Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

I got played by this women last month. I fell for her really bad and i can't get her out of my mind she is a player and i did not see the red flags in time. Any ides on how to keep myself busy untill this pain goes away? I f it ever does?

2007-08-21 11:46:57 · 18 answers · asked by logen63 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 11:46:15 · 19 answers · asked by kayla s 1 in Singles & Dating

i was checking my husbands inbox and found an e-mail written to someone he used to date asking her to meet him in thailand and saying that he missed her. this date was supposed to be on our first anniversary and right after i found out i was pregnant . what should i do?

2007-08-21 11:46:03 · 34 answers · asked by lanoutos 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i contracted genital warts 3 months before i met my fiancee. i told him i had it in the beginning. we got lax with condom use and now he has a possible wart. 3 years together, been totally monogamous relationship. Could you forgive someone who made you sick? Even more than that could you ever get back in bed with them? it never goes away, should i just let him go and live a celebit life?

2007-08-21 11:45:11 · 6 answers · asked by pbabygurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not sure of her address..
We have only been together for a week..
How would I get her address without asking her..

2007-08-21 11:40:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to know if u are very happy or happy in ur marriage u love u wife. would u cheat if some hot chick wants to get to know u or if u are put in a situation to choose having sex with a good looking girl or say no. what would u do. pleez tell us ur age too. i just want to know or feel reassured that there are men out there who will not cheat no matter what even if the stripper is 7

2007-08-21 11:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the other day i spoke to this girl who i see keep looking at me. and then when i went to talk to her she was putting her hand to try and block me! do girls look at you because you are ugly or something.

2007-08-21 11:38:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this question 20 min. ago, but dumb yahoo didn't even post it.

2007-08-21 11:37:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I were together for almost a year..is was such a great guy sweet, caring..I loved him so much. Well we got into this little fight over a week ago, over something stupid I dont even remember, and he told me he didnt want to be with me anymore and he didnt love me. Just the day before he was telling how much he loved me and how we were going to be together foreve, and he even wanted to move in an apartment with me. I just dont understand how you can change your mind overnight.Im so confused, how do you move one and get over this?

2007-08-21 11:37:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a 14 year old to get really depressed about life just in general? Is it hormones or what? or is it just how my life has been? ummm,let me explain.. my mom is a complete alcoholic and never calls me(i live with my dad)but on the rare occasions when she does she's drunk and she blames all her life's mistakes on me which causes me to fail classes have to see a counselor,etc. she also does drugs and won't quit, when i use to live w/her things were just as bad,her bf's would slap her around,she'd end up in jail i'd get hit, i would have to run away,she would also come home with a different guy every night she didn't show up for a whole day i didn't know where she was,that day just so happened to be my 7 b-day. she has also had 3 different kids from 3 differnt guys and she barely ever talks to them either.the point is is that im always feeling like i wish i would just die some days and im always depressed and everything. please help me.. is this normal?

2007-08-21 11:36:17 · 6 answers · asked by darkness in the suburbs... 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was married when i was only 18,and i was mother at 19.my husband changed and all my dreams were over.my family helped me very much,i am so lucky for that.i decided to divorce cause he became violent and i was afraid.living together was imposible.now i live with my family and i am safe with my daughter.i am an excellent student, this was my dream,that is caming true.i am quite and happy but at the same time i am afraid for the future.will i be a good mother.

2007-08-21 11:36:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was with my boyfreind who i have been dating a long time now but this is only the 6th time ive spent time with him but the 6hours went ok we held hands i lied on him he layed on me hugged ALOT its just then.. my freind told me he was going to kiss me before he left and im 15 and nvr have kissed a guy before so i didnt noe what to think. Then he tried to kiss me he gave me a hug and went for my lips and i ducked and like backed away and he tried agen and i just ducked it again.. and then hes like "sorry i havta do this" and he went for my lips again but i ducked! but he still got the little corner of my mouth but my eyes were open like it wasnt even a real kiss on the lips like WHATS RONG WITH ME how come i cant kiss him hes attractive but i feel like i dont wanna kiss him and NO IM NOT LEZ someone help me plzz

2007-08-21 11:35:49 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 11:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by Taz 2 in Singles & Dating

Im tired of acting straight in front of him and i want to tell him that im gay.NOw ive known him for about most of my life and im really good friends with his family its sortof my home away from home.What do i do in telling him and he will tell his family.Theyre not really homophobic they accept us but i just want to make it so my friend dosent treat me different.

2007-08-21 11:31:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a freshman in high school. When I'm around my friends, I have no problem talking. The words just pour out like rushing water. I also seem to smile whenever i'm around them, even if we're not talking about anything funny. How come I am not like that around others?? Whenever I'm around people who are not in my range of close friends, I don't have anything to say... A lot of times people will make talk with me, but the conversation ends quickly because I can never come up with anything to say back. Also, when others greet me as they pass me, I only only think to say "hello". And right after, I always tell myself "that sounded so unfriendly! Couldn't I have done any better". Can anyone help me be more friendly to more people than just my close friends?

2007-08-21 11:31:01 · 5 answers · asked by Jim ((C.A.B.)) 6 in Friends

My husbend is planning a party too. dont really want it but he thinks it will do me good. I just want to hide out in my room on that day

2007-08-21 11:29:59 · 21 answers · asked by robertandwendihill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 11:29:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-21 11:28:58 · 9 answers · asked by sandji 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think he might be. He knows I have a boyfriend. Then he emailed me asking me if I had fun at the movies with my boyfriend over the weekend? It's odd because I hang out in areas he doesn't usually frequent because I know he lives an hour away. He always griped about gas prices and I was always the one to drive out to his place.

He says he often sees me driving on the freeway, or at the mall, and at the movies. I find that strange because I'm a people watcher and don't recall ever seeing him around me.

How else would he know I have a bf? Or that I was at the movies, or what movie I saw for that matter? It's really starting to freak me out. Is he stalking me? Should I get a restraining order?

2007-08-21 11:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm going out with this guy. And we've been going out for like two and a half months. We've never met in person. I've talked to him like four of five times on the phone. Other then that our relationship has been over AIM and e-mail. Hes sent me a couple pictures that he says are him but my friends keep saying that hes a total fake!

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2007-08-21 11:23:24 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need ways to make it so it is more fun! help me plz!

2007-08-21 11:23:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right now I can honestly say that alot of women find me attractive. I have muscles, I play division 1 college football, and handsome. There were girls who once teased me or laughed at me in high school when I was an overweight nerd. When I came back home from college they wanted to get with me I ignore them like they did not exist. Is this cool revenge?

2007-08-21 11:23:14 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was recently with this guy who was into choking me during sex. He left a bruise on my neck. Does anyone else think this is a little odd, or am i just naive?

2007-08-21 11:23:03 · 16 answers · asked by Lee B 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 11:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Marella W 1 in Singles & Dating

it seems that most things in life don't really last!!!!!!

for once could ssomeone tell me something that will never change so i won't feel as crapy as i do today.

2007-08-21 11:18:03 · 9 answers · asked by pinkEqueen 4 in Family

just want to ask this coz im curious.what's your view about sex after being married for some time(say 2 years or more),had kids & obviously your age is starting to get into you?i am also married for 3 years now with 3 kids & i still can't figure out why sex is so much of an issue among other couples that giving in or denying it can either make or break a relationship.needless to say,im contented in that aspect,he he,but i just want to know what exactly do other women in my age category think about it.had it also been a big deal between you & your partners or are there some kind of compromise when it comes to going to bed with the hubby?& do you encounter problems when it comes to hitting the sack after years of being together?

2007-08-21 11:13:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 11:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by Joseph R 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and she's sixteen. For nearly as long as I can remember she has not liked me. She speaks as little as possible to me, cuts me off or ignores me when I try to tell/ask her something, and basically tries her very best to ignore the fact that I exist. I was wondering if anyone might have any kind of explanation to why that may be.

2007-08-21 11:02:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently seperated from my partner of ten years, It was my decesion. I wanted some space as I was confused on what I wanted for the rest of my life. Well he went out a week later and met a girl and started seeing her. After a month of being with her we decided to work things out slowly, he said he loved me and the kids and that he was so happy to come back. He said he had to end it with this other girl first as she had fallen hard for him and he didnt want to hurt her. Me and my partner have been intimate for the last 6 weeks and he keeps promising that he is genuinly in love with me and cant wait blah blah blah. But he still hasnt told this other girl whats been going on. As far as she Is concerned, hes her boyfriend and thinks everything is just fine?? They were together 4 weeks when we decided to work things out again.. Its now 6 weeks later. What do I do?? Ive told him I cant handle it I want to leave for good If he cant do it. He says ok then, thats your decesion??

2007-08-21 10:59:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You work as a clerk at store. A girl customer whom you've only spoken w/a couple times over the course of a year accuses you of secretly contacting her via IM.
Would you be angry and look away and ignore her? Would you be confused? Do guys automatically go on the defensive about an issue like this?
(If that happened to me as a girl, I would just think the guy were nuts but I wouldn't be angry)

2007-08-21 10:57:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating