2007-05-16 15:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I prefer compatibility for long term relationships. If you enjoy doing a lot of the same things, you will enjoy each others company. If you have totally opposite interests, you will find yourself doing things with other people all the time. It's nice to have a few separate interests so you don't get tired of each other, but having your boyfriend as a best friend and activities partner, to me, is the best.
2007-05-16 15:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found the opposites attract thing to work a little better..... it adds spice to life and creates just a little tension which is sometimes healthy......my husband and I are total opposites....he is quiet, shy, and an information addict.....I am talkative, out going, and impulsive..... somewhere in the last 12 years through up and downs we've found common ground that works for us.....Our differences do not interfere with the similarities (which arn't many).... but it works for us.... My first husband and I were alot alike....obviously that didn't work.....marriage ended after 5 years.......
2007-05-16 16:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Odyssey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's true that opposites attract and its cute when 2 different people attracts. and I also believe when 2 people is similar with the likes and dislike i'll be sending a long time with each other
2007-05-16 15:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
genuine. My husband and that i are opposites in spite of the undeniable fact that the longer we are married the greater we are transforming into greater a similar. yet he's a bypass getter and he likes to maintain issues clean and that i'm like ok despite the fact that and there's a extensive pile of dishes in the sink precise now. Lol.
2016-11-23 19:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True, a relationship is much more likely to last when the people have more in common.
2007-05-16 15:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False.. It would depend on the similarities. Two people who are both moody or both addicts of some kind - that would be self-destructive.
2007-05-16 15:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True. You have to be carfel of what you complain about with your spouse or mate because oftimes we subconsciously date people who are a lot like ourselves.
2007-05-16 16:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true.....very compatable....just....very likely will have a safe, uncomplicated, low key in excitement level in sex life....probably wiser to choose the one whom will be around forever.... rather then choosing someone that will be a life full of surprises and regrets as well as cherished memories.....
Which one to choose? safe...or?
2007-05-16 15:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by ForeverSet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be true. Me and my husband are oppsites. When I'm cold he's hot, when he's happy and i'm sad. when I want to kill him, he wants to cuddle. but we get along and I wouldn't trade it for the world. being with some one that is like you is nice, but I think it would be boring.
2007-05-16 15:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say false
2007-05-16 15:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋