im 14 years old my girlfriend is 22 years old... ok she has always been a virgin and i havent ... we did it inside her room and now she is tellin me dat shes pregnant and im extremely surprised and scared what should i do? But da thing is she doesnt want abortion or nothin she wants a baby and now im really stuck inside this problem??? plzzzz plzzzzz plzzzz help me im really concerned and dont no wat do plz help me i dont wat 2 do should i run away, or live wit her plz help me i dont no wat to do???
2007-03-29 16:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm yeah, thats a really bad situation first of all she is gonna get statutory rape charges against her because thats not legal. (Yes women can get it too). DO NOT run away, that'll only make things worse. Talk to your parents about it and get this whole situation out in the open or else your gonna make things wayyyyyyyyyyyyy worse. And if you didn't want a baby, why were you having sex at age 14 when theres no way you can support a kid???
2007-03-29 16:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be so harsh, but she doesn't love you. What would a 22 year-old want with a 14 year-old. #1 she's commiting a crime, two she prbly has someone her own age already, and three ur prbly just a quick dick. It's prbly not even your baby, get real. Why would you even f**k a 22 year-old. Don't let a rappist mess your life up. Leave her alone.
2007-03-29 17:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by hsmarty12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly believe that you should step up and be a man. I know you are only fourteen but come on your the one who had sex at a younge age and now you have to live with the consequences. This doesnt nessicarilly mean that you have to live with her. This just means that you should take care of your baby.
And make sure that it is yours. even though she says she is a virgin you never know. make sure it is yours before you starte owning up to it.
and what the hell were you doing with a 22 year old can you say rape.
2007-03-29 16:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be dating a 22 year old anyway-- its illegal. what were you thinking? you are still in middle school and she would be in college- the two of you are at two totally different stages in your lives and have completely different goals and motivations. no matter waht you decide a relationship between an adult and a minor (consentual or not) is illegal and can cause alot of trouble. you and her need to speak with your parents about this situation or you need to speak with an adult you trust (other than her) about the whole thing and figure out what to do from here
2007-03-29 16:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by softballgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all honesty the whole relationship is gone anyway it needs to end you are both at two different points in your life 22 and 14 wow
2007-03-29 17:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THIS IS TRUE your girlfriend has commited a crime. You are a minor and she's an adult. She is the one who is "stuck" and could go to prison. Don't run away; don't live with her. Leave her alone!
2007-03-29 16:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 14 and did a 22 year old girl? ur my hero for real, keep up the good work
2007-03-29 17:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋