i liked a guy for the longest time and last week we finally kissed, but his best friend is a girl, a girl who HATES me for no apparent reason. and when she found out, she was pissed @ him and me.at first i wasn't too woried but then he started to not talk to me as much, and when ever he's around me he doesn't even look at me, i try to catch his eye and when i do i see no emotion at all, i see like a fliker like there might be somthing there, but sothing is deffinetly wrong, i can tell. i think his friend may have asked him to choose, but when i asked about it he just blew it off, so i tried to talk to the girl, and she wouldn't talk to me. it seems like i need to do somthing but i don't have a clue what. please help me!
2007-03-28 03:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by musicislife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel. Don't make him choose between you and his friend, this will only make him disrespect you. If he tells you that he is confused, let him know that you respect how he feels and you will give him the time he needs to sort out his feelings. Let him know that you still care and will be waiting for him, but make it clear that you will not wait forever. If he really cares for you, he will quickly let his best friend know you are the one he wants to be with and if she were really his friend she would respect that.
2007-04-04 16:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by ltlluci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's insecure and jealous and he is not for you right now. It's obvious she is competing for his affections and he is going to eventually use you both and you both will prob lose in the end bc he will find anotherr and anothe and on and on..this is the way it goes with younger guys.seriously..
Keep your distance for now and see what he does. you're not going anywhere soon are you? prob not. So there's no doubt you'll see him from time to time and if he can't "man up' and come talk to you like a real person or friend then he has some growing up to do, huh?
A relationship is not based on a strong crush or a kiss no matter what else has been said or happened..time is on your side and time will surely tell you what is going to happen next if anything..go with your instincts. they will always tell you what's right if you only listen to them...it's a feeling, not in your head or heart...you'll just know things by the "feel" (energy)of them in the air, so to speak, maybe deep in your gut (soul)sometimes
2007-04-05 00:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by simon07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy might be in a "zone of confusion" right now. He's torn with his best friend and you.It is also possible that the other girl made him choose between you and her and she might have rubbed salt to that question by telling him that he knew her first before you or the other girl might have feelings for him and is getting jealous of you.Give the guy space and time but assure him that you will respect his decision and that you will be always be there when he needs you...good luck
2007-03-28 04:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by herky pilot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage isn't worry-free. I purely married January of 07 and ultimately began residing jointly 2 months later. He has 2 boys and that i had a very confusing time adjusting. I went from being single to an on the spot spouse and mom, moved from southwest region to the midwest and a extensive decrease in pay. i grew to become into soo depressed, I cried known, and that i even chanced on lots of old pictures of him and his exes(4) along with his babies. i needed to pass away him after 4 months of marriage. yet over the years, issues have been given extra advantageous. I did ask your self a similar element, Why is love & marriage so confusing? purely wait and notice. stable success.
2016-11-24 19:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something which is not understand by people. That of LOVE. I think that ur in ove with him. Its a very serious problem as I m also afraid about my life about this type os sessions. But Ok I will try to resolve..
Resolve:;
First check out waht type of girl is she good or bad. If good than its with u, If bad then try to get nearer to ur lover(boy) and make a good relationship with him. Try too feel him that ur a tru lover of him. Try to make away that girl 4m him. But if that boy is not good. Then dont try to make any relationship with him. If ur below 15 yers. and then he kissed u I hope its very bad and the boy is very bad. Try as u wish I don't know that ur a good girl. If ur good then prove ur sel better than her in ur society and for him. Pove that ur the best lover. But don't do danger like jumping 4m a hill etc. If ur a true lover then u have to suffer all difficulties comming in his life. Wish u best of Luck??
2007-04-05 01:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by friendship nvr dies but loveDies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His bestfriend is going to have to grow up and give you some respect! That is ridiculous. She is so insecure whenever you are around because she feels that the guy that she is bestfriends with will have a strong connection with you. She is being very manipulative towards your boy and he is letting her, obviously. Don't waist your time. If he finally gets out of her web, then he will come to you. Don't go after him.
2007-04-04 17:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by **Sparkle** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twas' your fault honey. Don't make out with somebody else's bf! What would you feel if a girl does the same thing to you. You need to look for an unattached guy.
2007-04-04 18:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by thatsraven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is hard i have not had that sittuation b4 but i know how it feels to have someone you love not talking to you....if i were you and if i really loved this guy i would get him alone ask him if we were friends if he said no id tell him a friend doesnt get mad at someone cause of their other friends if he said yes id say i love u and im not makeing you choose im just saying if you love me to then why cant we be together....dont listen to ur other friend she is just jealous...
2007-04-05 03:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im not good in giving advice but i think you should talk to your boyfreind about it tell them how you feel but please dont make him choose between you and his bestfreind.be freindly to his bestfrend even she doenst like you show her proved to her that you are the right girl for her bestfriend for she is acting that way maybe because she is just jealous that is normal to a freind.
2007-04-03 17:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Pheuls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advice u that to ignore him and to try make any new relations with another guy, be sure that he see u with this another guy, let any one of your freind watch his eye and then u can deciede what to do,
your' s M. ORABY
2007-04-04 22:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by mohamedORABY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋