Family & Relationships - 29 March 2007

My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years. she's 19 and im 20. Our love life used to be great. Now she doesen't put out at all. Its been at least 3 months since we've done any thing. when i ask her she says " i just dont wanna do anything tonite" and she doesen't realize its been that long. i've tried everything from romantic nights out, to massages, talking and making her feel comfertable. I even tried not hinting for almost a month now. What can i do???

2007-03-29 17:59:41 · 27 answers · asked by lighting00912 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm courting this gal presently. Unfortunately based on the stats, she dumped every guy who intends to court her from the time she was hurt by another guy. Her friend told me she had a "past". I'm assessing my feeling if change but i feel i still care for her. How can I accept her?

2007-03-29 17:55:39 · 40 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 17:52:54 · 5 answers · asked by han83b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a picture with me and her in the ocean it was a water proof camera. and on the inside i was thinking about writing my love for you could fiil the ocean would that be a good quote please help. tomorrow is are 2 year anniversary and im broke

2007-03-29 17:50:12 · 25 answers · asked by codie 1 in Weddings

The pros - i have freinds (not a total loser or geek on the computer)
Cons-
When your best freind took your ex girlfreind.
When you same best freind owes you 50$ and he doesnt have the money to give back even after 3 months.
When you find out your mom favors your youngest daughter and your dad favors the older daughter and you are left in a shallow hole?
When this girl you dont like threatens to kill herself if i dont love her back? (she carved my name into her arm...)
When your grades have been at a standoff and will only decrease?
When its 9 o clock at night and i need to study 3 vocab lists and do 3 hours make up work?

I am not suicidal...i just want some comfort...

2007-03-29 17:49:16 · 19 answers · asked by Waqas A 2 in Family

Here's my problem..... I am no longer with my daughters father, and he hasn't really been helping me to support our child. Especially knowing that I didn't have a job. As of last week Monday I just started working. Anyways, his way of helping me out is buying a case of diapers and giving me $20-$30 every 16th and 31st. Well, it makes it even worse because I live on my own (through section 8) and I have no way of paying my bills. He tells me that he can't give me much because he's gotta pay for his car or he's gotta pay his family and his girlfriend back cause they paid for his car. He's a bus driver for a tour company and he makes $7.50 an hour. We haven't been together since last year in November. Everyone's advicing me to take him to child support but I'm tryin' not to stress him out or
put him through so much. But it's hurting me as well. being broke and not being able to buy my daughter the things she needs. PLEASE HELP ME............ I need advice.........

2007-03-29 17:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by ~*~ ChAr~*~... 1 in Family

I have been in the dating world after a long (not very healthy 4 year relationship with a man 9 years my senior (actined 12 years my junior ., lol). Here I am 4 years later after a year and a half off of dating and haven't been in another long term relationship. How do I stop getting into the Friend place and end in the Girlfriend place? How does a women attract a man and keep him coming back to finally want to be with just one woman? I'm 29 years old, educated, silly,sweet, and still unsure of what to do when it comes to meeting and keeping the one you want.

2007-03-29 17:43:41 · 2 answers · asked by rachskye2 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some good sex moves and can you describe it and show me a picture of it if you can. i know it sounds perv but we need to spice things up.( my husband)

2007-03-29 17:40:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She was cheating so i told him was that wrong?

2007-03-29 17:38:59 · 11 answers · asked by His 1 & Only 1 in Singles & Dating

i think molis is a way of breaking up a long life friendship with a friend by not speaking to them for a very long period of time which sometimes makes you regret everthing. i sometimes find it very difficult to talk back to the person that i did not speak to for a very very long time . to me i find my self being a molis God and i want to change that about me. thats why my question is being asked.

2007-03-29 17:38:56 · 1 answers · asked by tigergirl 1 in Friends

2007-03-29 17:36:36 · 28 answers · asked by sugacityprincess 1 in Weddings

why is it men claim that women are either controlling, trying to trap them, or sluts and women claim men are cheating dogs who can't seem to commit, or don't respect any woman that didn't give birth to them? will the general population ever grow out of this crisis of gender stereotyping and realize that breasts or a penis don't automatically say who you are inside?

2007-03-29 17:33:33 · 2 answers · asked by Veng 1 in Singles & Dating

than they are?

2007-03-29 17:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I pay the bills, make certain that all documents, insurance, car titles etc. etc are taking care of. I clean the house, I make certain that the cars get serviced on time, It seems that I control everything. I wanted to be taken care of by my husband not the other way around. Are there any wives who feel disappointed like this?

2007-03-29 17:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by R G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just encounter this question several weeks ago.

I don’t have a sister that’s why I’m curious, so for those you have what will you do?

2007-03-29 17:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by Cass 2 in Family

I have NOT seen Casino Royale but i heard that there is a part in the movie where Eva Green who plays Vesper Lynn is crying in the washroom floor, and James Bond is comforting her. Why was she crying and why was he comforting her?
Thanks:)

2007-03-29 17:26:46 · 13 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom has been really mad because her dad is on his death bed. She gets mad sometimes and I think its because she knows her dad is going to leave and she has no control. So she gets these moods and yells, calls me my dad and sister names. She is also starting to hit which is totally not like her. What can I do to calm her down?

2007-03-29 17:25:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My son is 14 & my husband has raised him from the age of 3, (bio dad is loser & not in picture) I, having been married before;wasnt to quick to have my husband adopt my son until I felt our marriage, & my husband and my son had a real strong foundation. well 11yrs &2 more siblings into our family, we are wanting to solidify our family by proceeding with the adoption. I havent told my son yet. But in passing I mention the possiblity of his name being not change but hyphened like his younger brothers(ex from john smith to john smith-jones) I in turn was given a smart remark of"I dont want a long name thats so stupid" I am looking at the long term, but I realize I am dealing with a teen (who is hot & cold up & down min to min) I want to consider what he wants, but he's also very immature. In the past when he's had his"I hate the world moods" he's said that he feels angry that his siblings have their dad & he doesnt have his "real" one even though my husband has loved them all the same

2007-03-29 17:24:55 · 5 answers · asked by S P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The doctors told me that my mom has a very slim chance of survival and I feel like she is slipping away already, I am very depressed and I don't know what to do... she is my mom, my everything... How do I say goodbye?

2007-03-29 17:24:06 · 18 answers · asked by Honey83 5 in Family

ith my daughter without her knowing ( my daughter is 5yr) im going thru visitation issue currently can a laywer except the audio and submit it into court as evidence?

2007-03-29 17:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by Esperanza C 1 in Family

2007-03-29 17:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by younmanofthegarden 5 in Singles & Dating

because we chat online everyday ,and she is my coworker's best friend.she gave me her phone number,but i have never call cause i'm still not sure if i wanna date her.the problem is that i don't seek a long term relationship,which probably she prefer.i don't know what to do.

2007-03-29 17:21:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother's ex-wife lives in my mother's house in India. My mother lives abroad and has not been able to go back since she got sick and cannot travel. We want to kick this woman out of the house. How can we does this legally? we are in the UK.

2007-03-29 17:17:34 · 11 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend and i liked the same guy. then, she said to his best friend," i used to like him but now she likes him." she still likes him but doesnt admit it. now his best friend told him i like him. is she jealous or is she just trying to get him for herself? I dont know what to say to her. HELP!

2007-03-29 17:16:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 17:14:20 · 4 answers · asked by Shreeya 1 in Friends

How can i tell him i don't want him to hang out with us all the time, that he can be annoying not because of his disability but just because of his unique character?

2007-03-29 17:09:55 · 6 answers · asked by Richard J 3 in Friends

At school, this guy, who is a couple years older than me, always stares at me whenever we see each other. Once, he was sitting down, I was walking pass his table, and he just turned his head 90 degrees to look at me. He makes it highly obvious. Sometimes, he just glances. He always stares with a serious look on his face. We never talked at all, and we don't know each other. All I know is that he has a girlfriend. However, I believe they're serious. We make eye contact whenever we see each other, and I would look away quickly, most of the time.

Do you think he's interested? Or am I just over-analyzing?


Should I smile next time?

2007-03-29 17:05:38 · 5 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

im 14 years old my girlfriend is 22 years old... ok she has always been a virgin and i havent ... we did it inside her room and now she is tellin me dat shes pregnant and im extremely surprised and scared what should i do? But da thing is she doesnt want abortion or nothin she wants a baby and now im really stuck inside this problem??? plzzzz plzzzzz plzzzz help me im really concerned and dont no wat do plz help me i dont wat 2 do should i run away, or live wit her plz help me i dont no wat to do???

2007-03-29 16:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok your thoughts, im 23, a guy, avergage shape but flat stomach and tan. when do you think its cool and excpected for me to go shirtless? when is it not cool? like what situations, scenarios, would you say, hey thats cool.

2007-03-29 16:39:41 · 2 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl who does not like me back. What is the best way to get her attention or get her to notice me more. We are pretty good friends but once she found out I like her its been different. We go to the same school, live about 30 second walk, take the same bus etc.. She likes "outgoing" guys. I really need help... Only reply with useful information please! (For reference, I am 15 years old and so is she)

Thanks in advance

2007-03-29 16:38:33 · 13 answers · asked by Tupac1123 1 in Singles & Dating