2007-04-01 12:22:08 · 31 answers · asked by Y-tyrant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's fine by me, but ask your parents for permission first.
2007-04-01 12:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well it would depend on the age of the both of you. Also how long have you been together that is a very big decision but it's kinda up to you guys really, I mean we all learn from our mistakes right so maybe it will be cool and maybe it won't that is something you will need to find out from the experience of doing so.
Don't forget about the responsibilities as well, I mean this is like a couple thing ya know 50/50 so just keep that in mind.
Well good luck and I hope you make the right decision,
2007-04-01 19:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could. However, that will bring its own headache. Are you both ready for the negative sides to living together?
1. Are you still living with your parents?
2. Being compatible when you have your own space is not necessarily so when you share the same space.
3. Do you have enough space to accomodate her?
4. Will you be forced to feel that marriage is next.....before you are truly ready?
You need to examine all of the above and decide whether or not to discuss that first.
If after carefully examining you really think it may not be the best thing for the moment, then help her find somewhere.
2007-04-01 19:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by mxn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a best friend who hated her family life so much that she moved in with her boyfriend for a month and then they decided to go ahead and get married. Two years later they can't stand the sight of each other and she realizes that the only reason she agreed to marry him is because she never wanted to go back to her family. She never considered moving out on her own until after the divorce.
If you are still young (like high school) and can't move into your own apartment. Having her move in with your family would be really hard. What would you do if the two of you broke up -- you can't just kick her out. And then she'd be living with your family while you were trying to date someone else.
2007-04-01 19:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Manda B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's a "Minor" you're family or you can get into alot of trouble, taking her in....I wouldn't give into her "Sob-Stories" at all, if she's just a minor!! She's just looking for the perfect situation and a man to take care of her, and so this way she can drop out of school and do whatever she wants to do, if she's living with you!!! I know how teenage girls can be, and also how "Manipulative" they can be, as well......You need to be very careful with this one......If I were you , I'd try to be the "Gentleman-Thing" and go to her parents and ask their permission, first, because if they find out after the fact, it may end up being a very "Ugly situation" and if you go to them first they might actually think things through first then decide from there, you know....... If she's trying to do this behind their backs, then things most likely aren't bad at home at all, she's just looking for a way to grow up faster than her "Britches Are" is all to that story!! Seen it over ,and over again, being brought up in the Big City!!! So, I would go to the "source" first because you aren't going to get her that easily, if you dont cover your butt, first!!! Trust me on this one!!! Its illegal, first off......And her parent's can press charges for "Staitory Rape" if you two sleep together when you take her in, and she can also turn everything around to them to save her own but should you two get caught and say you took advantage of her, and lots of bad things can happen from that point on!! Just go to the source and find out if things really are as bad as she's saying first!! And if they are, go to "Child Protective Services" and ask them if she can stay with you and if your an adult, dont take advantage of her!! Be like her "Big Brother" to her, and look after her, until she is done with school and legal age, then go from there!! That would be the "Stand-up" guy thing to do!! Good luck to you!!! Smile!!
2007-04-01 19:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not like it home? Why ? Is she emotionally ready to be living without her parents? She could move in with you but the question is should she? Short answer no, she might not be emotionally ready? Talk to her and see if u are ready for the big move in.
My BF and I are playing house and he is a slob !!!! Drives me crazy.
2007-04-01 19:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your adult then you don't need permission from your parent, but i will give you advice before you do this think first before you move in with each other, question: how long have you known each other? You need to know each other quite alot before moving as it is a big step to take please think about it mate before doing anything first. but it is upto you at the end of the day.
2007-04-01 19:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by mel240982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a lot of problems here. First, since I think age could be a big issue as well as her family. Is she financially able to take care of her expenses?
2007-04-01 19:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jan C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, she should just move out on her own. Too many immature girls go from parents to boyfriends and then they never know themselves.
2007-04-01 19:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you`re not very old if you don`t know the answer .
2007-04-01 19:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Spanner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋