How do I tell my girlfriend that I don't like to have sex?

Question

It has nothing to do with her. She is great. I love her with all of my heart. I just don't like sex. I don't see the point in getting naked and sticking your dick in someone. It was cool for the first few times I had sex. It's just not my thing though. I'd rather spend the time watching a movie together or going for a walk in the park together instead of having sex. I just don't know how to tell her though that I don't want to have sex anymore. I might be able to deal with it once every few months or something. It just seems like she thinks that we should be doing it at least once a week or something. If I act like I don't want to then she gets upset, and thinks that it has something to do with her. I've tried to tell her that it's not her, and that I just don't like sex. She doesn't believe me though. Can someone please tell me what to do about this situation. -Josh

Answer 1

I think you are the first boy that didn't like sex. You need to realize that sex for a woman is more than just getting off or feeling good. It's more about being close to your partner. She needs it to feel closer to you. I don't understand why you don't like it though. Is it because you don't want kids? Or maybe you were brought up to wait until after you got married. She might not react well to that, because in her mind it's like a rejection from you and it makes her feel like you don't love her. I say you just need to suck it up once and a while and give it to her. Women have been having sex even when they didn't want to for years and years just to keep their men happy and at home instead of out looking for another girl.

Answer 2

omg r u ok?how's dat normal?men are always sex driven....as 4 ur question....just tell her...her reaction might end up like mine...but i guess dats the only way