Should I forgive her?

Question

My girl cheated on me. (to put it short) She lied to my face, but finally admitted it when i told her without a doubt i know she did. At what point should i forgive her-if any? Is there anything that she would/could do that would validate me forgiving her?

Answer 1

If a monogamous relationship is what you are after you have no choice but to leave her , she has already left you .
Forgiveness is a seperate issue . Go ahead and forgive her , it will ease your conscience as well as hers .

Answer 2

True on the once a cheater always a cheater. If u forgive her and get back with her, she's gonna take that as a sign of weakness and no doubt she'll do it again. Forgive her, but tell her she messed up the relationship and it's beyond repair. And mayb someday u guys can be friends again. but for now you want to be apart from her. She may have hurt you! and i know it hurts but why hate people for it. It happened already leave it buried in the past, and move on. No question asked.

Answer 3

If by forgive you mean continue your relationship, than no. You will probably never be able to trust her and will end up resenting your relationship. Forgive and forget yes but, don't continue to let someone like that walk all over you. I'm sure that if you kind and caring enough to even ask this question you can probably do a lot better. Good luck!

Answer 4

I mean you should always give someone a second chance. I think you should forgive her but i'm not so sure about you going out with her. But if you really care about her then you yeah you should forgive and give her a second chance. Its really up to you to forgive her or not. You just have to ask yourself if you still want her to be a part of your life...hope you make the right choice!!!!!

Answer 5

well no i mean if you want to forgive her then forgive her/ we can give all the advice in the world but naturally we follow our hearts. Me personally i probably would forgive but could not trust the person anymore then would lead to me just being a friend. now if she wouldve been honest from the get go then i would probably see things different, but b/c she lied um um ummut her in the dog house for a min

Answer 6

Hey. that is up to you really. Personally a cheater never deserves a second chance period and let me tell you I am with a man and have been for 8 years and love him with all my heart but if he ever cheats on me I'm sorry but his *** is kicked right to the curb. I don't care how much I love a man when a person cheats on you that just shows that your feelings mean absolutely nothing to them.

But cheaters will always try and tell you what you want to hear so that they can swindle right back in your life and hurt you again because they got away with it the first time.

You could choose to be with her and that's up to you but like I said me I'm not one for being someones fool, that's just not my style.

Good luck.

Answer 7

Get her side of the story, talk it over and then decide yourself. But honestly, I think that if you have to ask a bunch of people you don't know if you should stay with someone, you shouldn't be with that person anymore. If you really loved her, you'd just know whether or not forgiving her is right or not, you wouldn't need someone else to decide for you.

Answer 8

You can forgive her after you find a woman worthy of you. she isn't, forgive her all you want but don't take the cheating female dog back. I did that with a couple of cheating girlfriends and let me tell ya ,forgiving them just teaches them that they can get away with it.

Answer 9

Just forgive her and move on, she made a mistake and admitted it. If you made a mistake, wouldn't you want someone to forgive you? You do it when you think the time is right.

Answer 10

It's really up to you to forgive her. If you think she is worth it than you should. Everyone makes mistakes but dont forgive her the next time just forget her.