · asked by lismarie16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WILLIAM. THANX FOR THE "QUOTE". LOL. I AM KINDA FEELING BETTER. RIGHT NOW I AM JUST NOT ENJOYING IT AS MUCH AS I WAS.
2007-08-21 08:09:33 · update #1
i love SNICKERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! one of the only candy bars i would eat before i found out that i had it.
2007-08-21 08:21:41 · update #2
i thought about it alot last night. i think i have found a way to enjoy my life a lot more. also a way to not always want the future to come and just enjoy the here and now.
2007-08-22 06:43:02 · update #3
Read this quote:
im 16. very happy most of the time. love my life when its goin good. love my friends. and yep. ooh i love to write. want to be a journalist when i get older. love to dance anywhere. just love to have fun.
2007-08-21 08:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by William R 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it so much.
I got my first boyfriend when I was 16. I waited and I'm really glad now. As for your allergy...or disease, it shouldn't stop you from feeling good about yourself. Snickers aren't that great anyway. And it could always be worse. I have a friend who's allergic to cottonseed oil and some other thing that's in most junk food. So she can't have a LOT of junk food. It's a lot better than being allergic to ....grass or chocolate. Make the best of your situation. And at least you're eating healthier. As for your boy troubles, stop focusing so much on getting one and just let it happen naturally. For now, be happy with hanging out with your friends and the right one will come along.
Good luck. =]
2007-08-21 15:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Melonball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 17, you have your entire life ahead of you! far too young to worry about having never been kissed! But i can understand why! I never had a girlfirend (not properly anyway) untill i was 21(first kiss!). My problem was i was too shy! you will find teenage guys are led by their hormones and not their minds! Dont take it personnally!
I'm sure there are a lot of guys who think you are pretty, but they may be too shy to come up to you?! You'll find somebody!
Why should your gluten problem effect dating?! or even kissing. If the guy makes it a problems he's probably not worth it! Just keep your chin up!!
Grades are not everything, there is more than one way to get to university, i wasn't good in classes, and struggled with my grades, but i've overcome and graduated With a BA Degree!
Just keep your chin up and keep optimistic!! You'll be fine!!!
2007-08-21 15:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Simon B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be a wonderful young lady that may be trying to get male attention. What you don't know is that a man who finds a wife finds a good thing. Therefore you shouldn't be looking for male attention but wait he will find you try going to this website www.I am worth the wait.com and find some friends there. Stop thinking negatively concerning yourself. Think only good thoughts concerning yourself. Motivate yourself concerning your grades or educational process. Study hard, memorize all the things you need to remember, read, read, and read some more stay ahead of the class as far as reading material. Ask your teacher for a class syllabus or a schedule of how their planning on teaching you so you can be up to par... Have A Successful School Year!!!
2007-08-21 15:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't whined too much...you just need a few comforting words of encouragement. Everyone I have ever known to have extraordinary challenges in life finds some incredible, extraordinary means of coping with them. They see the world differently because they have to, since their parameters differ radically from everyone elses. The outcome is usually an accomplishment-base that far exceeds what most people are capable of, and they owe their achievements to the things that initially set them apart from everyone else. By your own admission you are generally very optimistic, this is just one of those times. Which means it's a fair bet that you'll retain the positivity to overcome your present situation and BE the person I describe. I have no idea how that triumph is going to manifest itself, but I have no doubt your light will find a way to shine that will be unmistakable...I'm almost jealous of your future! (And did you know Albert Einstein was a "D" student in mathematics when he was in grade school?) I mean, here's the man who devised the theory of relativity nearly flunking math! Different people learn and process information differently...your grades are not necessarily indicative of your intelligence, but of methods to teach you that have thus far not been as successful as hoped. I had similar difficulties with comlex mathematics in high school even though I was an honor student because of this same dynamic. By college though, I was learning exponentially because the information was taught to me in a way I could process it. What you're feeling now must in some way be necessary to your overall development. Oneday we'll all be bragging that we knew you when...
2007-08-21 15:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the eating thing is something you have to deal with. It is annoying, but be thankful its not something horrible. The not having a date thing, you are young and you would be surprised how many people are unknown in school and go to college to be the numero uno! Also, think of this... the people in school don't care about what you look like or what you do. Even the popular ones. Noone REALLY cares about them either. Focus on your friends and family. They really care about you. Go out and buy some new clothes and get a manicure. It'll make you feel better.
2007-08-21 15:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sumoneconcerned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too eager to grow up. You have no idea how fast life starts jetting past you once you hit your 20's... especially mid 20's.... (I'm sure it'll just go by even fast soon... yikes).
I was allergic to many things. Corn syrup (no snickers for me), wheat and stuff. Maybe you'll grow out of it. I think you might.
Also, it's not uncommon to not have tons of romances by the time you're 16. The guys are also probably too shy or stupid to start asking girls out effectively.
Your time will come, don't worry.
2007-08-21 15:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. Only im 14.
The thing is that guy's probably think ur pretty but dont like ur personality. Or maybe they dont have the courage to ask u out. But it doesn't matter, because one day u'll met some1, hey u never know it could be tomorrow. Just dont stop being optimistic, because it will happen just u wait
2007-08-21 15:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by cdelara17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all feel like that sometimes. Life can be a b*tch. Don't worry You will get a boyfriend when the time is right. I know that right now you are feeling I WANT ONE NOW!!!!!
I remmeber only too well. Good luck Sweetie
Ps Sorry about the snickers lol
2007-08-21 16:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, I know your probably dont want to hear it but your still young. I had many college friends who were very beautiful and great people who were in the same postition you are and eventually they met great guys. Dont worry about it, it will happen when you least expect it. Dont try to hard, just have fun and dont try to force it...when you let go and just be yourself (really let go) it will come when you least expect it. Trust me, its always worked for me...the trick is you really have to let go not just pretend. It will happen eventually, and snickers arent as good as they may sound, popcorn and salsa are way better.
2007-08-21 15:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by leala315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you are a star and most guys are a waste of space anyway you are young and beautiful so your time will come... dont be in a hurry to grow up... make the most of your youth cos time flies by so fast and when you get to my age youl wish you were 17 again.... enjoy your life darling... we all have sad days... but hopefully things will get better for you real soon... take care and i wish you all the best in life xxx
2007-08-21 15:11:30 · answer #11 · answered by flossy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋