my boyfriend of 10 months has really been dogging on me bad, and last night it all came out but lately weve been having lots of little arguements, and its really starting to effect the relationship....i want them to stop bu i dont know how, were both kind of hardheaded so its hard to agree on whos the best answer, i need some help! and my life is about to get really stressful (i have cheer tryouts) and they freak me out, its my senior year so im worse than ever with he butterflies i want my 6th year, but my botfriend thinks its pointless and really hurts that he doesnt see why i love it so much, he supports me and comes to all the games for me but i still need his interest in it mybe even a little bit! so i need some advice on how to get the bickering to stop SOON!
2007-03-28 03:42:09 · 8 answers · asked by rckstar88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he comes to support you, then that is great. But understand that he doesn't have to be so interested in this the way you are. People are different and have different interests. You have to accept that.
Regarding the "little" arguments, maybe there is something bigger at issue in this relationship and the bigger issue is manifested by all of these "little" arguments. Why not just sit with him and have a conversation about what you both expect from each other? If he refuses, then that goes to show you that he is not willing to put the effort into working a relationship that is needed for this to work in the long run.
2007-03-28 03:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couples in my opinion are going to argue. It's our nature. Men and women don't always mix sometimes!! It is very good that he supports you, even though he may not like it, he going right? Try to change the conversation when you guys start bickering...it might help best of luck!
2007-03-28 03:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see cheerleading as pointless, too. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't support someone I cared about if she was going to do it. Small fights and finding your interests beneath him are good signs that the relationship has run it's course and it's time to wrap things up.
2007-03-28 03:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this one is coming to a close. Don't be upset - realize that you had fun while it lasted, but it's time to move on. Plenty of people in the world.
2007-03-28 03:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him, no-one can make someone else change. It sounds like he is demanding and controlling. He will never be happy about anything, drop him now, he will only make you miserable. If it is this hard, it's not worth it. Find someone more easy going.
2007-03-28 03:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sounds kindof familiar to me, my guy isnt interested in anything that i am...we argue all the time too. i think the best thing would be when your argueing, dont try to figure out who has the best answer, try to focus on what would help fix the problem. try to discuss things, and the way you feel about the way he feels. best of luck to you!
2007-03-28 03:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he starts to argue, walk away or tell him youre not going to argue. its hard but i promose it worked for me. tell him you need his support and its imortant to you.
2007-03-28 03:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Mommy!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-28 03:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋