i need help pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

Question

i am in love with that girl from america , she is going for a trip to miami , she told me before that she dont like to wear bikini , and she feels embrassed when she wears it , but she told me yesterday that she have to wear it in miami cause if she dont wear it she will be odd out of all, is that true and is there girls that feel embrassed of something like bikini , and is it my right to tell her not to wear it i am jealous guy , so i dont like this kind of clothes and what about the narrow and short clothes i keep telling her not to wear narrow shirts or short skirts is that strange there help me please

Answer 1

Yeah Borat..girls wear bikinis because of peer pressure, but they them off when a real man asks!

Answer 2

OK...listen: you have no right to tell her what she can or cannot wear. I understand that you are jealous; every guy is a bit overprotective of his girlfriend...this is natural. But still, you have no right to tell her that she can't wear tight shirts and short skirts. If she feels comfortable in them, then she should wear them. I don't cos I don't like guys staring at me, but it's my personal choice, not my boyfriend's.

Generally, if you do anything to influence her personal development or infringe on her freedom, you should be crucified. It's just not fair, cos she is the way she is and you have no right to ask her to change.

Either way, yes, there are plenty of girls who don't feel comfortable wearing a bikini. That is because, you know that girls always think there is something wrong with their bodies and they just don't feel comfortable in something that might expose those imperfections. And yes, if you go to Miami, FL, you are basically going to the beach full of beautiful people with fake boobs and bleach in their hair. So, you are less likely to stand out in the crowd, if you wear a bikini than if you don't. So, she has to wear a bikini if she doesn't want to draw too much attention to herself. It's what we here call a "catch 22."

Hope this helped!

Answer 3

It is true that in hot places girls where less clothes. If a girl has a good body then she will wear a bikini. What is your right is to explain how you feel about those types of clothes. It then is her choice to either agree or disagree and it is her choice to wear these kinds of clothes or not. How you react is the key. If you truly do not like it and you yell at her or treat her badly because she did not do what you wanted then perhaps you need to find a girl that is willing to allow you to dictate to her what she should and should not do.
All in all though it is her choice to wear what she wants. If you love her you will accept her and not try to change her to be what you want and what you like.

Answer 4

I would say the majority of females wear bikinis in most parts of the world unless they are very overweight (and unfortunately even then some still wear them - UGH!). It appears that you have jealousy and trust issues and this is something you need to deal with. If you don't deal with these issues now they will grow within you and become all encompassing and controlling of your life and anyone you enter into a relationship with and eventually will ruin any relationships you have. Talk to a counseling or therapist and learn how to deal with these issues. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 5

Hossam, this is America and last I heard it is still a FREE Country. No man has any rights in the U.S.A. to tell any other person what to wear, what to say, what to do. Whether you approve of the bikini or not is not for you to decide. This is just the way we do business here in the U.S. You can either like it or lump it!

Answer 6

Not sure where you are from, but in America women can do as they please like men do. They do not live their life controlled by a man. It may be she is young & not use to her devoloping body so she is a little uncomfortable wearing a bikini at first but once she gets used to it & sees she is like the rest of the girls she will be alright. If you want a woman to control look in your country or Americanize yourself.

Answer 7

I believe you should talk to her about how you feel. I do understand that men in certain backgrounds feel that its not proper for women to dress in revealing clothes. If you two are in a serious relationship then she should respect ur wishes on what you doont want her to wear. Talk to her and see where it goes. Also it seems as if she is trying too hard to fit in and she shouldnt, if she does not feel comfortable wearing a bikini then she shouldnt wear it.

Answer 8

if you love this girl like you say you do, don't try and restrict what she wears or what she does, try and be happy for her and be proud of her else you risk becoming a control freak,if she is not happy wearing a bikini then she should not be pressurized just because everyone else is. she should be her own person and be confident.

Answer 9

omg u have lost your mind!!! u are in america and women do what they want....and she has a problem to bc she should dress comfortable whenever, wherever....so what if shes the odd one out, when shes in miami....she needs to feel comfortable and sexi within her own skin....and yes some girls do feel a lil uncomfortable in bikinis....like myself....i dont like to show my butt in a two piece so i would were some cute,swimmable shorts....STOP telling her what to wear and not to wear....your not her dad....your her boyfriend...its hot *** miami for gosh sakes....its HOT!!!

Answer 10

Maybe she feels embarrassed because she is insecure about her body,anyway is she's going to the beach she have to wear one.You don't have to ask her not to do it because you like to see girls on bikini at the beach,on TV,anywhere so don't be selfish.