Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

I have been treated really badly by some guys and has a result I just feel like I am not good enough. I know there is nothing wrong with me, most likely it was just the guys I chose. Recently I have realized that I stay away from guys I might be interested in because I think they are going to be jerks like all the others which is not fair. What can I do to get over this?

2007-03-28 03:12:31 · 11 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

when a girl stares at u alot call u cute like 3 or 4 times and then put her 2 hands on her face and stareing does it really mean she likes u?

2007-03-28 03:10:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 03:10:17 · 37 answers · asked by Trisha S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i go chruch this girl stares at me alot and she wisper to her friend then i was cute and i think she call me cute like 2 times more befor and when her girlfirend take pics of everyone in the chruch and i tihnk she saw me in one of the pic i dont know busaec i was siting far and she say hes cute cute and her girlfirend say thens why u stare at him then the girl looks at me then the pic was then girl talking about me?

2007-03-28 03:09:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in love with that girl from america , she is going for a trip to miami , she told me before that she dont like to wear bikini , and she feels embrassed when she wears it , but she told me yesterday that she have to wear it in miami cause if she dont wear it she will be odd out of all, is that true and is there girls that feel embrassed of something like bikini , and is it my right to tell her not to wear it i am jealous guy , so i dont like this kind of clothes and what about the narrow and short clothes i keep telling her not to wear narrow shirts or short skirts is that strange there help me please

2007-03-28 03:09:42 · 25 answers · asked by hossam k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 03:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by KarenHeaven 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it about a firefighter that makes them sexy? I am married to one.

2007-03-28 03:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Olivereindeer 5 in Singles & Dating

i've been dating my bf for 8 months...but yesterday, he took his car and now, is traveling to Florida... he didnt call me....he didnt tell anyone about this....

he said i should live with him...but i cant....

waht should i do???

he says he love me and i love him so much... but it's too hard for me???

what should I do?

2007-03-28 03:08:47 · 6 answers · asked by Mari 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and a post-graduate from college. All of my high school and college friends are either still doing their bachelor's degree or have gone onto grad school. Of all my friends, I have been in the longest relationship and we are now engaged after 5 years. I am getting married later this year and have already found a home (closing date is soon).

With the advent of MySpace and Facebook, I have found myself keeping in contact with friends while I work my full-time job. Although I feel I have a lot accomplished at only 23, I see pictures of them traveling and going to parties and get somewhat jealous. I know I am blessed to have a wonderful fiance and have the money to afford a home right off the bat, but I feel like I might have matured too quickly. I'm not one for clubs and parties too much, but have had my share and have traveled a little.

Is it normal to feel this awkward transition at 23 or is it too soon to feel so out of place, even with all I have around me and going for me?

2007-03-28 03:08:00 · 22 answers · asked by sgtpepper722 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he was in the car crash too, she was taken from him and i think he still needs time on his own to get over her, he told me he has box of photos and newpaper clippings, he still had her photo in his wallet when we had been together 6 months and he went to work away aboard and took her photo. but from a totally selfish point of view i think hes the one for me, and i dont want to loose him and he says hes over her, but i dont know if i should break it off so he can have time to get over what happend fully. he used to visit her grave every week and her parents but told me he doesnt now. i would never stop him from doing any of that, i told him he should just do whatever helps him get through it. but i cant get her out my head, i mean his family have called me by her name a few times, im i just a look alike replacement for him to ease the pain? or am i over reacting?

2007-03-28 03:07:55 · 6 answers · asked by Kate R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not talking crying sensitive, but thoughtful and able to share feelings with a girl. A man who can communicate and will tell his woman how he feels.

2007-03-28 03:07:05 · 23 answers · asked by jozwiak36 3 in Singles & Dating

hi thanks everyone some great answers still dont know what to do. he has done it before and i had a breakdown over it. I think he needs to go. Still dont understand why he did it again.After he said it was just fun.

2007-03-28 03:07:00 · 12 answers · asked by terri c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes I hate myself because I am so timid that I can't even say what I want to do.
In addition, I currently broke up with my boyfriend because of my problem. I feel like I'm a loser. I think I need to do something to solve this serious problem. what can I do? Help me

2007-03-28 03:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I and few of my friends has been planning on a bachorlette party. However my fiance knows that one of my friend is in charge of preparing the bachorlette party. She's kinda of a trouble maker and wild.

This make my fiance very uncomfort. He told me that he don't care what the traditional say, he doesn't want any other men to touch me in any way. He say he doesn't care if we go watch male stripping, have a night out, or whatever. But no one touch me.

I know he had a really horrible experience in high school when his former close female friend getting sexual assault. He even still get down about it sometime. I believe this is the main reason he doesn't like people he care about to be too comfort around strangers.

I don't know what to do. Should I tell my friend something or not?

2007-03-28 03:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by Alicia K 1 in Weddings

i have teenage kids but i have no grandchildren yet!is the thirties old !

2007-03-28 03:06:24 · 32 answers · asked by astra 5 in Family

well I like him a lot but I know he wont want more than a friendship and I think he likes someone else back home so if he doesnt go back home he might stay here but his mom talked with my mom and she said he could stay with us so that would be awesome (his mom cant stay with him. until now he was with his sister here but she had to go back and help the family business) but I dont know what to do... to forget him or keep trying to get him to like me or something else? hes 15 going 16 next month and im 17 going 18 in september... I had the impression he liked me at first but after it wore off and now I get the feeling hes not too interested... but I'm not sure I'm really confused...

2007-03-28 03:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

And is it possible that the two can in up getting back together has this ever happened to anyone.

2007-03-28 03:05:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where I work there is a woman whom, in all honesty, I am attracted to. We do the usual at work banter but then there are times that I catch a glimpse of what I would call a signal.
She goes out of her way to find me at times. She and I do the "poke-fun" at each other game.

I ask because the world in which we live in is such that even a simple "Would you like to get a cup of coffee sometime?" could lead to a harassment issue. What is a man to do?

2007-03-28 03:05:53 · 4 answers · asked by Michael N 1 in Singles & Dating

Be obscene, please, I have "Issues". Perhaps Tourette, I don´t know...

2007-03-28 03:05:48 · 7 answers · asked by Gabriel G 3 in Singles & Dating

I and few of my friends has been planning on a bachorlette party. However my fiance knows that one of my friend is in charge of preparing the bachorlette party. She's kinda of a trouble maker and wild.

This make my fiance very uncomfort. He told me that he don't care what the traditional say, he doesn't want any other men to touch me in any way. He say he doesn't care if we go watch male stripping, have a night out, or whatever. But no one touch me.

I know he had a really horrible experience in high school when his former close female friend getting sexual assault. He even still get down about it sometime. I believe this is the main reason he doesn't like people he care about to be too comfort around strangers.

I don't know what to do. Should I tell my friend something or not?

2007-03-28 03:05:40 · 13 answers · asked by Alicia K 1 in Weddings

Had a crush on someone living in a foreign land. But things didn't work out. Now i desparately want to forget her for life. But the mind keeps remembering her throughout the whole day..keep thinking about what she must be doing, what she must be wearing, etc ? i had in the past emailed her my romantic feelings but she didn't respond..and now am left holding the bucket...I know i need to let go....but the mind keeps.......
is it because i didn't get Closure? if yes, how does one get closure...Please help !!!

2007-03-28 03:05:32 · 3 answers · asked by Cheshirecat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife and i have been married for less than a year. we've been together for six years. I'd say for the past four years of our relationship our sex life and intimacy has steadily declined to the point of nothing. It's honestly mostly on her end and she says there's alot of things about our relationship she can't get past and that counseling will not fix. She's basically accepted this way of life for us and says she can manage. After a lot of thought and consideration I've decided that I love her enough to make the sacrifice to live that kind of life with her if that is indeed what she is willing to do. While she says she feels lonely and sad and depressed she says she can manage but doesn't want to be unfair to me. She mentions "romance" just not being there but again, its on her end. In a marriage I've always assumed people fall in and out of love all the time but you enjoy those good times and get through the bad. Are there any women that have experienced this?

2007-03-28 03:05:31 · 20 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been having problems with my wife for some time now. We fight constantly and I found solace in the arms of a woman I work with. I just found out though that she is pregnant with my child and she is going to keep the baby. What should I do about my job, should I leave? And my wife has no idea yet. I know I am in trouble, so what should I do?

2007-03-28 03:05:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alone

melancholy in the silence,
drowning in my pain.
the night you turned away,
and left me under the rain.

regret within the twilight,
what is it that I lack?
my dreams were shattered that day,
when my fears became a fact.

Emptiness by the abyss,
all hope crashing down,
this feeling comes and hits,
when you're not around.

solitude in the symphony,
dancing to the tune on my own,
these feelings creep to me,
whenever i'm alone.

2007-03-28 03:04:53 · 6 answers · asked by <Xariel the Stray> 2 in Singles & Dating

What were your experiences? Do the step children accept you? Do you feel uncomfortable/jealous of the deceased 1st wife? Would you feel uncomfortable if the kids have framed photos in their room of your husband, the deceased wife together?

2007-03-28 03:04:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Some women cheat on their partner and, after a while, give up their affear and actually say that it helped them love their partner even more.

2007-03-28 03:03:50 · 10 answers · asked by me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why would he start the conversation off . that he just got out of the shower and that he would go and get his other phone but it was to cold outside

2007-03-28 03:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Theres a girl that i really like, we've known each other for ages and used to be really good friends and only recently become close again. She broke up with her of which she'd been with for around 2 years a couple of weeks ago, and we've hung out a few times since. We talk for hours and its always very flirty, and when we went out a few days ago she was very affectionate and we eneded up kissing.

We made plans for her to come to my place this weekend and tonight she told me she was going out (just for a drive to maccas or sumthin) with one of my friends.

What is going on here, i know i cant tell her she cant go, but is she playing me?

2007-03-28 03:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by cnfused 1 in Singles & Dating

I am tired of dealing with and am ready to move on!! Someone tell me what to do!!! And is anyone interest?!?!?!? (lol) ill treat u really good i promise!!! Anyone interest?!?!?! Whats up?

2007-03-28 03:02:00 · 7 answers · asked by JessieRae07 2 in Singles & Dating

im kinda dark and i have blue green eyes should i keep my hair blonde or dark?

2007-03-28 03:01:26 · 23 answers · asked by ♥jonda♥sue♥ 2 in Singles & Dating