Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

It has nothing to do with her. She is great. I love her with all of my heart. I just don't like sex. I don't see the point in getting naked and sticking your dick in someone. It was cool for the first few times I had sex. It's just not my thing though. I'd rather spend the time watching a movie together or going for a walk in the park together instead of having sex. I just don't know how to tell her though that I don't want to have sex anymore. I might be able to deal with it once every few months or something. It just seems like she thinks that we should be doing it at least once a week or something. If I act like I don't want to then she gets upset, and thinks that it has something to do with her. I've tried to tell her that it's not her, and that I just don't like sex. She doesn't believe me though. Can someone please tell me what to do about this situation. -Josh

2007-05-16 16:03:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had to clear that question up. I flirt because I like to make people laugh and when I'm flirting with girls they giggle and blush, I like that! I flirt with about 6 different girls but I won't date them(don't say tell'em that takes the joy out of it). I'm not a "playa" because I'm not leading them on, is it wrong?

2007-05-16 16:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were "officially" married by the town's mayor the day before our actual wedding day (October 28) but we had the big ceremony and stuff on the 29th. I don't even remember why. Our certificate shoes the date of marriage being October 29th. Does this mean the marriage isn't valid, or does it not matter? I'm trying to figure out what to do because we are going to start the divorce process, but wondered if this date issue would have any effect. I need to end this legally and as quickly as humanly possible since I'm supposed to get married July 22nd!! Help!!

2007-05-16 16:01:34 · 4 answers · asked by Lisa G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some baptist churches require us both to be baptist, some catholic churches require us both to be catholic. The ones that do not care about our religion as long as we believe in the same God (aka the Non Denominational) will not marry us because we live together.

Anyway, other then Eloping and Justice of the Peace ... any other suggestions? ( and I feel horrible about lying to the Reverend)

2007-05-16 15:58:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay, my brother is like obsessed with games/other things. he used to play games, go search things on wiki, read anime, etc. secretly from my dad. me and my sister already knew about it but my brother told us not to tattle or else he'll get grounded. my dad found out. he asked us if we knew about it and we said yes. my brother got forbiddened to play games/do any other computer things besides homework until my dad said so. later i caught him reading an manga on the computer. i told him i'll let him off the hook just this once. then i saw him reasearching game things on wiki. i let him off again. i saw him watching something on youtube i let him off. and then today i caught him playing a game (roms) so i decided to tattle. my brother said not to tell because he'll get busted. okay... so i need ur help... should i tattle? if my dad eventually finds out i WILL get in trouble also. should i tell now? am i being to nosy? plzz help me... =[

2007-05-16 15:52:29 · 1 answers · asked by saran 1 in Family

I am doing a study for school (college) and am curious about the following things. You can answer as many or few as you like it will help me out greatly. Thank You in advance.

1. How long have you been with your partner?
2. What is your relationship with your partner? (Married, Financee, ect.)
3. How many times a week do you have sex?
4. What is your age range (17-21, 22-26, 27-31, 32-36, 37-40, 41-44, 45-49, 50-54, 55-59, 60+)
5. How many times a week do you or your partner turn down sex?

2007-05-16 15:49:06 · 15 answers · asked by Dazed and Confused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After I dated my bf in the past for 7mths and got back together after a year and half, he never said I love you. He did after we broke up in the past, but since we got back together recently he does not put into words his feelings for me. Has anyone else experienced this? Why do you think this is?

2007-05-16 15:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 15:47:42 · 17 answers · asked by Isa O. 1 in Weddings

this girl i really like, left a comment of a pic of me on Myspace and sayd that i was really fine and she wanted to kiss my lips.
(we're not going out)and she wasnt joking.

i really like her, the next dayafter that we were talking and all i said was"ohh yeah i like your comment by the way"
and thats all i said she even asked me if i had read it.

its been like 3 days now and no other comments about the comment, should i have sayd something else?
can i say something now?was she asking me out?

2007-05-16 15:44:56 · 1 answers · asked by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are close to your mom but she decided she would rather mow her yard instead of coming to a special dinner, how would you feel?

2007-05-16 15:43:35 · 18 answers · asked by Holly C 3 in Family

We planed on getting married when i got out of the military. Then we found out that i would make more money if we got married while i was in. so we decided to get married while i was in and not tell any one about us getting married now. and tell everyone that we are going to get married when i get out

2007-05-16 15:42:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 10 years and I honestly can say that I don't know what love is.

I like my parents and siblings but there is also an equal amount of hate. I never liked anybody enough to say that I truly love them. I mostly hate people.

I like hanging out with they wifey. I would even go as far as to say were are good friends...but the deep love that so many of you women describe....I don't have any of that.

What exactly is love?

2007-05-16 15:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

can the courts order me 2 pay child support if the child is not your child?

2007-05-16 15:36:45 · 19 answers · asked by ruslypaul1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many days can you go without sex, without getting irritable......?

2007-05-16 15:34:18 · 32 answers · asked by Solace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me out!!!! i think this is a question that a lot of people want to know,and i would appreciate it if you could give me a complete answer of everything you find HOTT in a girl!

2007-05-16 15:33:42 · 17 answers · asked by Brittney C 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had to deal with is online as well as in real life. I am getting to the point where I am very straightforward and blunt in letting them know that I only want a friendship. Nevertheless, they still try to pursue me romantically. On the internet, these men must be perverted or have mental issues because they can't seem to comprehend what No means. To them, everything is about sex and dirty talk, and I am not into that stuff at all. What's going on?

2007-05-16 15:30:37 · 31 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i are seperated. We got married at the spur of the moment during a seperation and guess what, we are seperated again. We have been seperated since summer of last year, two months after we said i do. I found out he was cheating during a three week seperation ( the first time) and I am sure it didnt just manifest. It was the same chick I thought he had something before seperation.


My point is to much damage has been done in my view of things. I am getting the help I need to cope with all the damage done from this disfunctional relationship. I want to believe him but the truth is I dont believe in him. Everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie to me. I dont know what to do when he just pushes the issue that we will make it lets just try again. I feel i have no more inside to work with on us. I hate that he comes to visit the kids and makes it look like we are together again. I have a std to remind me of what he is really about. Am I wrong about him or is it presu

2007-05-16 15:30:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 15:26:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been thrown threw ringer with my fiancee quite a few times over little things these past few weeks and he is constantly getting upset with me over little things and it really hurts my feelings....I don't have fun with him anymore, I mean I understand we have been together for 5 years and we have two children together but I don't get thefact that he is always complaining....I try to do everything I can think of to keep him from having anything to complain about but he ALWAYS finds something that irratates him and gets him going....we are getting married in 2 months and I have been waiting for this for what seems like FOREVER but I want to find a way to make things easy going and calm and exciting (mentally and sexually) what can a girl do to change this aggravating behaviour without having to leave the relationship???

2007-05-16 15:26:06 · 16 answers · asked by Sam Fisher 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont understand I love my boyfriend and I enjoy sex but I can't ever get off, HELP!

2007-05-16 15:25:51 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany Nichole 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it fun? Did you get caught? MY FRIEND WANTS TO KNOW NOT ME btw. I've heard its the best. Let me know! Hurry shes leaving in like 20 minutes

2007-05-16 15:24:08 · 15 answers · asked by michelle g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 15:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 15:18:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If your sister and mother were just murdered - shot to death - I imagine you would be devastated. If anyone you cared about was killed, that is. What would you do to get over it and move on? How would you overcome your depression?

2007-05-16 15:13:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mailman 3 in Family

2007-05-16 15:11:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 15:11:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok I decided to open this question up to everyone over 21 instead of just guys. The new guy I've been seeing is turning 33 tomorrow. I wanna do something nice, like making some chocolate chip cookies. We just met about a month ago, have seen each other about 5 times and talk on the phone a few times a week. I was thinking about making him some chocolate chip cookies. Any other ideas?

2007-05-16 15:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by Jane Z. 6 in Singles & Dating

i have none.
zip
zero
nada

how can i get some
i really need them
like
everyone has them
and i really want them
i feel so incomplete without them.
and guys are like ew no boobs.

so yeah
how do i get them?????

2007-05-16 15:04:22 · 32 answers · asked by livers 2 in Singles & Dating

Will it delay the process if only one party pays?

2007-05-16 15:01:59 · 8 answers · asked by hope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What type? and what type to buy after the engagement for marriage.

2007-05-16 15:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by alfred d 1 in Weddings