She was cheating so i told him was that wrong?
2007-03-29 17:38:59 · 11 answers · asked by His 1 & Only 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a close friend of mine and i couldn't stand seeing him get played by her it wans't right.
2007-03-29 17:44:43 · update #1
To all of u who are writting saynfg that deep doen I want him u couldn't be more wron i myself am engaged and I do not want him like i said he is a close friend of mine from middle school. thank you for respectful answers
2007-03-29 17:49:40 · update #2
Real friends and family tell others what they need to know, not what they want to hear. In the long run, although you feel bad for breaking them up, he will respect you for for being strong enough to be truthful with what you knew. You allowed him to make the choice to stay with someone who was "playing" him or end the realtionship. But you also taught your cousin a very important lesson as well...there are people who care enough to speak up when someone is being mistreated!...even family
You go girl!
2007-03-29 17:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by CSnumber1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you have felt better if you knew she was cheating and kept quiet about it? Don't you think that it's only fair that in a relationship both parties are honest and faithful to each other? While some people would easily tell you to mind your own business, not many like you would dare step on the line and make others realize their faults and mistakes. Making your cousin realize her mistake isn't also easy on your part as morality is in question.
It would all depend now of your cousin's boyfriend whether to end the relationship or forgive her and give it another try.
2007-03-29 17:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by mijastely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh YEAH! Wow, he's not waiting for a real relationship. you're so wise to get out. seem ahead on your brighter destiny the position Mr. suitable is totally not getting worked up from the kinfolk Christmas photo. you may do sooooo a lot extra valuable. (do not stay the "Jerry Springer teach" existence).
2016-12-03 00:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by declue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how close u are to him. u probably should have minded your own business. the question is why did u tell him? were u trying to break them up so u could have him? or did u not like seeing him get played?
if he was a close friend then it is fine that u told him
2007-03-29 17:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was okay to tell. I hate to see anyone made a fool of. He was bound to know that something was wrong. She is the one who should have told him that she was too young for commitment and wanted more space. However, she didn't. I hope you weren't being vindictive and wanted to deliberately hurt her. If she doesn't speak to you, what have you lost? At least she knows where you stand.
2007-03-29 17:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre very smart.. you did the right thing. dont feel guilty to your cousin.. youre only being honest to all of them. by the way telling the truth is not a sin.
2007-03-29 17:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you look it on his point of view, you did do the right thing because people shouldn't get away with this.
if you look in your cousin's point of view, she might have felt a little hurt & guilty that she kept it to herself.
2007-03-29 17:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a man should always be told when his girlfriend/wife is cheating.
2007-03-29 17:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah u were wrong, cause you are her cousin....he would have eventually found out on his own.....deep down inside, do you want him? if you do, you are trifling.....never come between family and their relationship....let them work it out among themselves
2007-03-29 17:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing
2007-03-29 17:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by kingajs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋