2007-05-16 15:18:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Go for it!!!!! dont cheat
2007-05-16 15:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Nana 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you want me to tell you the truth, according to what is decent and intelligent or what you want to hear? You are only 14 and by todays standards, you know, how are you going to support her..you're not even of age yet to get a job so you can pay at least rent on an apartment. And what happens if she gets pregnant? How are you going to get her baby the food it needs? WIC? They'll laugh at you due to your age. Your parents...anyway, you get my point right? You can be engaged to your "hot" fiancee as long as you think it'll be necessary for you to be able to support her. Be it at 18 or 21 or whatever you feel. But at this time just love eachother intelligently. Be very careful not to mess things up by speeding things up because you're getting desperate to "be with her". Believe me you'll thank me when your 20 if you don't mess things up by marrying eachother right now or doing other things you haven't even understood the meaning to just yet. Being married means you will love eachother, putting eachother above all other people, not only that, but also, compromising. If you want to go out, and she doesn't, are you just going to leave her in the house while you go out without her? That's not love. That's convenience, and in that case, why get married? If this is just a joke, then ha ha, you got the last laugh, but getting engaged at 14, dang, you just wasted your whole life. Up to you what you do with it next. Gl gl Mzz
2007-05-16 22:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by MzzandtheChuchuBees 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 14 you are in love with love.please do not have sex if you do use a condom every time nothing ruins a romance quicker than a screaming, crying baby that you are too young to care for or support! she is 13 you are both too young for this kind of relationship, slow down! if you are right and its the real thing then you can both wait till you are grown up enough for that kind of relationship.people change things you think are cute about her now might be really annoying in a few years and the same about you and things now she finds funny or cute she might find boring or childish!you dont even know what you want to do after high school,you certainly dont know about this.please dont ruin both your lives cause you are in heat! good luck.
2007-05-16 22:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by dixie58 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm surprised as you already have a fiance as both of you are so young. what are you considering a smart choice? having a fiance at this time?as you know, after many years of knowing a person, we may always feel that we dont know that person as we thought we knew. you might think you are in love with her but i doubt it will last for years to come.i suggest you think thoroughly about the whole thing as you, i think, have already have doubts about this thing.i know you want her now, but would you want her in 20 years to come? 30 years?how about 40?and how do you expect to fulfill her needs?
what are you going to work as?
by loving her, you should provide her anything that she needs, plus what about babies? if you're engaged, that means you're getting married right? what about studies?
2007-05-16 23:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by acis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. That's all I can say. At your age(s) you don't need to be even thinking you're in a serious relationship, much less posting on here that you are. It sounds like the two of you need to sit down with your parents and have a talk. You need to enjoy your teen years while you have them. You're not even old enough to date, it's not like you can take her out on real dates, buy her dinner, and pay for movie tickets or whatever else you want to do on a date. You can't even drive yet. You need to grow up before you get so serious. Wait until you're 18 before you decide if this is who you want to spend your life with.
2007-05-16 22:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by DH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that right now you feel very strongly for this girl, and I'm very sure she's cute as can be. What I don't understand is if you think that this is the love of your life (and I do mean the forever kind), what's the rush?? You should spend time developing yourself as a person. If it's meant to be, it will be.
Spend a little time being a kid. It'll all be over way too soon.
2007-05-16 22:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by divine_inter_vention 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are just posting this question to get reactions. Plus, if you are really 13 and 14 years old, you might want to turn on the TV. It's 2007, not 1207, you don't have to get married so young anymore, medical science has really elongated the human life span.
2007-05-16 22:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Princess of the Realm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
congratulations
take your time mate
being in love is an amazing thing but don't rush things - if you love each other as much as you say then you have nothing to worry about
take your time, alot of things are going to happen to you and her over the next few years
know you'll probably think this is an old duffer talking, and to be fair i probably am at 20 years old, but just enjot being with her and let things happen....
2007-05-17 11:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Derek J Kered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh well as much as you love her, i would wait. Do you have a job? probably not. I'm 13 and i have a job. Only because i just do. (im a piano teacher) But really, i would wait. you seriously have your whole life ahead of you. If you still love her by the time you're out of college, go ahead, be my guest. but really, i would wait...
2007-05-16 22:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the stupidest question. You're 14 you dont even own a car how can you think you can be in a marriage.
2007-05-16 22:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Monie Balonie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long do you plan on being engaged?,,until your both 18 i hope, that way you don't have to have your parents permission to get married. don't rush into any of the major decisions that go along with being married, if you don't know what those decisions are then you should definitely not be engaged
2007-05-16 22:26:37 · answer #11 · answered by rickys_lil_mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋