Well, a month and a half ago I was engaged, life was perfect and I was happier than I have ever been. But, my fiancee said one day he just stopped loving me and that he'd been "living a lie" for a couple of weeks. Since then he's been nothing but mean and rude to me and has told all of our friends he was only with me for sex. But somehow all I want is to be with him again. Is this normal? Or is it just me being dramatic about the whole thing? What do you think?
2007-04-01 12:30:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its normal. You're not being dramatic. Cuz i've almost been in the same situation but not engaged.. and he started telling his friends he never even liked me and we never kissed and all that (even though we did). So you arent being over dramatic.. i still care about him and i wish we were still close.. and this happened like 3 months ago.. and i remember it like it was yesterday. if you need someone to talk to email me italianchick0843@yahoo.com
2007-04-01 12:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by italianchick0843 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you truly love someone you don't "just stop". Either he didn't really love you in the first place, in which case he did you a favor, or something happened that you're not acknowledging or are not aware of. Try to separate the emotions from the facts and look objectively at the quality of your relationship.
Were there signs along the way that you didn't see because you were "in love"? Is it possible someone may have interfered in the relationship and he's not telling you? Were your family and friends supportive or did anyone oppose the marriage? He's being mean and rude. Has he been that way all along or is this new behavior? These are all things to consider.
In time, you'll understand what happened. The emotions are normal. This was unexpected and you're still trying to sort things out. You're hurting now but try to stay positive. Things will get better in time and the truth will reveal itself. Best wishes.
2007-04-01 19:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I it absolutely normal to have feelings like that you can't just say i 'm gonna stop loving him today it's not that easy you just have to take it one day at a time. try to occupy yourself by doing other things and try to stay away from him it would be a lot easier for you if you just didn't see him as much as you do.
I'm so sorry that happened to you nobody deserves that.
2007-04-01 19:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Obama08' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing to think and that is you have been used and dumped. Try to learn from this experience and move on with your life. Good luck.
2007-04-01 19:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he told you.he wanted sex.he got it.now go find another guy.he is and was a loser to start.
2007-04-01 19:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by steffani w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋