Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

The ceremony will be 9 o'clock in the morning, my fiance thinks its a waste of money to decorated the church, and we'll only be there for less that an hour.

2007-03-28 03:54:59 · 17 answers · asked by kathy28 1 in Weddings

okay a couple days ago I was driving my fourwheeler
and I saw my grandmother at a neighbors house so I went with her to see what's up.
Well she was lending a ladder to them for whatever reason
but I noticed that there were 3 girls jumping on the trampoline
I tried to be polite so I said hi
well I ended up jumping with them for like 2 hours haha
I go over there everyday after school [I am home-schooled if you were wondering] and one day one of the girls got a water bottle and started trying to get everyone wet lol
well Abby [5 yrs old] ran off the trampoline and said "I'm afraid
of water.." well I asked and she said "Sometimes my brother will hold my head underwater, but not so long that I drown, but if I do I got to the hospital and come back all new".
Also that day there was a fight inside the house all the girls just sat and listened to the cussing and hitting...
I'm a sort of worried for Abby and her sister but I don't know what I can do, any advice?

2007-03-28 03:54:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi All,

My partner and I will be together for 13 years In May. I would like Idea's on making It a spcl moment, can you pls suggest Ideas, I can't spend to much since our daughter Is graduating In
June and need money for that to...thank you all

Female seeking advice

2007-03-28 03:54:04 · 7 answers · asked by Help 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 03:54:03 · 9 answers · asked by May S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 03:52:47 · 45 answers · asked by emi_lou05 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been invited to my bosses wedding....We wont know really know anyone there....We go to the wedding at 2pm, and the reception at 5pm....I do not want to dance, LOL When do people usually dance? Is there food at the reception or should we eat before?

2007-03-28 03:52:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Help! My son is almost twenty and still lives at home. He works, pays his own bills and very responsible. The problem is with his love life. He has only dated three girls. The first one for 2 years, the second for year. I loved both the girls and became very close to them. I still keep in contact with both girls. They were like daughters to me.
He is an only child and since I have no daughters, I feel like I get too attached to them. He and the last girlfriend just broke it off a few weeks ago and he is seeing the third girl, whom I like also.
The problem is the second girl keeps calling me and says he is still talking to her and they may get back together. Because of this, I am torn between both girls and thinks he needs to make a decision on which one he wants to date. I don't feel that he should be playing either one of them which is what he is doing. I care for the girls and don't want to see them hurt. I have tried to butt out but with both girls calling me, its hard.

2007-03-28 03:51:21 · 9 answers · asked by RM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 03:50:46 · 19 answers · asked by May S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 03:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When I nag, it's usually about little things and I don't actually see it as nagging but more as reminding.... Me and my boyfriend share an appartment with another couple and that's why we only have our tiny bedroom for ourselfs...
I like it neat... I don't even expect him to clean up or anything... I do all that... all I'm asking for and ... yeah.... maybe nagging about.... is that he shuts the closet door and the drawers after he takes something out... and maybe he could put his dirty clothes in the hamper instead of on the floor.... that's it!...
Is that too much?
I just feel like...if I keep reminding him, maybe one day he will get it?

and another thing: We have a fish tank and once a week I clean it... I do that because I was the one who wanted to have fish in the first place...
So last week when he was busy playing video games, I figured that would be a good time to clean the tank... I didn't ask him for help...
and a few minutes after I started, he walked in the room

2007-03-28 03:49:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I can stay but my husband must move out. He no longer has a home if he doesn't do as she wants or see fits. Regardless if he pays them money or not. He must still work for her and regardless if works. I chose not to stay 0r force him to do the work, is that ungrateful?

2007-03-28 03:49:19 · 12 answers · asked by Franchesca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 21 and I know alot of people at school but these friendships dont extend out of that environment - I dont hang out with them or get to go out, how do I get to the point where I can hang out with people. Ive never dated either, and now Im concerned that after college is over I wont have the opportunity to meet so many people as I do in school- is it hopeless or will I meet the right people once i start working - anyone ever in this situation? what were your experiences? Im a really easygoing and nice person and I know I would make a great friend (i have had friends in the past but lost touch) i thought that college was where i would make really deep relationships. any advice

2007-03-28 03:48:45 · 7 answers · asked by kquestions 1 in Friends

2007-03-28 03:48:05 · 9 answers · asked by lighrbright 2000 1 in Friends

2007-03-28 03:47:26 · 17 answers · asked by kissrocks12 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 03:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by shirley j 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 26 years old and I have no children. I have been living with my boyfriend for the past 14 months. He has three children with his ex wife. In July 2006, his oldest daughter (12) came to live with us because her mother was moving to another state. I am starting to have a lot of resentment for this child and it is really bothering me. She has a lot of bad habits and everytime my boyfriend and I get into an argument he always says things like "the only person I'm worried about is my daughter" or "I am going to take my daughter somewhere and we'll be back later". I am starting to resent her because of this and I can't control my feelings. I have tried to talk to my boyfriend about it and he just gets mad and sayd that he won't be with someone who has resentment toward his daughter. What do I do? I just want him to recognize that this has been a difficult transition for me as well and that I don't want to feel like it's 2 against 1 anymore.

2007-03-28 03:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is getting married next month.

In January, she emailed pictures of her engagement ring to the whole family. I wrote her back and congratulated her and asked when the wedding would be. She said she was planning on April but wasn't certain yet. I mentioned it to my sisters and boyfriend - this side of the family is big into reunions, so there wasn't a question in my mind that we'd be invited. Also, my boyfriend's mom lives in the same area as my cousin, and we were going to visit both of them with one trip.

I found out the definite date this morning from my dad, who received his invitation about two weeks ago. My sisters and I didn't receive any. My cousin has my address - we send each other cards at Christmas - and she could've easily asked her parents, if a lack of address was the case.

Am I right to feel a little slighted and disappointed? If she was planning a very small service, I wish she'd mentioned it in her emails with me.

2007-03-28 03:45:18 · 39 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Weddings

I don't wanna make him love me.....It's just that its hard not to try to impress him. Any ideas?

2007-03-28 03:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by Alisha W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend & I are 99% ready to have him move into my house with my 3 children (16,14,10).We have talked with my kids & they are ok, We are looking at 2 months due to a divorce - his idea to give the ex the house.Been dating 6 months-things are good- we are looking at things realistically.I was trying to get the kids to do a few chores while I prepared supper (been a struglling single parent all along) but I had to yell & remind them to finish &they were all yelling at one another & to say the house was loud & caotic is just that - it was!I tried to control the situation, but as with most of the time, I could only do so much - the rest I have learned to let go - I have had too.Well my bf took it hard & said last night over the phone that for the 1st time he felt like he wanted to leave or tell them to shut up and do what they were told, but didn't because he didn't feel comfortable & it hurt me.I know that we are all in for change & it CAN be positive -were not ready are we?

2007-03-28 03:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So i have been dating this guy i work with for about a year and half. It kind of a secret but everybod basically knows. We are always together giggling and he drives me home and picks me up everyday. Anyway we've being sleeping together for about 6 months. He is the only guy i ever been with and lately i have doubts about if im his only girl. He does things like come in to work on monday and for no reason gives me the cold shoulder for the whole week. No phone call. no eye contact, not even a simple hello. But i do catch him staring at me then hell leave the room. I like him and I think he likes me but this has to stop this is the fifth time hes done something like this. How can we move foward in our relationship if acts like i dont exist and the drop of a hat? What is his deal? Help!

2007-03-28 03:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i liked a guy for the longest time and last week we finally kissed, but his best friend is a girl, a girl who HATES me for no apparent reason. and when she found out, she was pissed @ him and me.at first i wasn't too woried but then he started to not talk to me as much, and when ever he's around me he doesn't even look at me, i try to catch his eye and when i do i see no emotion at all, i see like a fliker like there might be somthing there, but sothing is deffinetly wrong, i can tell. i think his friend may have asked him to choose, but when i asked about it he just blew it off, so i tried to talk to the girl, and she wouldn't talk to me. it seems like i need to do somthing but i don't have a clue what. please help me!

2007-03-28 03:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by musicislife 2 in Friends

Since we've received about half of the RSVPs, and I still have a week and a half to go before the due date for them, I started poking around with a seating chart.

I came up with a design on a spread sheet, and now it's just trying to stick family with family and friends with friends. I hate going to weddings and having it be open seating. Then you have family spread out everywhere, and you try to sit in a spot, and someone tells you that it's taken.

So far it's not too much of a headache, but I can see one arising.

Anyone else going through the same thing? What are your thoughts and opinions on seating charts?

My thought is>>I don't care anymore. LOL I'm not going to have 5 people squaking at me, just because I didn't sit Aunt Betty in the right place.

I already had one of my fiance's great aunt's call bawling, because I didn't put her son's name on the invitation. One little mistake. Big deal! Why cry?

2007-03-28 03:43:16 · 9 answers · asked by sweetxgrace 3 in Weddings

We are planning a shower for a friend and cannot think of favors or center pieces. The shower is in the evening and it is just cocktails. Anyone have any creative ideas?

2007-03-28 03:42:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my friend was at the bottom of my very long drive way. My parents dont allow me to hang out with her so we made plans to just hang out. all of the sudden a truck went by her car kinda slow. It was my neighbor he pulled into his drive way then about ten minutes later he can speeding up to my drive way pulled in and asked if we were alright and if we needed any help. I said no and he said are you sure I said yes then he asked what we were up to. I told him I was just heading home. I dont think he knew it was me... but then hes like yea I bet why dont you guys get your asses home. I was so scared. he pulled out and sped home and I ran back up my driveway and picked up the phone so if he tried to call my house it wouldnt let him. I dont know if he will come to my house today and tell my parent but I dont think he knew who i was maybe he thought we were just some kids hanging around. What should I do if he does tell my parents if he say someone was in your driveway last night at 12 am???

2007-03-28 03:42:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend of 10 months has really been dogging on me bad, and last night it all came out but lately weve been having lots of little arguements, and its really starting to effect the relationship....i want them to stop bu i dont know how, were both kind of hardheaded so its hard to agree on whos the best answer, i need some help! and my life is about to get really stressful (i have cheer tryouts) and they freak me out, its my senior year so im worse than ever with he butterflies i want my 6th year, but my botfriend thinks its pointless and really hurts that he doesnt see why i love it so much, he supports me and comes to all the games for me but i still need his interest in it mybe even a little bit! so i need some advice on how to get the bickering to stop SOON!

2007-03-28 03:42:09 · 8 answers · asked by rckstar88 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 03:41:12 · 11 answers · asked by essam e 1 in Friends

we started datin about 2 years ago, and well shes extremely preppy like "Oh My God MY NAILS" and well ive been takin her shoppin alot, and let her shop til she drops on my dime. well it went from, i want American Eagle, to i want Hollister to i want Abercrombie, now she already has all the Dooney and BUrke BAgs and like 4 Coach Bags, But Now She wants this Armani Exchange crap which is like 75 dollars for a tank top, and i really dont wanna put all my money on that clothing just for her, and it dont even look good on her. what do i do. but i dont wanna lose her, ive already tried, telling her to get all the make-up and perfume and lotion she wants, and she told me she already has that. im stuck.

2007-03-28 03:41:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies would you rather your boyfriend to drive a regular descent car, Fast Sports Car, Nice Truck, Other, or it doesnt really matter??

2007-03-28 03:40:52 · 14 answers · asked by JAY 2 in Singles & Dating

by the time she is 18 than i wil be 21

2007-03-28 03:40:07 · 22 answers · asked by DANNY R 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently i have asked a question whether a girl likes a guy who is nice and talks about feelings or if she likes a guy being more confident funny and all that stereotypical guy stuff

i just wanted to know with any honest answers if thats how a guy should act if hes got to be all "guyish" and not really talk about feelings

because i ask my friends who are girls and they say different things but its mostly the same general idea they like guys who can talk about feelings

but then when i ask guys they say you gotta be all funny and cocky and stuff which i think is just stereotype but mabey im wrong

so what does a girl like then ?

thank you for any honest answers

2007-03-28 03:40:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships