Family & Relationships - 1 April 2007

Question on my girl, advice?
I've been with this girl for 8 years. Well recently, she's been trying to get onto the volunteer police department. Well she needs help from this one guy who I don't like and her and him have a history together. Well lately, they have been text messaging each other about when he can come pick up the application and things like that.

Thing is, she deletes the messages and calls. She says it's none of my business cuz it's not about you. I'll admit I'm paranoid and suspicious.

Well I tried to "break up" with her but she did not want to at all, and got upset.

My question is, if she did like this guy, when I told her I wanted to break up, is it true she woulda been "ok" and started dating him?

On the flip side, they both say nothing is there with each other, yet she deletes his messages and I can't be there when he comes and gets the application so I don't start nothing.

Am I wrong to be paranoid?

2007-04-01 12:54:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If they can stoop so low to have me as their boyfriend then i'm not sure that I want them? my attitude stinks but it doesn't seem to put them off...what's going on?

2007-04-01 12:51:47 · 14 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-01 12:51:10 · 2 answers · asked by bowman l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can ask 1 more question but i need to ask 2....

1)how do i stay away from my computer. i want on it or am on it constantly. i just like asking, answering questions and talking to my friends.

2)my boyfriend and i were talking on the computer and he said he loved me. so i replied by saying i love him to. then he says you better after all i did for you. i asked him what he did and he said alot of things but he dont want to argue. he did nothing for me so what does this mean.

2007-04-01 12:49:56 · 6 answers · asked by ♥LyNz♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have no idea how to attract a 60 ish year old. But im very attracted to him. Help me older men!!!

2007-04-01 12:48:31 · 7 answers · asked by katy 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just broke up with me, but he still wants to be friends! I feel so crushed and I don't want to be friends with him anymore! I feel like he is a big, stupid jerk! I've told him this but he doesn't seem to listen. He just wants to be friends! What should I do?

2007-04-01 12:46:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-01 12:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-01 12:44:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is acting weird lately, i mean i can't see him(long story) so i decide to call him and when i call him he does not pick up my calls. i asked him why and he said when you call my phone doesn't ring, so i asked when other people call does it ring and he said "yes" does that mean he doesn't want to talk to me? or he lost intrest? i asked him if he still luvs me and he says he does.

2007-04-01 12:44:07 · 13 answers · asked by JAMILAH D 2 in Singles & Dating

When your off tdy or deployment away from home are there things that you all do that is suppose to be forgotten about once your home like (what goes on in vegas stays in vegas) Basically actin like it's your birthday and your on a freakin vacation. Can someone tell me why my husband acts strange every tdy or deployment? I have talked to some other wives and they experience some of the same things. Do you guys travel to those other countries and forget about your life here or what? I think the military may know what I'm talking about so please let me know okay , honestly.

2007-04-01 12:43:26 · 9 answers · asked by just because 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was in school I was once a nerd who wore glasses and was overweight. Now I am the ladies man because I started to lift weights and I play college football. and I have the baddest urban wear. After I came back home to visit from college I turned around and rejected some of those girls who teased me in high school that wanted me and I laughed at them. Is this great revenge?

2007-04-01 12:42:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would just write im sorry on every line on every page...i would write small too

2007-04-01 12:37:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-01 12:36:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hubby and i are divorcing. My husband wants to sell our home?I want to keep our home but my attorney thinks it will be easier for all parties involved if we just sell the house that we bought for 389 grand now worth about 415 grand. I feel like a lot of time and effort went into that home though?Hubby also wants to sell all our furniture and split the money i dont feel comfortable doing that.He said i can keep the pets the Akita, and labrador retriever.He wants the all stock investments and the mutual funds in exchage for alimony of 250 dollars for 8 months? My attorney thinks i should agree to most of this and just tweak some of it rather than fighting it in court?

2007-04-01 12:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by Megan C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm good-looking,but not great looking.Let me put it this way,I could probably be a model if I lost my love handles,and lightened the area around my eye.I dress well,I'm mature,nice,quiet but strong-willed,intelligent,and romantic.I can be funny sometimes,but I'm no comedian.I'm just an average good guy.What is it that makes me attract taken girls?
I don't seem to meet many single ones that aren't total sluts at bars and such.They obviously flirt.On one extreme case,one girl slapped my butt(in a playful way) and squeezed my leg. Sometimes more subtle,like saying hi just to be and staring alot.It's always a "serious" relationship she's in too.Well,she always thinks it's serious.I think that some of these girls may just be too young to notice it's a fling.I always lose touch by the time they break it off with their boyfriends(The guy is always a jerk.)...if they even do.This is one of 2 pet peeves dating-wise.

2007-04-01 12:32:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl cheated on me. (to put it short) She lied to my face, but finally admitted it when i told her without a doubt i know she did. At what point should i forgive her-if any? Is there anything that she would/could do that would validate me forgiving her?

2007-04-01 12:32:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, a month and a half ago I was engaged, life was perfect and I was happier than I have ever been. But, my fiancee said one day he just stopped loving me and that he'd been "living a lie" for a couple of weeks. Since then he's been nothing but mean and rude to me and has told all of our friends he was only with me for sex. But somehow all I want is to be with him again. Is this normal? Or is it just me being dramatic about the whole thing? What do you think?

2007-04-01 12:30:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with a mother in law who's meddling in a marriage and causing so many problems between husband and wife that wife sees no other option except divorce. Son doesn't want to alienate mother, so instead is making wifey feel that he is more devoted to his relationship with his mother than to her. Situation has gone so far that husband denies his mother is actually meddling because "mother" says she isn't trying to butt in his business. Husband has inadvertently changed his thoughts to comform to "mother's" opinions even though it has made wifey angry.

2007-04-01 12:28:18 · 25 answers · asked by cotncandi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-01 12:22:08 · 31 answers · asked by Y-tyrant 1 in Singles & Dating

every two weeks we switch seats in our class. I have already been put next to this girl 4 times. Evey time for two weeks she is massively flirting with me. But whenever we are not sitting next to eachother, its all i can do to get her to look at me. Right now we are not sitting next to eachother and she is ignoring me. What gives?

2007-04-01 12:22:02 · 13 answers · asked by Blasto 1 in Singles & Dating

You all helped me out of a relationship and while I know I have a ways to go- your words of encouragement go a long way- I will move on someday-

2007-04-01 12:21:40 · 5 answers · asked by banana 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some good colors for my May wedding. My favorite color is purple and his is blue.

2007-04-01 12:21:11 · 18 answers · asked by frustrated 1 in Weddings

Okay so ill make a long story short. I was dating this guy .. then my best friend found out and started getting jellouse.. she eventually was all over him .. so i broke up wit him becasue she was being snobby ... even though i really liked the guy ... the next day i find out they were dating .. a day after that i find out he dumped her .. My friend starts telling me all this stuff about how she loves him and about how he makes her so happy and about how i should respect her feelings ( even though she neevr respected mine) so i said okay ... i REALLY liked that guy then and i still do .. and a few weeks after being single he tells me he loves me ???? what do i doo ????

2007-04-01 12:20:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-01 12:18:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK there is this guy in school and he is really cute and funny. Well, me and my friends were just acting like our self and we were having fun. Well he comes up to me and says were have you been all my life. I asked him what are you talking. He just looked at me with a sexy look and said would you go out with me. I have a boyfriend and also I don't know him like that. What should I do?

2007-04-01 12:16:20 · 19 answers · asked by honey.. 2 in Singles & Dating

how old do you have to be to go out with a 20 year old ?

2007-04-01 12:13:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

then she calls me

says she is dying or something, in that case she would be

and she needs 10 years of TLC

what should I tell her at that point?

or what should I do now to determine what to tell her now

and what should I do now to determine what to tell her then

not fair I think, if she shares with jerks, then asks me for help someday

what should I do?

2007-04-01 12:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has any1 else experianced difficulty in dating a guy/girl from another country ... EG beliefs , way of life
if so , how di du fix this
even if he/she is a hrd person when it comes to communicating

2007-04-01 12:10:53 · 7 answers · asked by francis_wife4life 3 in Singles & Dating

My 4 yr. old son & I moved 4 hours away from my husband. (his idea-but I have since found out he's cheating...long story) Two days before we moved my husband came by on his hour lunch break to see our son. (before we moved my husband wasn't coming home when we were there) My son hasn't seen him or heard from him since. He didn't come by the day we moved to say bye or see him. Today marks the 10th day since my husband has talked to him. He sent me a text this past week saying he would like to talk to him whenever our son feels like it! I told him he can call him whenever he wants. I found out that what my husband was doing the day we moved was going to the hair & nail salon & spending $60 there & spending $70 at a restaurant. It's obvious he was w/his other woman. (I know the salon wasn't for him...he cuts his own hair) What does all this say about my husband as a dad? It seems to me that he's choosing her over our son & making her more important than him.

2007-04-01 12:08:45 · 17 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

after five and a half years, my girlfriend wants to be alone!! Her friends are more important than her boyfriend,& keeping this relationship, plus we have a three year old child that she uses as a pawn to keep leverage over me. Everything must be at her discretion . Otherwise she pulls my parental rights,(not the legal way)!

2007-04-01 12:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by lostnluv 1 in Friends