I got played by this women last month. I fell for her really bad and i can't get her out of my mind she is a player and i did not see the red flags in time. Any ides on how to keep myself busy untill this pain goes away? I f it ever does?
2007-08-21 11:46:57 · 18 answers · asked by logen63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to keep busy, by going out with your friends, you work, just try to keep your mind busy so you wont think of her
2007-08-21 11:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pixie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will go away. (Hopefully..)
It will take time...
Time will heal your wounds.
Others have been blind,too.
Just try not to think about it, I know it's hard...
Stay away from relationships for a while (as well as her, if you can)...
Maybe someone new will come into your life.
Who knows?
Try to focus on the positive in your life.
Spend time with your friends and family.
Be happy.
Or spend some time alone to focus on you...
That's all I can say...
The longest it took me to forget about someone was several weeks...or a month...see,I don't even remember much. And that was this year. I got over them. I actually ran into him today, and I didn't feel a thing.
mainly because...
My mind was on someone else. Someone far better.
Take care. =]
2007-08-22 21:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got played, and it hurts. The pain eases with time, lessens, but it never truly goes away.
That's the bad news....
The good news is that you are wiser for the experience. Learn from what happened. Go back out, do what you did before you met this blood sucking harpy and have fun. Enjoy time with friends, and quit moping around.
Do not give her the satisfaction of 'ruining your life'.
GL
2007-08-21 19:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Eric C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing exactly what pain you're experiencing, it's hard to give you any ideas. The best thing you can do is not dwell on the pain this low life caused you. That gives her even more power over you. I know this sounds trite, but get a life, a life without thoughts of her. Rediscover yourself. Find new things to do. Have fun. You're not dead, don't live like it.
2007-08-21 18:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your mates, find a good book to read, or start playing a sport or something that will burn a lot of energy.
It sucks getting played. Nothing hurts quite like it. You may get over it but you'll always have that little burn when you think of that person.
2007-08-21 18:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Te 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distract yourself by doing anything you like,and when she comes on your mind again immediately think of anything else. The most important thing is to remember that you're better off alone,who needs a player or a loser in their life?
2007-08-21 18:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by romaica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing takes away the pain like more pain.
2007-08-21 18:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Belial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this pain wont last forever, it only feels that way right now... you need to just spend good time alone with you and go through all of the hurt you feel to get over this...
2007-08-21 18:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up body building--tranfer the pain into lifting weights.
2007-08-21 18:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dont know,
im going through love hurt issues right now and what i do to try and take it away is spend alot of time with my friends and family, try your best not to be alone. try and keep yourself busy.
it really will help :]
2007-08-21 18:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋