OK, I have never had sex with my current boyfriend. I would, if he would shave down there.
It's just a thing with me, I dont' like a guy to be hairy there. It kind of grosses me out. Like if a guy was dating a woman and found out she had hairy pits. It's not something I am confortable with at all. And I don't think it should just be trimmed either.
Ok, so I tell him if he wants me to get anywhere near it, it's going to have to be clean shaved. I even offered to do it.
He says the guys at the gym might make fun of him. I said if it's more important to have a bush to show off in the gym shower than we just won't have sex.
Is this to harsh?
2007-08-21 08:06:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heck No...
I understand being fussy!
At least he could tell the guys at the gym (if they're looking...) that he's taking care down there because its for his girl.
AND if any guy says otherwise, they shoudn't mind if their girlfriends stop shaving their legs, arm pits, etc... And if a girl says otherwise, and does shave - they surely don't do it out of convenience...
2007-08-21 08:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by ct 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not like its really that harsh...but your b/f is being stupid!
Hes totally missing out on a chance to get some just cuz he wont shave....
if anything...the guys in his gym may make fun of him but tell him just to tell them that his girl likes it and his gettin him all the tail he could dream of...that'll shut them up lol
2007-08-21 15:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by socalbabe58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's too harsh. It's natural to have pubic hair, and you could maybe ask him to trim it, but it does sound like you're being very demanding of him. That's just not cool.
2007-08-21 15:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You of all people know what turns you on and what turns you off. He knows what he needs to do. Hold your ground...give him a couple days and if he doesn't obey you and shave, look for another boy who will shave it for you.
Don't compromise your standards.
2007-08-21 15:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is too harsh (i'd use another word, but harsh works).
You need to get off that pedestal you put yourself on and get real. Condelences to your boyfriend.
2007-08-21 15:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by gefyonx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its harsh! He is a MAN, they don't shave their privates, get over it, or stick to the fags or "metrosexuals" that will shave for you
2007-08-21 15:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so. Long hair is gross down there. Tell him that he will look bigger if he shaves, that oughtta do it.
2007-08-21 15:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mystickjen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not to harsh
2007-08-22 03:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋